Chastity checks

Saintprudence

Yolanda the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.

The mental impact of being checked is probably more important than the checking itself. Just knowing that your restriction will be monitored lets a belted girl know that she should relax and not struggle as much, for fear of leaving evidence that they've rebelled against their lockup.

Rafael

Saintprudence

Very well described.
As a man, the only way I have to get involved is by showing how important it is for me to see that she is okay and that the belt is safe.

Angelina

Abby82 But theoretically i can understand that the belt wouldn't be effective if it would give some chance to touch the crotch in some position. But that's what i dream about 😅 😅

but precisely because the belts are so effective, i don't see the point in you doing "acrobatics" every day. a secure belt should not allow cheating no matter how you bend.

Yolanda and the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.

really? it would make me more nervous, i.e. that the keyholder finds something he/she considers to be an attempt to cheat and that i am then unjustly punished.

Renita

a_father So why trying to take it off or cheating?

To prove, that I can't.

a_father You can quit whenever you want.

Yes.

Raquel

Yes, you get a little tense, especially when the review is long.
But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.

Saintprudence

Raquel But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.

I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.

Laura

Raquel Her mother didn't make them

Shame to @Tere 😂

Angelina

Saintprudence I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.

i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.

Igor It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother

it doesn't really matter, it depends on how well the key holder performs these tasks, a man can do it just as well as a woman and vice versa.

Lukas

nice to read from you again 🙂

Rafael

Saintprudence I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.

Correct.

Ines

Ines Yes, it is the normal. Always when it is locked again, and randomly some times every day.
Not only locks, but the rings too.

Do you see, Laura ? 😂

Raquel

Laura

Yes. Her mother Tere was serious but she has more trust in Ines than my parents in me. 😅 😅

Ines

No!
I think she is talking about @Barbara , I do not have regular checkings, but I have them several tomes every day due I have some breaks.

Laura

Ines I think she is talking about @Barbara

Then my mistake 😂

Igor

It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother

Joh

Igor If the CB is closed it is like checking a swimsuit if it fits. And because it mad out of steal he can not bend it and expose anything. Where should the problem be?

HHelen

Igor It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right.

It's fine, as long as the belt is locked and he doesn't have a key.

Pieter_Cuck

My wife regularly checked my chastity device. Not that she's afraid I'm doing anything illegal. I wear the chastity device voluntarily. She says every time I'm a good boy and better off, no unnecessary waste of semen, after years of self-gratification. Ever since the bull has the key to my chastity device, he has been inspecting. He watches with amusement as I undress. I don't feel humiliated, knowing he has every right to do these inspections.

Lukas

I usually get checked daily when I get home from work. One of my parents checks if the cage is still sitting correctly, then checks the number of the seal an if it's still threaded through the lock correctly. At last, they do a pull check, making sure that the seal can't be opened and hasn't been tampered with.

Saintprudence

Angelina i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.

I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.

Angelina

Saintprudence I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.

right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility". 😉

Saintprudence

Angelina literally the greatest line in the last century of literature, in my opinion.

I, uh, might be a great big Stan Lee nerd.

Sara2001

Angelina right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility". 😉

Yes. I think because of this it is extremely important to clarify as much as possible before you choose a keyholder and I think it's very important that the keyholder has some freedom about what he can demand from you. I think it's unhealthy to always look for fairness. Wearing a belt for someone should feel right and should make you happy in the long term. But it's not necessary that you are happy with every situation that results from wearing the belt or that it feels fair for you. It's necessary that it feels consistent. That you know that, B or C is forbidden and doing A will always lead to X, Y, Z no matter what day your keyholder had.

Angelina

Saintprudence literally the greatest line in the last century of literature, in my opinion.

I, uh, might be a great big Stan Lee nerd.

i'm not really a fan of this, but this sentence has a lot of true 🙂

Sara2001 of this it is extremely important to clarify as much as possible before you choose a keyholder and I think it's very important that the keyholder has some freedom about what he can demand from you

somehow i see this as a contradiction. i agree with the first part, but aren't these clarifying conversations held to prevent the keyholder from having too much freedom (power) that he could abuse?

Jen

I don't send the photos any more, just a message when locked. There are occasional random checks or if I'm going out at night.

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