Vanessa She may like it more often for her,but not for her daughter,or like less often for her daughter but not for her,so not easy!

This is the drawback of mutual keyholding,

      Renita

      it is to be seen rather positive. so nobody misuses his power as a key holder 🙂

          Angelina i wouldn't say that @Sara2001 has the same strict rules as women in Afghanistan, we still live in the west world 🙂

          I think my situation is completely different. The most important differences is, I entered this lifestyle willingly (at least after wedding) and it is not demanded by the government or society.

              Sara2001

              right, the poor women in afghanistan usually have no other choice, you have 🙂

                Sara2001 Yes, we decided that I should always have very strict rules.

                You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

                Angelina i think once a week would be something i could accept without being very frustrated. more often would be better of course 😉

                I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

                Angelina well as i have read, both are often very horny. if both decide to never, it could even be very funny 😂

                🤣

                Renita

                Right.

                Angelina

                But the rules can't be adapted easily.

                            Vanessa You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

                            I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.

                                Vanessa I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

                                well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt 🤣

                                Vanessa But the rules can't be adapted easily.

                                of course it is possible, as far as I know they even have a contract. then it is even easier 🙂

                                      Sara2001 I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.

                                      Good you can discuss freely about it,to be sure it is still good for both of you.

                                      I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

                                      Angelina well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt 🤣

                                      If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often! 😉

                                      Angelina of course it is possible

                                      Possible,sure,but easy,not so sure...

                                              Vanessa I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

                                              me too, especially because it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

                                              Vanessa If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often! 😉

                                              that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

                                                    Angelina it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

                                                    I agree.

                                                    Angelina that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

                                                    I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

                                                          Vanessa I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

                                                          exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

                                                              Angelina exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

                                                              I think these offers are very unlikely for us, because our parents wouldn't be able to prove that we don't cheat. Daniel says he trusts me that I want to live in chastity for him, but that I will not be strong enough to stay away from an opportunity when it occurs and that after I have used an unwanted opportunity, there would be some kind of mistrust between us. As long as I stay belted all the time, there is no reason for misstrust.

                                                                  Sara2001

                                                                  yes it is an almost impossible rule, similar to the rule of not touching the breasts without chastity bra

                                                                  i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

                                                                      Angelina i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

                                                                      Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution 🙁

                                                                          Sara2001 Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution 🙁

                                                                          this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

                                                                              Angelina this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

                                                                              What effort does your father have? I only see the effort on my side. For my father it's very easy how everything is organised. He opens us once a week and doesn't have to worry anything else during the week.

                                                                              Vanessa But not the best...

                                                                              Definitely not for us 🙁

                                                                                    Angelina
                                                                                    Chastity belt is not though for parents comfort, but for girls safety.
                                                                                    Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
                                                                                    Lock and forget is not possible.