Chastity checks

Abby82 But theoretically i can understand that the belt wouldn't be effective if it would give some chance to touch the crotch in some position. But that's what i dream about

but precisely because the belts are so effective, i don't see the point in you doing "acrobatics" every day. a secure belt should not allow cheating no matter how you bend.

Yolanda and the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.

really? it would make me more nervous, i.e. that the keyholder finds something he/she considers to be an attempt to cheat and that i am then unjustly punished.

Yes, you get a little tense, especially when the review is long.
But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.

Raquel But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.

I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.

Raquel Her mother didn't make them

Shame to @Tere

No!
I think she is talking about @Barbara , I do not have regular checkings, but I have them several tomes every day due I have some breaks.

Ines Yes, it is the normal. Always when it is locked again, and randomly some times every day.
Not only locks, but the rings too.

Do you see, Laura ?

Ines I think she is talking about @Barbara

Then my mistake

It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother

My wife regularly checked my chastity device. Not that she's afraid I'm doing anything illegal. I wear the chastity device voluntarily. She says every time I'm a good boy and better off, no unnecessary waste of semen, after years of self-gratification. Ever since the bull has the key to my chastity device, he has been inspecting. He watches with amusement as I undress. I don't feel humiliated, knowing he has every right to do these inspections.

Saintprudence I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.

i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.

Igor It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother

it doesn't really matter, it depends on how well the key holder performs these tasks, a man can do it just as well as a woman and vice versa.

Lukas

nice to read from you again

Angelina i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.

I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.

Saintprudence I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.

right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility".

Angelina literally the greatest line in the last century of literature, in my opinion.

I, uh, might be a great big Stan Lee nerd.

I don't send the photos any more, just a message when locked. There are occasional random checks or if I'm going out at night.

Angelina right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility".

Yes. I think because of this it is extremely important to clarify as much as possible before you choose a keyholder and I think it's very important that the keyholder has some freedom about what he can demand from you. I think it's unhealthy to always look for fairness. Wearing a belt for someone should feel right and should make you happy in the long term. But it's not necessary that you are happy with every situation that results from wearing the belt or that it feels fair for you. It's necessary that it feels consistent. That you know that, B or C is forbidden and doing A will always lead to X, Y, Z no matter what day your keyholder had.

Laura

Yes. Her mother Tere was serious but she has more trust in Ines than my parents in me.