Jen
Hi, Jen.
First of all, I am glad to have you around, even if I do not like what you tell us, get a ton of hugs from Europe.
I must tell you that to me what you tell happened to me in two moments, one after one or two years of starting to use the belt and the other last year, which was even one of the causes of my leaving the forum for a few months.
And what you relate and related to what you say is quite similar to what happened to me last year. I am very used to live with frustration, and I do not see it as a bad thing, that is precisely why we use the belt, and this frustration dissipated after more or less time, and nothing happened.
But last year it began to generate some heaviness, it happened to me as it did to you. The urgency would go away, but then I would feel bad for several days, thinking about everything.
It helped me to turn to my boyfriend, to open my mind and start doing certain things.
I see myself now and I was very taliban, obviously I do not see it well for a newly formed couple, but for one, of years, it is not bad that we take care of our boyfriend.
The belt is there to taint us with the pleasure of the flesh, but it ca not rob us of our mental well-being.
Watching him enjoy himself restored my self-esteem and made me enjoy myself immensely, even, ironically though the cravings grew exponentially.
I felt much better, more relaxed and the step we climbed in involvement as a couple, incredible.
I, of course, do not suggest anything, because that is absolutely dependent on your ethics and your state of mind.
If my experience does not help you, you should think, perhaps, to make a pause and see if after a time without a belt to be without it is better or worse.
A kiss. Cheer up, and let's see if we see you more here, @Jen
