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Angelina And as a reminder https://unwedchastity.org/d/2-misterpoll-who-has-a-chastity-belt-and-has-to-wear-it
Angelina and the original thread no longer exist
I have a full copy of it
Angelina And as a reminder https://unwedchastity.org/d/2-misterpoll-who-has-a-chastity-belt-and-has-to-wear-it
Angelina and the original thread no longer exist
I have a full copy of it
carg Yes, it's there.
https://original.misterpoll.com/forums/296929/topics/290755/
It's weirdly cold tonight and I wanna just snuggle into bed without my belt just snuggle in comfy and warm. I can't - it's already locked on - but it just like feels extra heavy today.
Angelina slept ok thanks
I just feel very small I think - not sure that's the word - but just having to snuggle into bed with the metal locked around me - and like again tonight and tomorrow and yeah....
And I feel I've got no control - it's weird I'm literally in control but then sometimes it's like I'm trapped in this decision I've made and trapped in metal. It's not even the chastity I think - just having the metal locked on me - just feeling weird about it now
Jen I don't mind it in bed at night. It bugs me most when I'm trying to exercise. At that point, yeah, but for the lock, I'd take it off. But the lock on my belt is there to prevent exactly this. A momentary feeling should not be able to overrule my considered (and excellent) choice of chastity.
Jen
Maybe I is less about the metal itself but about your attitude?
If you are certain that is what you want, then embrace it mentally. Stop thinking of the metal as limiting you or you being locked in.
Rather think of it as being a part of what you are now, much like glasses.
In that regard, 24/7 wearers are probably in advantage, because they just get used to it. When you do have the comparison between belted and free all the time it becomes much harder to accept the belted state as 'normal' for yourself.
try to stay calm and make the best of it. you know why you wear the belt and that's the most important thing. there are always good and bad situations, the momentum can tip one way or the other, but it's ultimately a head thing. it's just like running (@Avery will confirm this), even if you're physically fit the head has to play along, but if you tell yourself "i can do this, i can get through this" then you're the winner.
try to stay calm and make the best of it. you know why you wear the belt and that's the most important thing. there are always good and bad situations, the momentum can tip one way or the other, but it's ultimately a head thing. it's just like running (@Avery will confirm this), even if you're physically fit the head has to play along, but if you tell yourself "i can do this, i can get through this" then you're the winner.
One thing I've learned is that you have to take care of yourself. If you do, the whole world looks better. Eat right, get proper rest, get some exercise, buy yourself something to wear, read a good book, meditate.
I don't think we've ever talked about proper rest. The American football coach Vince Lombardi used to say "fatigue makes cowards of us all". He was talking about contact sports, but I've found rest helps me stay on the chastity path. If you're over tired things are just harder, darker, you're more likely to get discouraged.
So keep practicing self care.