i am glad that you do not have any problems at the moment, but you should check it regularly, i do not know how it is after years in the belt
Erection and chastity belt
Thank you Angelina. I'll tell you.
gladly, but as I said, this is an experiment over years 
Verrouille There are lots of men like me that wears a chastity belt permanently that don't have problems with their erections. Many of them loose their erections with time and as they are unlocked, even after two months without unlocking, they recover their erections. Perhaps you are experienced about that?
I can tell from my own experience that the longer I am locked the longer it takes after being released that I can get fully erect again. If it is only a week, I can usually get fully erect instantly. The more weeks I am locked, it takes more minutes.
As some short breaks for hygiene are necessary it is not always possible to avoid an erection. Therefore I cannot say how much time I would need to get fully erect after not having an erection for months.
However, I have read that the muscles in the penis might take some damage if there are no regular erection. I know that there are reports of men who claim to not have any problems after several months but I would be careful. Everybody is different. If I were you I would try to test what impact long term chastity without any erection has on you and increase that time only a bit every time until the point where it might cause damage for you.
Even if you don't care about that for now you might in the future.
I agree,it is too soon to be sure it is ok.And,as long as he can be erect often enough,it should not cause him any health problems.
Michael However, I have read that the muscles in the penis might take some damage if there are no regular erection.
Is it not related to blood vessels or similar?
Michael Even if you don't care about that for now you might in the future.
I agree.
Vanessa Does your girlfriend know well enough how to be a good keyholder for you?
What do you mean exactly? What does define to be a good keyholder in general or what aspects do you mean that are relevant especially for me?
[deleted] I hope your gf accepts your proposal.
As I said I am waiting for a good oppotunity. So we haven't talked about it explicitly yet (at the moment I am doing it in smaller steps so to speak).
so a cage for the testicles?
Michael What do you mean exactly? What does define to be a good keyholder in general or what aspects do you mean that are relevant especially for me?
a good keyholder knows that he/she has a high responsibility and must ensure that no harm is done to the wearer psychologically and physically, and must support the wearer and not work against him/her
Angelina so a cage for the testicles?
No the testicles are free but the is a solid ring (steel) around the penis close to the body ( behind the testicles) and a tube for the penis that is locked to this ring. You cannot pull the penis back through that ring as long as the tube is locked to it. While the tube is locked to is, the space for the testicles is too small to push them back through the ring and for the same reason you cannot push the whole device away from your body. Therefore it is more like the testicles (instead of the penis) are trapped which is why these devices are called ball trap devices. The penis is more or less completely incased in a steel tube then in order to prevent erections and heavy stimulation.
Angelina a good keyholder knows that he/she has a high responsibility and must ensure that no harm is done to the wearer psychologically and physically
I have no doubt that she can do that.
Angelina and must support the wearer and not work against him/her
I am not sure what you mean exactly. Can you give an example what supporting or working against the wearer would be?
Angelina if, for example, the keyholder refuses to open the belt/cage in psychic exceptional situations, then the wearer loses confidence in the keyholder and also the connection to the belt/cage
That would not happen for sure. The other way around, that a keyholder might open the belt too often because he/she is too easily talked into opening it, might be a problem.
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Michael good keyholder
A good keyholder knows if you're trying to tell him you have problems with the cage / belt when you just want to get out to be able to cheat.
A good keyholder is caring about you. She / he can tease you from time to time so you don't get too frustrated (if you like that) and understands that you need opening for cleaning and erections.
And a good keyholder can resist when you beg and beg for a release, if you want to be chaste
... there are diffent ways of being locked. Just wearing it as lifestyle of because you don't want to be able to habe sex ... or because you don't want to be able to masturbate ... or because you want to be teased and denied.
We all agree that a good keyholder hast to unlock the belt in a case of emergency and so on and I would never surrender my keys to someone I cannot trust 100%.
However, I think there is a difference if you have been asked to wear a belt by your keyholder in contrast of you asking someone to hold the key for you.
In the fist case you can be relatively sure that the keyholder wants to keep you locked and would not be easily talked into giving you the keys.
The second case is my case. It is my wish to be locked into a belt but that does not exclude some weak moments when I ask for the key. If I asked someone to hold the keys it is more likely that she would then give in and unlock me. Later I might regret this. Therefore for me it is a problem when the keyholder is not strict enough.
Expecting from a keyholder to always distinguish between real problems or pseudo problems (being too horny, lack of control at the moment) is not easy for everyone and can be stressful.
Taking a key for a keyholder therefore is not only taking responsability.
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Introduction topic is not a I write everything that I have in my brain.
And for some of you have a lot of warnings..