Ideal age for marriage

Angelina

ok, as the posts have been separated into a new topic i would like to add something

i think the ideal age for a wedding is 25 to 30 years, which is much later than i will get married and you should also be financially independent ( unlike me )

Max9

Angelina Is there an ideal age? My dad became father when he was 50. Now I'll be 20 soon and he'll be 70 soon. Others who are only a few yeaes older then me also already get married and have children. I mean - there is no perfect time. After all the perfect time is when you truely believe to have found the one partner you want to share your entire life with, regardless of what's coming in the future.

Vanessa

Angelina this is unfortunately true, fortunately it is not yet existing (except as a fetish toy)

Happily,yes!

Angelina i think the ideal age for a wedding is 25 to 30 years, which is much later than i will get married and you should also be financially independent ( unlike me )

I agree,25 to 30 can be good,generally you've finished your studies and maybe have a job.Being financially independent is important too,yes.

I would add that the two partners should be in love(of course),and the relationship should have lasted long enough(at least 2 to 3 years without breaking up during it,even temporarily).Better if living together too,it is a very important step for a couple.

Laura

Jeff I think there much more options between "find a rich man" and "find a good job". An own business, investments, royalties, etc.

Angelina

Max9

it's not about what's possible. my father get me when he was 35 years old, he was only married for a short time and has been divorced shortly after my birth.

of course there are other solutions, i will probably marry at 20 and my girlfriend will be 18, but i am talking about what i think is ideal, that is just my opinion

Christine

the reality is that there are not enough rich men for all women and therefore women also can have careers 😉

Christine

Angelina sorry, but that is very naive and old-fashioned

Talking about it is old-fashioned, because you are supposed to strive for a career. But the reality is different if you look deeper.

Max9

Christine Yes, that's right. On the human stock market many women invest in a partner who is rich and has a high social status. As soon a he becomes poor they suddenly don't love him anymore and get a new partner whereas men tend to support their partner when she has problems.

Laura

Max9 whereas men tend to support their partner when she has problems.

And looking for a younger

Renita

Angelina the reality is that there are not enough rich men

It depends on how you define rich, every girl does it her own way.

Christine

Renita It depends on how you define rich,

Enough to support her.

Angelina

Renita It depends on how you define rich, every girl does it her own way.

he would at least have to earn more money than I could, which in my case would exclude 90% of all men (and in my case also women) 😂

Laura And looking for a younger

this is unfortunately often true 🙁

Vanessa I would add that the two partners should be in love(of course),and the relationship should have lasted long enough(at least 2 to 3 years without breaking up during it,even temporarily).Better if living together too,it is a very important step for a couple.

i agree these points are also very important, that's why i don't believe in marriages that are concluded after less than a year

Max9

Laura There's apoint in it, sone do. Just like some women. There are unloyal people in each gender - just that I feel women care generally more about what job you have whereas men also marry women who are poor / have a lower social status... like for example a ceo who is married with a nurse or something like that. That's pretty common. But you barely hear from female ceos who marry an unemployed man for example. Exept for some rich grannies who are with their toyboy

Renita

Angelina he would at least have to earn more money than I could,

Are you @Laura ? 😃

Angelina which in my case would exclude 90% of all men

You still have 10% to choose from.

reactionary69

Max9 Which is known as hypergamy.

Angelina

Renita Are you @Laura ? 😃

🤣

Renita You still have 10% to choose from.

or i stay with my girlfriend, there i do not know what she will earn later, because her professional future is not as planned as mine 😉

Renita

Angelina or i stay with my girlfriend, there i do not know what she will earn later, because her professional future is not as planned as mine

In case of relationship between 2 girl somebody always earns more than another. But I'm talking about more tradition straight roles.

Max9

Angelina or i stay with my girlfriend, there i do not know what she will earn later, because her professional future is not as planned as mine

Being loyal to your psrtner is always the best option. Sluts who cange their partner line underwear are easy to buy, but a true and decoted partner is best you can find.

Vanessa

Angelina or i stay with my girlfriend, there i do not know what she will earn later, because her professional future is not as planned as mine 😉

Good choice,I think!🙂

Angelina i think that this too is a very outdated picture. today it should be quite acceptable if the woman earns more than the man

I think so,too.

But I think many men don't like this situation.

Angelina

Renita

yes, that's true, although i think that this too is a very outdated picture. today it should be quite acceptable if the woman earns more than the man

Max9

this is true and i know that there is a lot about my girlfriend that i might never find again 🙂

Renita

Angelina today it should be quite acceptable if the woman earns more than the man

Then what does she need him for? 😃

Angelina

Renita Then what does she need him for? 😃

do not always be so unromantic 😂

Vanessa But I think many men don't like this situation.

that's true, but I think that is also due to our prejudices

Christine

Renita Then what does she need him for?

For sex, obviously.

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