Partners on the forum

Sara2001 I would welcome his presence, but admittedly, I probably have the closest kind of relationship to a spouse to what you and he have anyway.

Sara2001 Maybe we could convince our significant others to answer questions from the group .

Sara2001 Don't see why he thinks that?

Angelina well you explained your relationship pretty well, so he would be very welcome from my side. i would like to know some background information. by that i mean that i am a small hobby psychologist and would like to know why he thinks the way he does

You can ask me I know all the ideas behind it very well. Otherwise I wouldn't accept the rules so happily

Saintprudence Maybe we could convince our significant others to answer questions from the group .

I will give questions to him and will post his answers if you want.

Laura Tell him that only trolls are not welcome

I can ask him again.

Angelina yes but you both have very different roles in your relationship and so i think i could learn more about how he sees himself in his role

I will give a possible question to him and post his answers here, so you can get his point of view this way.

Sara2001

Even if we disagree with some of his opinion,we can discuss with him politely.

Laura

Right.

Sara2001

Not the easiest way to discuss,but why not.

Angelina i am sorry, but i still find it too complicated to communicate through a third person thank you for the offer, but therefore I decline

Okay. He still doesn't like the idea to write here. He reads here from time to time, but he don't want to interfere this.

Sara2001 I have seen someone with nick @Danielle yesterday. It was he?

No. I don't think he is registered here and he would most probably use another Nick.

Angelina i would rather say that it is a woman

Me too, but I thought it's different in German

Sara2001 I have two queries for Daniel:

Knowing that your fiancée has endured chastity for so long, why continue to subject her to it?

And even if you think chastity in itself is a wise idea, why add the thigh bands and bra, which feel more like instruments of punishment than barriers of morality?

Saintprudence Knowing that your fiancée has endured chastity for so long, why continue to subject her to it?

This is his answer (I translated it to English)
We decided to have a total power exchange relationship. We talked a lot about it and we still do. I believe, that this has to include full control about her private parts. It means that it is under my control when and how she can feel sexual pleasure. For that reason she also had to continue with wearing chastity bra and tightbands. It is not only the purpose to prevent orgasms but any kind of stimulation.

After it is clear that she can trust me without any conditions in any situation, the basic idea behind the role of the submissive in tpe relationship is to reduce her freedom as much as possible and to give her enough freedom as necessary. She will get any freedom that is necessary to keep her happy and to reach her goals but nothing more. She already has a strict routine with 2 regular corner times a day, so she knows how live with restricted freedom feels. In exchange I make sure that she doesn't have to worry anything, as long as she follows her rules and that she always know how important she is for me. She can talk to me at any time if she struggles or feel unhappy about her situation, but or because of this she is happier then ever (at least overall).