fear of orgasm: why?

Ines

Jen

Jen sad to read, but maybe you forget shiny is saying 12 is ok in the other thread.

No, Jen, I explain myself badly:
I agree with the fact that a girl does not have to masturbate. I will never agree in:

A) defend use of a belt in kids
B) forcing use any age

For that I specifically wrote "here".

Angelina

Ines A) defend use of a belt in kids

i know we have discussed this many times but i never got a clear answer. from what age? 12?, 14?, 16?, 18? ...

Kaja

Christine OMG! Why?

Christine

Kaja OMG! Why?

My mom thinks so.

Sin

shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.

Woah! Couldn't disagree more.
If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.

Max9

Sin I actually bought my first cage when I was 14 years old.

Angelina

Sin If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.

no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

a_father

Max9 But it was your choice, right? @shinydiamond77's daughter has no choice.

Sin

Angelina no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.

Vanessa

Angelina it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

I agree.

Angelina excessive masturbation

Depends how often she did it.

Angelina

Sin Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.

if it is the only thing that keeps you sane, i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)

Sin

Angelina i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)

All of the above!

Sin

Vanessa Depends how often she did it.

It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to? At the time a chastity belt would have been very, very damaging to me, both physically and psychologically. That's why I am strongly against belting teenagers against their will... stopping them from taking care of themselves and labelling girls as "sluts" for doing what is natural / necessary is incredibly damaging.

Angelina

Sin It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to?

I would say the limit is where masturbation has a negative impact on other areas of life, so no exact number.

Joh

Angelina
I agree with that. If you are not addicted and you have fun without neglecting other important things in your life is fine.

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Even if I think than more than 1 or twice a day,for a woman,would tend to be too much.

Joh Play excessively is not necessary a proof of addiction.

Yes,but it still is excessive masturbation,so.

Sin

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Sin

You can play excessively but it doesn't mean you're addicted. It's not as simple as that. There are other reasons why it has to be done... self care, tension relief etc etc.

Hitting the reset button is important for a lot of people.

Joh

Sin
I agree. Play excessively is not necessary a proof of addiction.

Angelina

Sin

i agree with you in principle, but i have heard too often tension relief from smokers, the border to addiction is extremely fluid.

Sin

Angelina The difference being smoking would never be seen as therapeutic, whereas self-care definitely is.

Certainly easy to develop a habit though!

Angelina

Sin The difference being smoking would never be seen as therapeutic, whereas self-care definitely is.

so i don't know any psychiatrist who recommends sex or mastubation as a form of therapy.

Sin

Angelina so i don't know any psychiatrist who recommends sex or mastubation as a form of therapy.

Want some recommendations? :-p

Angelina

Sin Want some recommendations? :-p

No 🤣

a_father I think, you should get your life under control, find a job and move out.

i actually have to agree with you on this point, but i think that "getting life under control" should apply with and without a belt, but i agree with you

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