I’ve tried to get my wife on board, but she has zero interest. (She’s like Ines in her skepticism but even moreso — she thinks most of this is made-up anyway, and when she read experiences she mostly took it as a guide for what she thought I wanted out of a chastity lifestyle. Correctly, as it turns out.)

    Rick

    first of all, only the administrators can do that, so i can't do it at all. secondly, i have no problem with camryn reading my account 🙂

    Saintprudence

    well, in the same way we could say that your story is made up, a little trust must be given in an anonymous forum 🙂

          I’m well aware of that, which is what I tell her! I think she just considers this place my weird little side hobby that she doesn’t get into very much and just lets me do my thing 🙂. She figures if reading this stuff makes me happy, she’ll humor me. She just has no interest in joining up! Which is a pity, I think her perspective would be pretty interesting to add, particularly since her view is evenly split between “doing this because I want it” and “actively enjoying taking custody of my sexuality.”

            Saintprudence

            Yes,but I respect her choice.

            Angelina

            Sure.

            Angelina a little trust must be given in an anonymous forum 🙂

            I agree.

            Saintprudence I think her perspective would be pretty interesting to add

            I agree,especially as your case if pretty different.

                    Daniel thinks that he wouldn't be very welcome here and he doesn't want to fight because of the kind of our relationship.

                      Sara2001 Daniel thinks that he wouldn't be very welcome here

                      well you explained your relationship pretty well, so he would be very welcome from my side. i would like to know some background information. by that i mean that i am a small hobby psychologist and would like to know why he thinks the way he does 🙂

                          Sara2001 I would welcome his presence, but admittedly, I probably have the closest kind of relationship to a spouse to what you and he have anyway.

                            Angelina well you explained your relationship pretty well, so he would be very welcome from my side. i would like to know some background information. by that i mean that i am a small hobby psychologist and would like to know why he thinks the way he does

                            You can ask me 🙂 I know all the ideas behind it very well. Otherwise I wouldn't accept the rules so happily 🙂

                            Saintprudence Maybe we could convince our significant others to answer questions from the group 🙂.

                            I will give questions to him and will post his answers if you want.

                            Laura Tell him that only trolls are not welcome

                            I can ask him again.

                                    Laura Tell him that only trolls are not welcome

                                    🤣

                                    Sara2001 You can ask me 🙂 I know all the ideas behind it very well. Otherwise I wouldn't accept the rules so happily 🙂

                                    yes but you both have very different roles in your relationship and so i think i could learn more about how he sees himself in his role 🙂

                                          Angelina yes but you both have very different roles in your relationship and so i think i could learn more about how he sees himself in his role

                                          I will give a possible question to him and post his answers here, so you can get his point of view this way.

                                              Sara2001

                                              a very complicated way, but i might come back to it. the problem is that when you answer you have to make sure that we understand whether the answer comes from you or from Daniel

                                                Sara2001

                                                Even if we disagree with some of his opinion,we can discuss with him politely.

                                                Laura

                                                Right.

                                                Sara2001

                                                Not the easiest way to discuss,but why not.

                                                        Sara2001

                                                        i am sorry, but i still find it too complicated to communicate through a third person 😂 thank you for the offer, but therefore I decline 🙂

                                                            Angelina i am sorry, but i still find it too complicated to communicate through a third person 😂 thank you for the offer, but therefore I decline

                                                            Okay. He still doesn't like the idea to write here. He reads here from time to time, but he don't want to interfere this.