Angelina Ines A) defend use of a belt in kids i know we have discussed this many times but i never got a clear answer. from what age? 12?, 14?, 16?, 18? ...
Sin shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first. Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me. Woah! Couldn't disagree more. If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.
Angelina Sin If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself. no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt
Sin Angelina no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.
Vanessa Angelina it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt I agree. Angelina excessive masturbation Depends how often she did it.
Angelina Sin Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time. if it is the only thing that keeps you sane, i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)
Sin Angelina i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy) All of the above!
Sin Vanessa Depends how often she did it. It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to? At the time a chastity belt would have been very, very damaging to me, both physically and psychologically. That's why I am strongly against belting teenagers against their will... stopping them from taking care of themselves and labelling girls as "sluts" for doing what is natural / necessary is incredibly damaging.
Angelina Sin It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to? I would say the limit is where masturbation has a negative impact on other areas of life, so no exact number.
Joh Angelina I agree with that. If you are not addicted and you have fun without neglecting other important things in your life is fine.
Vanessa Angelina I agree. Even if I think than more than 1 or twice a day,for a woman,would tend to be too much. Joh Play excessively is not necessary a proof of addiction. Yes,but it still is excessive masturbation,so. Sin 🤣
Sin You can play excessively but it doesn't mean you're addicted. It's not as simple as that. There are other reasons why it has to be done... self care, tension relief etc etc. Hitting the reset button is important for a lot of people.
Angelina Sin i agree with you in principle, but i have heard too often tension relief from smokers, the border to addiction is extremely fluid.
Sin Angelina The difference being smoking would never be seen as therapeutic, whereas self-care definitely is. Certainly easy to develop a habit though!
Angelina Sin The difference being smoking would never be seen as therapeutic, whereas self-care definitely is. so i don't know any psychiatrist who recommends sex or mastubation as a form of therapy.
Sin Angelina so i don't know any psychiatrist who recommends sex or mastubation as a form of therapy. Want some recommendations? :-p
Angelina Sin Want some recommendations? :-p No 🤣 a_father I think, you should get your life under control, find a job and move out. i actually have to agree with you on this point, but i think that "getting life under control" should apply with and without a belt, but i agree with you
a_father Christine I think, you should get your life under control, find a job and move out. I think, this is, what your mother wants to tell you. If you don't change your life, it will get worse. Next she buys are tightbands...
