Saintprudence And she can change the rules whenever she wants. She is an adult independent woman. Her mother can't force her to continue wearing. Her life, her choice.
Chastity checks
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Angelina i agree that you have to check the equipment and the padlocks once or even several times a day to make sure that it is still tight and that nothing has been manipulated. however, i think it is too much to show all positions.
I spend about 5-10 minutes with each girl, my husband takes much less time with me.
Checking everything is important to see that there is no danger for the girls and the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.
Abby82 Well in my rules it is stated that cheating is not allowed, but i don't get caught from doing it. Parents probably know that i'm fighting the belt sometimes but they really don't care about it.
Surely they turn a blind eye because they know from the reviews that whatever you do you will be safe.
Abby82 But theoretically i can understand that the belt wouldn't be effective if it would give some chance to touch the crotch in some position. But that's what i dream about
We all have that idea in our heads at some point, it is in our nature as women, that is why it is so important that the belt is out of our control and protects us above all from us, who are our worst temptresses.
Yolanda the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.
The mental impact of being checked is probably more important than the checking itself. Just knowing that your restriction will be monitored lets a belted girl know that she should relax and not struggle as much, for fear of leaving evidence that they've rebelled against their lockup.
Very well described.
As a man, the only way I have to get involved is by showing how important it is for me to see that she is okay and that the belt is safe.
Abby82 But theoretically i can understand that the belt wouldn't be effective if it would give some chance to touch the crotch in some position. But that's what i dream about
but precisely because the belts are so effective, i don't see the point in you doing "acrobatics" every day. a secure belt should not allow cheating no matter how you bend.
Yolanda and the mere fact of being checked puts your mind in an adequate state of mind.
really? it would make me more nervous, i.e. that the keyholder finds something he/she considers to be an attempt to cheat and that i am then unjustly punished.
Yes, you get a little tense, especially when the review is long.
But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.
Raquel But to surprises, my cousin likes reviews. Her mother didn't make them and she says she feels better that way, more cared for.
I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.
It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother
My wife regularly checked my chastity device. Not that she's afraid I'm doing anything illegal. I wear the chastity device voluntarily. She says every time I'm a good boy and better off, no unnecessary waste of semen, after years of self-gratification. Ever since the bull has the key to my chastity device, he has been inspecting. He watches with amusement as I undress. I don't feel humiliated, knowing he has every right to do these inspections.
I usually get checked daily when I get home from work. One of my parents checks if the cage is still sitting correctly, then checks the number of the seal an if it's still threaded through the lock correctly. At last, they do a pull check, making sure that the seal can't be opened and hasn't been tampered with.
Saintprudence I think nothing would feel worse than to be belted full-time with the feeling that your keyholder just didn't really care. Chastity is not something to lock up and forget it was ever there, but an ongoing process of belt-wearer and keyholder working together for everyone's best interests.
i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.
Igor It seems to me that regular checking of adult girls by a father or a man is not right. Perhaps it makes sense to check the locks after removing the belt, but only by the mother
it doesn't really matter, it depends on how well the key holder performs these tasks, a man can do it just as well as a woman and vice versa.
nice to read from you again 
Angelina i agree, however, if the checks cause too much nervousness in a girl, it can go to the opposite, the girl lives in constant fear of being punished. let's say you have a small accident with the belt and there are slight marks on the belt, the key holder might think you want to cheat and would punish you.
I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.
Saintprudence I totally see that. I struggle a lot with how easy it is to abuse the responsibility of being a keyholder.
right, that's why it's also said: "with much power comes much responsibility". 