Tobbe

If opened to be erect often enough,there is not too much risk! 😉

Laura Not everybody, but most of them. Females, of course

So it is close to a family tradition,to wear it until marriage.Everyone were voluntary wearers or some were reluctantly wearers?

Christine

Right.

Renita

I agree.

Laura An unwed girl living alone doesn't sounds right.

Why?I don't think it is a problem,and it is pretty common...

Angelina i see it differently, living independently is something different than living with a partner/spouse

I agree.

Abby82

Similar for many of us,some unsupervised breaks would be very helpful,even alone!

Laura

Even if still wearing your chastity belt?

                    Vanessa Everyone were voluntary wearers or some were reluctantly wearers?

                    I don't know such details, but nobody complained to me

                    Vanessa Even if still wearing your chastity belt?

                    They know it's virtually impossible

                          Laura I don't know such details, but nobody complained to me

                          You don't discuss it much?

                          Laura They know it's virtually impossible

                          Why?For cleaning?

                                Vanessa Why?I don't think it is a problem,and it is pretty common...

                                i think so too, living alone is an important part of living independently and the more independent we are the more likely we are to marry 🙂

                                Vanessa Why?For cleaning?

                                it is generally very difficult for cleaning, especially they do not know how far apart they live

                                      HHelen Yes. Nobody owns another person.
                                      When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another. @Laura didn't marry her parents. They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner. I don't know the reasons, but that has something to do with the fact that you can't let go of your daughter or treat her like your property. Very strange people..
                                      Or maybe a very conservative denomination? There are a lot of evangelical Christians in the USA. You sometimes hear strange things. And as a Catholic, I am already considered conservative. However, I do not ask others to live by my values. As you can see from my statements, I put personal freedom above everything. My freedom ends where the freedom of the other (this includes our childrens freedom) begins. Some parents forget that here (like you, or @Laura's parents).

                                          a_father When you get married, you pledge your loyalty to one another.

                                          Would you let your wife to sleep around?

                                          a_father @Laura didn't marry her parents.

                                          Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter.

                                          a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner.

                                          Partner or husband? It's difficult only if you start a relationship with sex.

                                                  HHelen Parents must have such responsibility over an unwed daughter

                                                  In your view, when does such responsibility end? Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

                                                      Ines I will send you soon the members card.

                                                      can you send me one too? 😉

                                                          Ines i almost feel left out, but I guess I’m a willing enough wearer to not count!

                                                              Renita that’s what I meant! Sorry for not being clear. I feel left out that he hasn’t gone after me 🙂 🙂.

                                                                Renita but then, I CAN be released if I really wanted it so he would have little to be able to say. He can’t do much about my upbringing!

                                                                    Saintprudence Should parents have belting authority over a 30-year-old?

                                                                    It depends on a situation. Age doesn't matter too much.

                                                                        a_father They just make it unnecessarily difficult for her to find a partner. I don't know the reasons, but that has something to do with the fact that you can't let go of your daughter or treat her like your property.

                                                                        You can say the same about me. I wish to be invited to the club.

                                                                        Angelina will happen

                                                                        I'm the next in line.

                                                                              HHelen Aside from the obvious circumstance of marriage, what are the situations in which a parent’s belting authority ends, in your view? I don’t get the impression that Laura, for instance, relies on her parents for financial support, yet at her age she remains locked by her parents and my guess is that the only real reason she accepts the belt is in order to please them. (Which is admittedly a powerful motivator, but I don’t think they have any moral standing to demand she remain belted.)