Vanessa I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt 🤣

Vanessa But the rules can't be adapted easily.

of course it is possible, as far as I know they even have a contract. then it is even easier 🙂

        Sara2001 I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.

        Good you can discuss freely about it,to be sure it is still good for both of you.

        I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

        Angelina well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt 🤣

        If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often! 😉

        Angelina of course it is possible

        Possible,sure,but easy,not so sure...

                Vanessa I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

                me too, especially because it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

                Vanessa If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often! 😉

                that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

                      Angelina it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

                      I agree.

                      Angelina that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

                      I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

                            Vanessa I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

                            exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

                                Angelina exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

                                I think these offers are very unlikely for us, because our parents wouldn't be able to prove that we don't cheat. Daniel says he trusts me that I want to live in chastity for him, but that I will not be strong enough to stay away from an opportunity when it occurs and that after I have used an unwanted opportunity, there would be some kind of mistrust between us. As long as I stay belted all the time, there is no reason for misstrust.

                                    Sara2001

                                    yes it is an almost impossible rule, similar to the rule of not touching the breasts without chastity bra

                                    i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

                                        Angelina i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

                                        Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution 🙁

                                            Sara2001 Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution 🙁

                                            this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

                                                Angelina this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

                                                What effort does your father have? I only see the effort on my side. For my father it's very easy how everything is organised. He opens us once a week and doesn't have to worry anything else during the week.

                                                Vanessa But not the best...

                                                Definitely not for us 🙁

                                                      Angelina
                                                      Chastity belt is not though for parents comfort, but for girls safety.
                                                      Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
                                                      Lock and forget is not possible.

                                                          Sara2001 What effort does your father have?

                                                          the chastity belt is an extreme challenge for the relationship. it could easily happen that we distance ourselves very far from each other. he always has to make sure that i am psychologically stable enough and can handle the situation well

                                                          Ines Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
                                                          Lock and forget is not possible.

                                                          that's exactly what i mean, therefore permanent wearing is a challenge for both sides

                                                                Ines Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
                                                                Lock and forget is not possible.

                                                                This is why it was so important that my wife take my belting seriously.

                                                                  Angelina the chastity belt is an extreme challenge for the relationship. it could easily happen that we distance ourselves very far from each other. he always has to make sure that i am psychologically stable enough and can handle the situation well

                                                                  Of course, I didn't question that. But we have talked about effort. I thought you meant things like time he has to invest for physical maintenance. That was my argument. I didn't want to say that he can lock and forget a wearer from a psychological point of view. It was just about cleaning and maintenance and things like that.

                                                                  Angelina that's exactly what i mean, therefore permanent wearing is a challenge for both sides

                                                                  Psychologicaly yes, but not from a physical point of view and that was my understanding of the question.

                                                                        Sara2001

                                                                        ah, ok then we misunderstood each other sorry. yes, from a physiological point of view you are right, it takes the least effort if the wearer is locked permanently.

                                                                        but i think that the psychological side is much more important, because i think the effort for a abstinence belt is not so much higher than for a chastity belt. but the psychological relationship is much more difficult

                                                                            Angelina but i think that the psychological side is much more important, because i think the effort for a abstinence belt is not so much higher than for a chastity belt. but the psychological relationship is much more difficult

                                                                            I am not sure about this. I have never worn an abstinent belt, but I have seen how my sister had changed over time since she is no longer able to masturbate once a week before sport class. I think knowing that masturbation is impossible and not having an orgasm helps the wearer to miss it less after some time. I think if I would be allowed to masturbate from time to time I would miss my orgasms much more on any other day.

                                                                                Sara2001 I think if I would be allowed to masturbate from time to time I would miss my orgasms much more on any other day.

                                                                                I think so too.

                                                                                  Sara2001 I think knowing that masturbation is impossible and not having an orgasm helps the wearer to miss it less after some time.

                                                                                  i understand why you think so, but i have a completely different opinion. of course it always depends on the character of the girl, but i am 100% sure that i could handle an abstinence belt better. the main reason is that i could accept an abstinence belt better and my anger against the belt would be much less

                                                                                      Angelina the chastity belt is an extreme challenge for the relationship. it could easily happen that we distance ourselves very far from each other. he always has to make sure that i am psychologically stable enough and can handle the situation well

                                                                                      And it means too that our keyholder should spend time related to it.Supervising showers,accepting to talk about it when we need to,or when we have questions...And accept we can be angry or resentful,especially at first...

                                                                                      Sara2001 . I thought you meant things like time he has to invest for physical maintenance.

                                                                                      It was what I think too.My parents need to take some time to supervise my showers if I want to take one without the belt on,which can happen pretty often during periods or when it is hot.

                                                                                      Sara2001 I think knowing that masturbation is impossible and not having an orgasm helps the wearer to miss it less after some time.

                                                                                      Not so sure.It would be very helpful for me to have some breaks to relieve my urges,even if I would probably want to have such breaks more often.

                                                                                      Angelina

                                                                                      Me too.An abstinence belt,or,at least,having some breaks,alone with my chastity belt off,would help me.