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Sara2001 Difficult question. Most probably not. Only if I use the way before telling that I found it.

Good,so.Would you be able to not use the possibility to give you self-pleasure before reporting it?

Sara2001 It's useful, it became kind of a mantra or at least it works similar.

I can understand it.

Sara2001 Yes, anything else would be irresponsible or disobedient. That's how it's working.

Good too,so.

Megan I complained and pushed back against every little thing that my Fiance did until we finally made love.

So you were allowed to be intimate with him,even if not married?

Vanessa Good,so.Would you be able to not use the possibility to give you self-pleasure before reporting it?

I think this would depend on the way, but I think I would not use it anyway

Angelina this definitely shows that you have a great respect for daniel and i mean that in a very positive way

Yes, I think I would destroy an important part of the trust between us. It's not an option for me.

Angelina I don't know why it wasn't such a big step then I had expected 2-3 years ago. I don't really have a valid explanation.

For me it is something completely different. I know I am able to do it, so why not? I think maybe it has to do with how I was raised. My mother is a very strong and happy person and I have known about her situation for many many years now. I don't know. Maybe because of this, I am more open to it.

Sara2001

It would need big willpower!

Angelina

Sure,for using it after the wedding,we should feel differently about it,and why we're wearing it.

Angelina i would have to completely change my feelings about the belt

It would not change your feeling if your keyholder is your wife?

Sara2001 I think this is a complete different way to maintain a relationship. I don't think it would fit to our lifestyle. For us, the existence of limitations and punishments are an aspect we enjoy very much. Both of us think it's very sexy that there are awfull consequences for her, if she doesn't act as expected. We often talk about it, we want this kind of pressure and structure in our relationship. We want to feel that I have much more power then she has, that things are no longer her free choice.
From what I can see, she is happier then ever in our dynamic and she is living under the strictest rules she ever had, much stricter then her mother's rules or any other setup that was ever used in her home. She makes very clear to me, that she likes the feeling of having a tough and very clear structure in her life and that she enjoys that she must only follow my rules and orders and doesn't have to worry much about other things.

Yes I think she is happier since she met you and so maybe this is the sort of relationship she needs. I would just throw in that you don't need to "feel" like you have more power over her you do have more power over her. After hearing about everything in your lives I think I could keep giving more of myself to my husband.
I would remind you that the most power my husband has over me is when he pleasures me. you should unlock Sara without any warning and give her a deep g-spot orgasm. Along with the surprise of being belted as ever one minute and then completely nude seconds later and then shaking and screaming a few minutes later and falling out of the chair I can confirm that your power would not be questioned at all. Love isn't a race to dominate Sarah more than her mother!

Angelina , if my wife would ask me about it, i would ask back why she does not trust me anymore

Would she be able to make you understand it is not related to mistrust(if it's not the case)?

Sara2001 it has nothing to do with mistrust.

I agree,there can be many reasons for it.

Angelina camryn once asked me if i would consider it a gift if she continued to wear the belt after the wedding

Pretty sweet to suggest it,not knowing if you would like it.