Laura He has deleted his post. Basically he was looking for a belted girl to marry
ah ok, that explains it 
probably he realised that this is not the right place or he was a troll
right, although there are also many women here who don't necessarily like it when their future partner has a preference for chastity belts. 
DraxenZ It's like an aknowledgement of the importance and value of her body as a temple.
It is. I think the same.
DraxenZ I'd keep my wife in chastity as well
I think is the best way to feel important for our husband.
DraxenZ Nothing against women who aren't in chastity, it's just what I like.
It is very important point. And I believe all girls are not suitable for it.
DraxenZ So, how does one go about finding someone with those values? It's not as if chastity is the first thing that comes up on a first date.
Well, I believe that first is the person and then chastity. Probably you could fall in love with a girl that does not wear a belt, however, you can talk with her and maybe she could understand that the right thing is wear it, even probably she will not want do it.
Ines Well, I believe that first is the person and then chastity. Probably you could fall in love with a girl that does not wear a belt, however, you can talk with her and maybe she could understand that the right thing is wear it, even probably she will not want do it.
In general I agree with you, but I think it is extremely, extremely unlikely that you find a woman who want to wear a chastity belt for you on accident. I think, if it is that important for him, he should search for a woman who is into belts, too and then see if they want a relationship based of love. A relationship based on the shared interest of chastity belt only can't work, but expecting to find a woman who is into chastity belts without explicitly searching for her is very unrealistic from my point of view.
Sara2001 but expecting to find a woman who is into chastity belts without explicitly searching for her is very unrealistic from my point of view.
i agree, most women would probably think he is crazy or call him a fetishist. i say so looking explicitly helps as you said, but at least the direction of interests should be right
Sadly the singles here don't postthat they search for a boyfriend. If they'd just only post a few words like "Hi, I'm Eva , 25 from Ohio anwillingly chaste. I like painting nails and whatever and search for a boyfriend" .... it would definitely help them a lot to find someone (maybe we should make the thread for this only visible for registered users)
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it would help anyone here, because right noe we have sad single girls and sad single boys...
Max9 Here's an unspoken truth: anyone here who's really belted by their parents for college or whatever and not just telling a story? They aren't likely to be searching for singles any time soon. The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match. Some things never change. Purity culture's obsession with policing the bodies of unmarried women is one of them.
We've discussed a lot about an unwed chastity dating site,but decided it would be mainly useless.
GoodyProctor The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match.
Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.
Vanessa Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.
But would you be allowed to marry without your parents' permission? They already have you locked up. I doubt they'd have a problem using that as leverage to veto the marriage.
GoodyProctor Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted? Most of us want to get rid of the belt as soon as possible, so I think this is maybe one of the last places to find a woman who wants to live in chastiy.
Sara2001 Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted?
good point
Goody's comment about arranged, or at least parents approved, marriage... How does that relate to you and Daniel?
How did your first meet him, was he a family friend?
