fear of orgasm: why?

Jen

shinydiamond77 disagree all. Alchahol has a chemical impact on development, it is actually bad if you have too much too young.

Angelina

shinydiamond77

i disagree. alcohol has a proven harmful influence, especially on children and teenagers (even on some adults). touching the intimate area or mastubation or sex does not have this proven bad influence

shinydiamond77

Angelina

Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.

Ines

shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

I have to agree here.

Joh

shinydiamond77
I disagree with everything.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow.

I didn't say that, I just don't think the comparison is right.

shinydiamond77 Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

I disagree

shinydiamond77 Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.

did you have bad experiences with sex or masturbation as a teenager or why do you think that? do you think that your experiences are a reason why your daughter has to wear the belt now?

Sin

shinydiamond77 Simply not being directly harmful does not mean it's fine or even necessary to allow. Unlike boys, girls almost never have a valid reason to touch there, especially when a bidet is available. In almost every situation, when a girl touches there, it would be better if she didn't or couldn't. That's why a girl doing anything involving her private area should require permission first.

Back when I was 14 I did not know about masturbation or orgasms. Still, I wish I had a belt back then, it would have been good for me.

Woah! Couldn't disagree more.
If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.

Jen

Ines I have to agree here.

sad to read, but maybe you forget shiny is saying 12 is ok in the other thread.

Ines

Jen

Jen sad to read, but maybe you forget shiny is saying 12 is ok in the other thread.

No, Jen, I explain myself badly:
I agree with the fact that a girl does not have to masturbate. I will never agree in:

A) defend use of a belt in kids
B) forcing use any age

For that I specifically wrote "here".

Angelina

Ines A) defend use of a belt in kids

i know we have discussed this many times but i never got a clear answer. from what age? 12?, 14?, 16?, 18? ...

Kaja

Christine OMG! Why?

Christine

Kaja OMG! Why?

My mom thinks so.

Max9

Sin I actually bought my first cage when I was 14 years old.

Angelina

Sin If I had a belt back then I would have killed myself.

no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

a_father

Max9 But it was your choice, right? @shinydiamond77's daughter has no choice.

Sin

Angelina no one has killed themselves yet (or tried to) it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.

Vanessa

Angelina it's not nice, but we shouldn't overdo it. besides, you can destroy every belt

I agree.

Angelina excessive masturbation

Depends how often she did it.

Angelina

Sin Masturbation kept me sane at that age, it was something I needed at the time.

if it is the only thing that keeps you sane, i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)

Sin

Angelina i would say it falls under excessive masturbation, then a chastity belt might even be a solution (and a therapy)

All of the above!

Sin

Vanessa Depends how often she did it.

It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to? At the time a chastity belt would have been very, very damaging to me, both physically and psychologically. That's why I am strongly against belting teenagers against their will... stopping them from taking care of themselves and labelling girls as "sluts" for doing what is natural / necessary is incredibly damaging.

Angelina

Sin It was often. Is there a limit we should adhere to?

I would say the limit is where masturbation has a negative impact on other areas of life, so no exact number.

Joh

Angelina
I agree with that. If you are not addicted and you have fun without neglecting other important things in your life is fine.

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Even if I think than more than 1 or twice a day,for a woman,would tend to be too much.

Joh Play excessively is not necessary a proof of addiction.

Yes,but it still is excessive masturbation,so.

Sin

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