Angelina If it should happen that Sara should turn against the chastity equipment (i.e. after you have had long conversations), is there a plan B to ensure the goals of both of you are still achieved?
This is his answer:
This is a very complex to answer question, maybe it even answers the former question better then my initial answer. At first let me say that I know that she hates wearing her equipment. That the idea of getting rid of it after marriage helped her to survive her teenage years and that the current situation where everything became more difficult for her is nothing she enjoys. Not even for a single second. She hates that she can't reach her private parts, but even more she hates the discomfort that comes with the chastity equipment. I know she would love to do sports, to run, to dance or ride a bicycle again. She absolutely hates, that during hot weather she is not able to go swimming. She would love to get rid of her clothes restrictions because of her equipment. I know all this very well and this is a big part why our relationship feels so strong for me. Keep in mind, actually it is planned, that there will be no exception from this wearing routine, maybe except removing the chain between her tightbands for a hiking trip or some kind of SUPERVISED sport. Both of us know, that this is a gigantic restriction for her. I can absolutely understand that she hates this and why. She doesn't have to wear it for security reasons, but it is very clear that she has to wear it for the purpose of restricting her. It shouldn't be as comfortable as possible but as restrictive as possible. I am pretty sure she would not masturbate or play with herself without permission, even if she hadn't to wear her equipment.
Why do I then demand it? To produce a strong reminder of her place. It may sound strange, but I know it gives her a strong feeling that I can for her. That her situation is important for me. That she is the center of my life.
With this background information, I hope it is easier to understand that having a Plan B would not be based on her stating she wants to get out of her chastity belt but would mean a general mind change. It would require a major change of our relationship in a completely different direction. She HAPPILY accept to have what she hates, because it is something she can give to our relationship. It's to show me how important I am for her. If someone accept such a hard limitation for you, it is an overwhelming feeling. For her it is a great feeling to be able to do this for me, because she hates it so much.
So I honestly don't think that we need a Plan B for this situation. The belt, tightbands and bra are a part of something bigger. If I see that anything makes her really unhappy, that what she get out of it is not more then what she invests and that she would feel "used" and not supported, I would change it as fast as possible, but she doesn't feel like this when it comes to this topic.
