Time between climax

Renita

Vanessa She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

This is the drawback of mutual keyholding,

Angelina

Renita

it is to be seen rather positive. so nobody misuses his power as a key holder 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes, we decided that I should always have very strict rules.

You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

Angelina i think once a week would be something i could accept without being very frustrated. more often would be better of course 😉

I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

Angelina well as i have read, both are often very horny. if both decide to never, it could even be very funny 😂

🤣

Renita

Right.

Angelina

But the rules can't be adapted easily.

bismarck

Sara2001 Yes, I just saw this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iL0ApVOSFuk family rules on women can be very strict!

Angelina

bismarck

i wouldn't say that @Sara2001 has the same strict rules as women in Afghanistan, we still live in the west world 🙂

Sara2001

Angelina i wouldn't say that @Sara2001 has the same strict rules as women in Afghanistan, we still live in the west world 🙂

I think my situation is completely different. The most important differences is, I entered this lifestyle willingly (at least after wedding) and it is not demanded by the government or society.

Angelina

Sara2001

right, the poor women in afghanistan usually have no other choice, you have 🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.

Angelina

Vanessa I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt 🤣

Vanessa But the rules can't be adapted easily.

of course it is possible, as far as I know they even have a contract. then it is even easier 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001 I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.

Good you can discuss freely about it,to be sure it is still good for both of you.

I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

Angelina well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt 🤣

If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often! 😉

Angelina of course it is possible

Possible,sure,but easy,not so sure...

Angelina

Vanessa I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

me too, especially because it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

Vanessa If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often! 😉

that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

Vanessa

Angelina it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

I agree.

Angelina that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

Tim

The conversation here made me curious.

Angelina that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

Vanessa I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

Angelina exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

Sara2001 I think these offers are very unlikely for us, because our parents wouldn't be able to prove that we don't cheat. Daniel says he trusts me that I want to live in chastity for him, but that I will not be strong enough to stay away from an opportunity when it occurs and that after I have used an unwanted opportunity, there would be some kind of mistrust between us. As long as I stay belted all the time, there is no reason for misstrust.

How do you value different kinds of freedom?

Instead of a magic chastity belt, what if you were offered a magical monitoring device like Lindsay Lohan's SCRAM bracelet?

It wouldn't deny you access to your body at all, and you would shower normally, which is better than the belt, but they would always know when you touch yourself, which would be worse.

Would freeing your body be worth giving up that privacy?

Angelina

Vanessa I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

Sara2001

Angelina exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

I think these offers are very unlikely for us, because our parents wouldn't be able to prove that we don't cheat. Daniel says he trusts me that I want to live in chastity for him, but that I will not be strong enough to stay away from an opportunity when it occurs and that after I have used an unwanted opportunity, there would be some kind of mistrust between us. As long as I stay belted all the time, there is no reason for misstrust.

Angelina

Sara2001

yes it is an almost impossible rule, similar to the rule of not touching the breasts without chastity bra

i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

Sara2001

Angelina i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Sara2001

But not the best...🙁

Angelina

Sara2001 Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution 🙁

this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

Sara2001

Angelina this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

What effort does your father have? I only see the effort on my side. For my father it's very easy how everything is organised. He opens us once a week and doesn't have to worry anything else during the week.

Vanessa But not the best...

Definitely not for us 🙁

Ines

Angelina
Chastity belt is not though for parents comfort, but for girls safety.
Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
Lock and forget is not possible.

Angelina

Sara2001 What effort does your father have?

the chastity belt is an extreme challenge for the relationship. it could easily happen that we distance ourselves very far from each other. he always has to make sure that i am psychologically stable enough and can handle the situation well

Ines Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
Lock and forget is not possible.

that's exactly what i mean, therefore permanent wearing is a challenge for both sides

Saintprudence

Ines Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
Lock and forget is not possible.

This is why it was so important that my wife take my belting seriously.

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