Verrouille But as my girlfriend doesnt need my erections, loosing it is no problem.
no it is not ok, even if a part of the body is not used, it is not ok to destroy this part (just my opinion)
Erection and chastity belt
Angelina A chastity belt doesnt destroy the penis if you unlock it regularly, once a month for example. Lots of men locked permanently in full chastity belts like mine dont have problems with their penis, they can get fully erect when unlocked, even once every two months. It's permanent lock without removal that can cause harm.
Verrouille It's permanent lock without removal that can cause harm.
if the penis can get a full erection when opening up, it is in my opinion ok, but not more and not less
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Angelina I mean we're still talki g about your girlfriend @Verrouille - not avout your wife that you have been married with for like 20 years. If you break up and don't have a working penis anymore the next potential gf might not be ok with that. And apart from that it might hurt when it doesn't work properly
And you also don't always want to see somebody get hard. I can remember being in a museum in Florence amd sitting on a bench as two probably gay men walk in - in very thin pink hotpants with a huge bulb at the front. I mean - I don't mind if someone is gay - and that's not the point - but seing someone being hard can also be intimidating for the one who can see it.
Even if it is not a problem,it still impact your health.
And,if you break up,and meet someone else,maybe both of you would prefer you can be able to be erect...
I agree.
Max9 If you break up and don't have a working penis anymore the next potential gf might not be ok with that.
We've the same opinion.
I just had a break yesterday, after a few days of permanent lock up. As day by day I felt I stopped to try to erect in my tube, when I unlocked I recovered a complete erection.
I don't see how my chastity belt destroys my penis, sorry. There are lots of men like me that wears a chastity belt permanently that don't have problems with their erections. Many of them loose their erections with time and as they are unlocked, even after two months without unlocking, they recover their erections. Perhaps you are experienced about that?
Verrouille Many of them loose their erections with time and as they are unlocked, even after two months without unlocking, they recover their erections. Perhaps you are experienced about that?
Yes, that's true. After some time you don't errect regulary anymore in the cage. That's no problem for a time span like for a few weeks or a month. I even know someone who was lpcked for one year without release and who had no problems. But I also know some people who got serious problems after being locked for a few months.
i am glad that you do not have any problems at the moment, but you should check it regularly, i do not know how it is after years in the belt
Thank you Angelina. I'll tell you.
gladly, but as I said, this is an experiment over years 
Verrouille There are lots of men like me that wears a chastity belt permanently that don't have problems with their erections. Many of them loose their erections with time and as they are unlocked, even after two months without unlocking, they recover their erections. Perhaps you are experienced about that?
I can tell from my own experience that the longer I am locked the longer it takes after being released that I can get fully erect again. If it is only a week, I can usually get fully erect instantly. The more weeks I am locked, it takes more minutes.
As some short breaks for hygiene are necessary it is not always possible to avoid an erection. Therefore I cannot say how much time I would need to get fully erect after not having an erection for months.
However, I have read that the muscles in the penis might take some damage if there are no regular erection. I know that there are reports of men who claim to not have any problems after several months but I would be careful. Everybody is different. If I were you I would try to test what impact long term chastity without any erection has on you and increase that time only a bit every time until the point where it might cause damage for you.
Even if you don't care about that for now you might in the future.
I agree,it is too soon to be sure it is ok.And,as long as he can be erect often enough,it should not cause him any health problems.
Michael However, I have read that the muscles in the penis might take some damage if there are no regular erection.
Is it not related to blood vessels or similar?
Michael Even if you don't care about that for now you might in the future.
I agree.
Vanessa Does your girlfriend know well enough how to be a good keyholder for you?
What do you mean exactly? What does define to be a good keyholder in general or what aspects do you mean that are relevant especially for me?
[deleted] I hope your gf accepts your proposal.
As I said I am waiting for a good oppotunity. So we haven't talked about it explicitly yet (at the moment I am doing it in smaller steps so to speak).
so a cage for the testicles?
Michael What do you mean exactly? What does define to be a good keyholder in general or what aspects do you mean that are relevant especially for me?
a good keyholder knows that he/she has a high responsibility and must ensure that no harm is done to the wearer psychologically and physically, and must support the wearer and not work against him/her
Angelina so a cage for the testicles?
No the testicles are free but the is a solid ring (steel) around the penis close to the body ( behind the testicles) and a tube for the penis that is locked to this ring. You cannot pull the penis back through that ring as long as the tube is locked to it. While the tube is locked to is, the space for the testicles is too small to push them back through the ring and for the same reason you cannot push the whole device away from your body. Therefore it is more like the testicles (instead of the penis) are trapped which is why these devices are called ball trap devices. The penis is more or less completely incased in a steel tube then in order to prevent erections and heavy stimulation.
Angelina a good keyholder knows that he/she has a high responsibility and must ensure that no harm is done to the wearer psychologically and physically
I have no doubt that she can do that.
Angelina and must support the wearer and not work against him/her
I am not sure what you mean exactly. Can you give an example what supporting or working against the wearer would be?
Angelina if, for example, the keyholder refuses to open the belt/cage in psychic exceptional situations, then the wearer loses confidence in the keyholder and also the connection to the belt/cage
That would not happen for sure. The other way around, that a keyholder might open the belt too often because he/she is too easily talked into opening it, might be a problem.
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