HHelen I still prefer to keep her belted until wedding.

like almost all parents here

    Vanessa It can be hard for them,for several reasons.

    Then where are they going to live?

        Angelina That's true, but shared pain is half pain, right? 😉

        If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

        Angelina i did not know the word and found 4 different translations in 4 different translation programs, and just chose one 😂

        🤣

        HHelen And ask her to lock herself back after?

        Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

        Christine

        In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

                  Vanessa In their house,after studies and having a job(at least one of them),for example.

                  I meant right after wedding.

                      Vanessa If both feel pain,it wouldn't be very helpful...And,even in an heterosexual relationship,or if one of the two wives is not virgin,it could be too painful(even if shared)during(and a bit after)the first time to truly enjoy it...

                      that's true, but on the one hand we have no other possibilities (at least according to the current status) on the other hand camryn supports me with everything

                          Vanessa Or lock her back at the end of the afternoon,when you come home.

                          And if she is still virgin, schedule another "session" for tomorrow 🙂

                              Christine

                              They can marry after they have their own place to live.

                              Angelina

                              Right,no choice in your case,but good she would support you(but you would have to support her too is she would be still virgin).

                              HHelen

                              If they're alone,without the abstinence belt on her,it would be very unlikely she would be still virgin!😉

                                      Vanessa (but you would have to support her too is she would be still virgin).

                                      she is still a virgin and yes i will also support her, this is what i mean by saying that shared pain is half pain 😉

                                          Vanessa If they're alone,without the abstinence belt on her,it would be very unlikely she would be still virgin!

                                          Was it so easy for you for the first time?

                                              Vanessa They can marry after they have their own place to live.

                                              Therefore they only need to have this place to live together to have her belt off.

                                                  Angelina that shared pain is half pain 😉

                                                  Not sure it would apply in this situation...

                                                  HHelen

                                                  No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend...But I think they would be able to overcome it if they're in love and know it would probably be the only opportunity until marriage.Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.

                                                  Christine

                                                  Right.It seems @HHelen plan to let her daughter choose if she keep wearing it or not when living alone,or with her boyfriend.

                                                          Vanessa No,I was stressed and a bit scared,even if I loved my boyfriend

                                                          So, it might not work initially.

                                                              Vanessa Not sure it would apply in this situation...

                                                              definitely yes, because my girlfriend always supports me and I always support her 😃

                                                                  Vanessa Even more if they wanted it since long time,but were prevented due to her belt.

                                                                  They should rehearse before 😃

                                                                      HHelen

                                                                      It is unlikely it wouldn't work.Especially if they have most of the day alone together.

                                                                      Angelina

                                                                      I hope you're right,even if not sure it would ease the pain much...

                                                                      Renita

                                                                      It would be hard with the belt on!😉

                                                                              Vanessa I hope you're right,even if not sure it would ease the pain much...

                                                                              of course it will be painful, but it can still be a good feeling to finally be intimate with my girlfriend/wife

                                                                                  Renita They should rehearse before

                                                                                  They can rehearse it for the wedding night.

                                                                                    Angelina

                                                                                    Sure,but even better if without pain.Anyway,I don't think it would be possible to convince your father to let you be intimate with your girlfriend one time before your wedding...

                                                                                        Vanessa Anyway,I don't think it would be possible to convince your father to let you be intimate with your girlfriend one time before your wedding...

                                                                                        well that i will not have an orgasm before the wedding is unfortunately a fact, but i will at least try that i can give camryn one

                                                                                            Angelina

                                                                                            I guess you've a bit more chance to convince him about it,even if not sure he would agree.