Using a chastity belt as a means to "test" a relationship

Angelina That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right?

If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

Angelina i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one

HHelen And ask her to lock herself back after?

Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

Christine

In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

Vanessa In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

I meant right after wedding.

Vanessa If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

that's true, but on the one hand we have no other possibilities (at least according to the current status) on the other hand camryn supports me with everything

Vanessa Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

And if she is still virgin, schedule another "session" for tomorrow

Vanessa (but you would have to support her too is she would be still virgin).

she is still a virgin and yes i will also support her, this is what i mean by saying that shared pain is half pain

Vanessa If they're alone,without the abstinence belt on her,it would be very unlikely she would be still virgin!

Was it so easy for you for the first time?

Vanessa They can marry after they have their own place to live.

Therefore they only need to have this place to live together to have her belt off.

Angelina that shared pain is half pain

Not sure it would apply in this situation...

HHelen

No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend...But I think they would be able to overcome it if they're in love and know it would probably be the only opportunity until marriage.Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.

Christine

Right.It seems @HHelen plan to let her daughter choose if she keep wearing it or not when living alone,or with her boyfriend.

Vanessa No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend

So, it might not work initially.

Vanessa Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.

They should rehearse before

HHelen

It is unlikely it wouldn't work.Especially if they have most of the day alone together.

Angelina

I hope you're right,even if not sure it would ease the pain much...

Renita

It would be hard with the belt on!

Vanessa I hope you're right,even if not sure it would ease the pain much...

of course it will be painful, but it can still be a good feeling to finally be intimate with my girlfriend/wife

Renita They should rehearse before

They can rehearse it for the wedding night.

Angelina

Sure,but even better if without pain.Anyway,I don't think it would be possible to convince your father to let you be intimate with your girlfriend one time before your wedding...

Vanessa Anyway,I don't think it would be possible to convince your father to let you be intimate with your girlfriend one time before your wedding...

well that i will not have an orgasm before the wedding is unfortunately a fact, but i will at least try that i can give camryn one

Angelina

I guess you've a bit more chance to convince him about it,even if not sure he would agree.

Vanessa

like i said, i will at least try. it would probably also make the wedding night a little more pleasant, if we don't both have pain

Angelina If your first sex night will be with another girl have you already planned to buy pegging sex toys to break your hymen? Few biological girls have penis...