a_father When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another.

Would you let your wife to sleep around?

a_father @Laura didn't marry her parents.

Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter.

a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner.

Partner or husband? It's difficult only if you start a relationship with sex.

    HHelen Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter

    In your view, when does such responsibility end? Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

      Ines I will send you soon the members card.

      can you send me one too? ๐Ÿ˜‰

        Ines i almost feel left out, but I guess Iโ€™m a willing enough wearer to not count!

          Renita thatโ€™s what I meant! Sorry for not being clear. I feel left out that he hasnโ€™t gone after me ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚.

          Renita but then, I CAN be released if I really wanted it so he would have little to be able to say. He canโ€™t do much about my upbringing!

            Saintprudence Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

            It depends on a situation. Age doesn't matter too much.

              a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner. I don't know the reasons, but that has something to do with the fact that you can't let go of your daughter or treat her like your property.

              You can say the same about me. I wish to be invited to the club.

              Angelina will happen

              I'm the next in line.

                HHelen Aside from the obvious circumstance of marriage, what are the situations in which a parentโ€™s belting authority ends, in your view? I donโ€™t get the impression that Laura, for instance, relies on her parents for financial support, yet at her age she remains locked by her parents and my guess is that the only real reason she accepts the belt is in order to please them. (Which is admittedly a powerful motivator, but I donโ€™t think they have any moral standing to demand she remain belted.)

                  Saintprudence the only real reason she accepts the belt is in order to please them

                  Pretty close, but also other members of my family, e.g. being a good girl in their eyes

                  Saintprudence but I donโ€™t think they have any moral standing to demand she remain belted

                  Of course not. But every time I'm asked why I need the belt off. They see only one reason for it and refuse

                    Laura You are 29 years old. They have no right to refuse. What would happen, if you insist in removing the belt? Would you be banned by the family?

                      a_father What would happen, if you insist in removing the belt?

                      It would be clear what it was for

                      a_father Would you be banned by the family?

                      Not banned, but lose the important connections

                        Saintprudence but then, I CAN be released if I really wanted

                        Everybody here can if really needs, but @a_father wants to discuss something else ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

                        Laura They see only one reason for it and refuse

                        Tell them you consider the belt(not virginity) as a shame.

                          Renita the belt(not virginity)

                          one doesn't really work without the other. the belt is the reason for this. to see the belt as a separate shame is very difficult (just my opinion)