Vanessa

i also suggested it to camryn, but she doesn't want to. she says she likes the forum (she sometimes reads when i write), but she sees no reason to register

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    Saintprudence

    that's right, it would be especially interesting if the partner does not have the key to the belt

      Angelina she sees no reason to register

      If you put more of your postings in a "member only" area, then she will have a reason to register.

      That assumes, of course, that she doesn't have access to your account's "key".

        Iโ€™ve tried to get my wife on board, but she has zero interest. (Sheโ€™s like Ines in her skepticism but even moreso โ€” she thinks most of this is made-up anyway, and when she read experiences she mostly took it as a guide for what she thought I wanted out of a chastity lifestyle. Correctly, as it turns out.)

          Rick

          first of all, only the administrators can do that, so i can't do it at all. secondly, i have no problem with camryn reading my account ๐Ÿ™‚

          Saintprudence

          well, in the same way we could say that your story is made up, a little trust must be given in an anonymous forum ๐Ÿ™‚

            Iโ€™m well aware of that, which is what I tell her! I think she just considers this place my weird little side hobby that she doesnโ€™t get into very much and just lets me do my thing ๐Ÿ™‚. She figures if reading this stuff makes me happy, sheโ€™ll humor me. She just has no interest in joining up! Which is a pity, I think her perspective would be pretty interesting to add, particularly since her view is evenly split between โ€œdoing this because I want itโ€ and โ€œactively enjoying taking custody of my sexuality.โ€

              Saintprudence

              Yes,but I respect her choice.

              Angelina

              Sure.

              Angelina a little trust must be given in an anonymous forum ๐Ÿ™‚

              I agree.

              Saintprudence I think her perspective would be pretty interesting to add

              I agree,especially as your case if pretty different.

              Daniel thinks that he wouldn't be very welcome here and he doesn't want to fight because of the kind of our relationship.

                Sara2001 Daniel thinks that he wouldn't be very welcome here

                well you explained your relationship pretty well, so he would be very welcome from my side. i would like to know some background information. by that i mean that i am a small hobby psychologist and would like to know why he thinks the way he does ๐Ÿ™‚

                  Sara2001 I would welcome his presence, but admittedly, I probably have the closest kind of relationship to a spouse to what you and he have anyway.

                  Angelina well you explained your relationship pretty well, so he would be very welcome from my side. i would like to know some background information. by that i mean that i am a small hobby psychologist and would like to know why he thinks the way he does

                  You can ask me ๐Ÿ™‚ I know all the ideas behind it very well. Otherwise I wouldn't accept the rules so happily ๐Ÿ™‚

                  Saintprudence Maybe we could convince our significant others to answer questions from the group ๐Ÿ™‚.

                  I will give questions to him and will post his answers if you want.

                  Laura Tell him that only trolls are not welcome

                  I can ask him again.

                    Laura Tell him that only trolls are not welcome

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                    Sara2001 You can ask me ๐Ÿ™‚ I know all the ideas behind it very well. Otherwise I wouldn't accept the rules so happily ๐Ÿ™‚

                    yes but you both have very different roles in your relationship and so i think i could learn more about how he sees himself in his role ๐Ÿ™‚

                      Angelina yes but you both have very different roles in your relationship and so i think i could learn more about how he sees himself in his role

                      I will give a possible question to him and post his answers here, so you can get his point of view this way.

                        Sara2001

                        a very complicated way, but i might come back to it. the problem is that when you answer you have to make sure that we understand whether the answer comes from you or from Daniel