Angelina i have to disagree, because my father is already raising me to be independent. but for my father, sex and masturbation are not part of the behaviour you mentioned.
Sexual self-determination is a right that is guaranteed to teenagers and adults by law. It is seen as an elementary part in the development and therefore under the legal protection in Germany. This also includes the experience with one's own body and sexuality.
gwen No. Orgasms being bad doesn't only has to do with religion - als with education. In some groups orgasms and sex is seen as something slutty and by that as something bad.
Also, some people believe a lift without orgasms to be a happier life. Some of them even fall into something like a depression after having masturbated.
In my case,my parents think it is indecent and immoral,and that I should control myself better(so no masturbation),and that I should not have sex with anybody(and,of course,no one night stand or short relationship),and should wait until marriage to do it(so no sex without being married).
However,it doesn't apply to my twin,way more free...
My parents don't have this fear
It is unaceptable, without wearer' s consent.
But, in general, I agree with this.
I think, that if it is forced is another way of dominate to someone.
And, in general, I think that a girl masturbation is not acceptable, and it is a behavior that must be avoided.
It is selfish, indecent and that does not make anything good for us as woman.
HOWEVER HOWEVER HOWEVER
It is my opinion for me, and it can not be impossed to anyone. If a girl does not want wear, anyone can force her to it. Even "buy" the consent with privileges is not very fair in my opinion.
strictfather and prefer to prevent it by using a chastity belt or other ways?
I prefer to limit rather than prevent.
strictfather that make parents think in this way
Otherwise all her activity can be reduced to it.
In my family my father thinks masturbation and things like that make a woman selfish, so it's better to protect them from becoming selfish,.so she can focus on other things (incl..her partners pleasure).
Sara2001 my father thinks masturbation and things like that make a woman selfish
after your wedding you will feel the pleasure of sex: what change before or after wedding in your father opinion? i mean: according to your father idea you could become "selfish" after wedding when you will start to have orgasm with your partner. isn't it right?
Angelina
I think it is not the same. In my opinion it is more similar to a sort of blackmail.
It is not so bad as force to the girl, of course, and I am not trying to say that it is the same, but it is not perfect.
For me, and you know it, only acceptable way, and only way in what you avoid reproaches, is totally free acceptance.
strictfather After wedding I have a husband. He knows what he gets before and/or can do what he think is necessary. I can accept this or marry someone else. That's why I would only marry someone when I absolutely trust him.
Maybe for some it's furthermore a fear of the daughter getting the wrong partner anywhen or becoming a victim anywhere... maybe it's also for safety reasons... sure, denying an orgasm then wouldn't be necessary... like via abstinence belt
mekekelo No empirical studies have ever shown any results like this.
My mother thinks differently in my case.
Foxies I just hope this forum does nothing to promote it.
I think we try to fight it, however I believe that every truculent story is a tale.
Force to someone to wear a belt should be such factory of resentment that no family can endure it. And in determined ages and environment is very difficult maintain such thing as a secret.
I usually do not think in myself as a person without empathy, but such stories are hard of believe for me.
