Time between climax

Sara2001

right, the poor women in afghanistan usually have no other choice, you have

Sara2001 Yes, we decided that I should always have very strict rules.

You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

Angelina i think once a week would be something i could accept without being very frustrated. more often would be better of course

I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

Angelina well as i have read, both are often very horny. if both decide to never, it could even be very funny

Renita

Right.

Angelina

But the rules can't be adapted easily.

Vanessa You wouldn't discuss it again right before or right after your wedding?

I think we will discuss everything from time to time, nothing is final forever, but we agreed, that this is a goal both of us support and both of us are willing to work very hard for this goal. I can't say that I love the idea of having that low amount of orgasms but I really love the feeling of giving them up for him.

Vanessa I would still be frustrated,but it would be better than presently,sure!

well, i can expect some self-control from people without belt

Vanessa But the rules can't be adapted easily.

of course it is possible, as far as I know they even have a contract. then it is even easier

Vanessa I would have trouble to have so few orgasms when married...

me too, especially because it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

Vanessa If it was the conditions to be free of the belt,I think I would manage it.But if free without conditions,I would do it more often!

that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

Angelina it is the most intimate moment for a couple and it makes marriage stronger

I agree.

Angelina that's true, but if my father would tell me to get rid of the belt and masturbate only once a week, i would stick to it. the danger would be too great to lose this freedom again

I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

Vanessa I probably would do the same.It would be hard to resist my urges,but if I know I would have to wear the chastity belt again if I disobey,I would not take the risk...

exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

Angelina exactly it could be difficult, but it would definitely be something I would assume

I think these offers are very unlikely for us, because our parents wouldn't be able to prove that we don't cheat. Daniel says he trusts me that I want to live in chastity for him, but that I will not be strong enough to stay away from an opportunity when it occurs and that after I have used an unwanted opportunity, there would be some kind of mistrust between us. As long as I stay belted all the time, there is no reason for misstrust.

Sara2001

yes it is an almost impossible rule, similar to the rule of not touching the breasts without chastity bra

i think in general it can only work if the parents/partners determine the breaks and outside the breaks the belt is worn

Sara2001 Or like in our cases, that there are no breaks. For parents this is sadly the easiest and most effective solution

this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

Angelina

I agree.

Sara2001

But not the best...

Angelina this is not a solution, but an effort for both sides. i think it is not the easiest solution for our parents either

What effort does your father have? I only see the effort on my side. For my father it's very easy how everything is organised. He opens us once a week and doesn't have to worry anything else during the week.

Vanessa But not the best...

Definitely not for us

Angelina
Chastity belt is not though for parents comfort, but for girls safety.
Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
Lock and forget is not possible.

Sara2001 What effort does your father have?

the chastity belt is an extreme challenge for the relationship. it could easily happen that we distance ourselves very far from each other. he always has to make sure that i am psychologically stable enough and can handle the situation well

Ines Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
Lock and forget is not possible.

that's exactly what i mean, therefore permanent wearing is a challenge for both sides

Ines Obviously a normal regime requires a lot of effort and empathy of key holder.
Lock and forget is not possible.

This is why it was so important that my wife take my belting seriously.

Angelina the chastity belt is an extreme challenge for the relationship. it could easily happen that we distance ourselves very far from each other. he always has to make sure that i am psychologically stable enough and can handle the situation well

Of course, I didn't question that. But we have talked about effort. I thought you meant things like time he has to invest for physical maintenance. That was my argument. I didn't want to say that he can lock and forget a wearer from a psychological point of view. It was just about cleaning and maintenance and things like that.

Angelina that's exactly what i mean, therefore permanent wearing is a challenge for both sides

Psychologicaly yes, but not from a physical point of view and that was my understanding of the question.

Sara2001

ah, ok then we misunderstood each other sorry. yes, from a physiological point of view you are right, it takes the least effort if the wearer is locked permanently.

but i think that the psychological side is much more important, because i think the effort for a abstinence belt is not so much higher than for a chastity belt. but the psychological relationship is much more difficult

Angelina but i think that the psychological side is much more important, because i think the effort for a abstinence belt is not so much higher than for a chastity belt. but the psychological relationship is much more difficult

I am not sure about this. I have never worn an abstinent belt, but I have seen how my sister had changed over time since she is no longer able to masturbate once a week before sport class. I think knowing that masturbation is impossible and not having an orgasm helps the wearer to miss it less after some time. I think if I would be allowed to masturbate from time to time I would miss my orgasms much more on any other day.