Partners on the forum

I’m well aware of that, which is what I tell her! I think she just considers this place my weird little side hobby that she doesn’t get into very much and just lets me do my thing . She figures if reading this stuff makes me happy, she’ll humor me. She just has no interest in joining up! Which is a pity, I think her perspective would be pretty interesting to add, particularly since her view is evenly split between “doing this because I want it” and “actively enjoying taking custody of my sexuality.”

Saintprudence

Yes,but I respect her choice.

Angelina

Sure.

Angelina a little trust must be given in an anonymous forum

I agree.

Saintprudence I think her perspective would be pretty interesting to add

I agree,especially as your case if pretty different.

Daniel thinks that he wouldn't be very welcome here and he doesn't want to fight because of the kind of our relationship.

Sara2001 I would welcome his presence, but admittedly, I probably have the closest kind of relationship to a spouse to what you and he have anyway.

Sara2001 Maybe we could convince our significant others to answer questions from the group .

Sara2001 Don't see why he thinks that?

Angelina well you explained your relationship pretty well, so he would be very welcome from my side. i would like to know some background information. by that i mean that i am a small hobby psychologist and would like to know why he thinks the way he does

You can ask me I know all the ideas behind it very well. Otherwise I wouldn't accept the rules so happily

Saintprudence Maybe we could convince our significant others to answer questions from the group .

I will give questions to him and will post his answers if you want.

Laura Tell him that only trolls are not welcome

I can ask him again.

Angelina yes but you both have very different roles in your relationship and so i think i could learn more about how he sees himself in his role

I will give a possible question to him and post his answers here, so you can get his point of view this way.

Sara2001

Even if we disagree with some of his opinion,we can discuss with him politely.

Laura

Right.

Sara2001

Not the easiest way to discuss,but why not.

Vanessa Not the easiest way to discuss,but why not.

So what do you want to know from him? He is now waiting for your questions

Angelina i am sorry, but i still find it too complicated to communicate through a third person thank you for the offer, but therefore I decline

Okay. He still doesn't like the idea to write here. He reads here from time to time, but he don't want to interfere this.

Sara2001 I have seen someone with nick @Danielle yesterday. It was he?

No. I don't think he is registered here and he would most probably use another Nick.