fear of orgasm: why?

Orgasm without a relationship e.g masturbation leads to bad girl behavior.

Maybe it's just a fear of letting go/their child growing up. They want their little boy/girl to stay their little boy/girl.
Their masturbation and orgasm is a sign of maturity/loss of innocents that the parent is not ready for to let go.

I see it as @Foyies. I have also the feeling parents nowadays overprotect their children instead of teaching them to behave responsibly, independently and prudently. To discover their own feelings, what they like and don't like. Parents impose their ideas on the children and force them to do so instead of finding a way together that is acceptable to both.
Children need to test set limits and find out for themselves what is good. I have seen it several times that children rebelled against the rules, had lengthy discussions because of them. When they grew up and stood on their own feet, they found the arguments mostly right and organised their lives in a similar style.

strictfather

because my father is of the opinion that orgasms only prevent important things in life and especially in relation to sex, that sex without marriage leads to many changing relationships and no true love.

Joh I have also the feeling parents nowadays overprotect their children instead of teaching them to behave responsibly, independently and prudently.

i have to disagree, because my father is already raising me to be independent. but for my father, sex and masturbation are not part of the behaviour you mentioned.

gwen No. Orgasms being bad doesn't only has to do with religion - als with education. In some groups orgasms and sex is seen as something slutty and by that as something bad.
Also, some people believe a lift without orgasms to be a happier life. Some of them even fall into something like a depression after having masturbated.

strictfather

In my case,my parents think it is indecent and immoral,and that I should control myself better(so no masturbation),and that I should not have sex with anybody(and,of course,no one night stand or short relationship),and should wait until marriage to do it(so no sex without being married).

However,it doesn't apply to my twin,way more free...

My parents don't have this fear

Laura

You've to wear one to stay virgin,so?

Joh It is seen as an elementary part in the development

and that is the point that my father sees differently, he thinks it is an obstacle to responsible development.

Vanessa In my case,my parents think it is indecent and immoral

yes, these are similar reasons for my father too

It is unaceptable, without wearer' s consent.
But, in general, I agree with this.
I think, that if it is forced is another way of dominate to someone.
And, in general, I think that a girl masturbation is not acceptable, and it is a behavior that must be avoided.
It is selfish, indecent and that does not make anything good for us as woman.

HOWEVER HOWEVER HOWEVER

It is my opinion for me, and it can not be impossed to anyone. If a girl does not want wear, anyone can force her to it. Even "buy" the consent with privileges is not very fair in my opinion.

strictfather and prefer to prevent it by using a chastity belt or other ways?

I prefer to limit rather than prevent.

strictfather that make parents think in this way

Otherwise all her activity can be reduced to it.

In my family my father thinks masturbation and things like that make a woman selfish, so it's better to protect them from becoming selfish,.so she can focus on other things (incl..her partners pleasure).

Foxies Parents do not have a right to abuse their child.

Ines Even "buy" the consent with privileges is not very fair in my opinion.

at this point i would disagree, i think it is fair, best example is the topic of going to work, or would you go to work without getting paid?