Chastity checks
Yes, you get a little tense, especially when the review is long.
But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.
Raquel But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.
I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.
It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother
My wife regularly checked my chastity device. Not that she's afraid I'm doing anything illegal. I wear the chastity device voluntarily. She says every time I'm a good boy and better off, no unnecessary waste of semen, after years of self-gratification. Ever since the bull has the key to my chastity device, he has been inspecting. He watches with amusement as I undress. I don't feel humiliated, knowing he has every right to do these inspections.
I usually get checked daily when I get home from work. One of my parents checks if the cage is still sitting correctly, then checks the number of the seal an if it's still threaded through the lock correctly. At last, they do a pull check, making sure that the seal can't be opened and hasn't been tampered with.
Saintprudence I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.
i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.
Igor It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother
it doesn't really matter, it depends on how well the key holder performs these tasks, a man can do it just as well as a woman and vice versa.
nice to read from you again 
Angelina i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.
I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.
Saintprudence I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.
right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility". 
Angelina literally the greatest line in the last century of literature, in my opinion.
I, uh, might be a great big Stan Lee nerd.
I don't send the photos any more, just a message when locked. There are occasional random checks or if I'm going out at night.
Angelina right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility".
Yes. I think because of this it is extremely important to clarify as much as possible before you choose a keyholder and I think it's very important that the keyholder has some freedom about what he can demand from you. I think it's unhealthy to always look for fairness. Wearing a belt for someone should feel right and should make you happy in the long term. But it's not necessary that you are happy with every situation that results from wearing the belt or that it feels fair for you. It's necessary that it feels consistent. That you know that, B or C is forbidden and doing A will always lead to X, Y, Z no matter what day your keyholder had.
Saintprudence literally the greatest line in the last century of literature, in my opinion.
I, uh, might be a great big Stan Lee nerd.
i'm not really a fan of this, but this sentence has a lot of true
Sara2001 of this it is extremely important to clarify as much as possible before you choose a keyholder and I think it's very important that the keyholder has some freedom about what he can demand from you
somehow i see this as a contradiction. i agree with the first part, but aren't these clarifying conversations held to prevent the keyholder from having too much freedom (power) that he could abuse?