Finding a chaste lady

Angelina

i haven't read all the new stuff yet, can someone tell me why this thread exists ? 😂

Laura

Angelina i haven't read all the new stuff yet, can someone tell me why this thread exists ?

He has deleted his post. Basically he was looking for a belted girl to marry

Angelina

Laura He has deleted his post. Basically he was looking for a belted girl to marry

ah ok, that explains it 🙂 probably he realised that this is not the right place or he was a troll

Tobbe

right, although there are also many women here who don't necessarily like it when their future partner has a preference for chastity belts. 😉

Tobbe

There are some men who now got the idea in recent times that it is willing chastity belted girls/women here, just waiting for the right one who seeking chaste females!!! 🙄

Vanessa

Tobbe

Probably a troll,as he deleted his post soon after posting it...

Max9

Angelina right, although there are also many women here who don't necessarily like it when their future partner has a preference for chastity belts.

Pittily there are not women who like their bf to be chaste 🤷‍♂️

Angelina

Max9 Pittily there are not women who like their bf to be chaste 🤷‍♂️

i wouldn't have a problem with that, although i wouldn't call it a preference, i wouldn't care (as long as i had the keys 😉 )

Vanessa

Max9

I think there is some,but not here,it seems.

Angelina

Vanessa I think there is some,but not here,it seems.

right, I just noticed that it's sometimes the other way round 😉

Ines

DraxenZ It's like an aknowledgement of the importance and value of her body as a temple.

It is. I think the same.

DraxenZ I'd keep my wife in chastity as well

I think is the best way to feel important for our husband.

DraxenZ Nothing against women who aren't in chastity, it's just what I like.

It is very important point. And I believe all girls are not suitable for it.

DraxenZ So, how does one go about finding someone with those values? It's not as if chastity is the first thing that comes up on a first date.

Well, I believe that first is the person and then chastity. Probably you could fall in love with a girl that does not wear a belt, however, you can talk with her and maybe she could understand that the right thing is wear it, even probably she will not want do it.

Vanessa

Ines I think is the best way to feel important for our husband.

Only if willingly.

Ines It is very important point.

I agree.

Sara2001

Ines Well, I believe that first is the person and then chastity. Probably you could fall in love with a girl that does not wear a belt, however, you can talk with her and maybe she could understand that the right thing is wear it, even probably she will not want do it.

In general I agree with you, but I think it is extremely, extremely unlikely that you find a woman who want to wear a chastity belt for you on accident. I think, if it is that important for him, he should search for a woman who is into belts, too and then see if they want a relationship based of love. A relationship based on the shared interest of chastity belt only can't work, but expecting to find a woman who is into chastity belts without explicitly searching for her is very unrealistic from my point of view.

Angelina

Sara2001 but expecting to find a woman who is into chastity belts without explicitly searching for her is very unrealistic from my point of view.

i agree, most women would probably think he is crazy or call him a fetishist. i say so looking explicitly helps as you said, but at least the direction of interests should be right

Vanessa

Sara2001

I would agree with @Ines. He should try to get a girlfriend,and then,talk about chastity belts with her.If they share interest for it,it is good,but if not,as long as they're happy to have a relationship,it s not too bad.

DraxenZ

Angelina I'm glad you understand. How should I go about it. Maybe someone on here's single? ;D

Angelina

DraxenZ I'm glad you understand. How should I go about it. Maybe someone on here's single? ;D

there are some single people here, but not me, but try your luck if someone gets in touch 😉. but it is very hard because we are an anonymous forum

Angelina

Vanessa I would agree with @Ines. He should try to get a girlfriend,and then,talk about chastity belts with her.If they share interest for it,it is good,but if not,as long as they're happy to have a relationship,it s not too bad.

right, it should not be a prerequisite for the relationship, rather a nice additional point 😉

Max9

swiss because on the one hand we are an anonymous forum and on the other hand we are an international forum.

GoodyProctor But would you be allowed to marry without your parents' permission? They already have you locked up. I doubt they'd have a problem using that as leverage to veto the marriage.

one has nothing to do with the other, our parents locked us up so we wouldn't have sex before marriage not so we would marry a chosen partner.

Sara2001 Our parents are friends. We where not forced to have a relationship but kind of "forced" to meet and see where it is going. But it was always clear, that if there is nothing between us, that's would have been perfectly fine.

i think this way is ok, if parents think that the children fit together, they should get to know each other, but the parents should accept that it is ok if it really does not fit.

Max9

Sadly the singles here don't postthat they search for a boyfriend. If they'd just only post a few words like "Hi, I'm Eva , 25 from Ohio anwillingly chaste. I like painting nails and whatever and search for a boyfriend" .... it would definitely help them a lot to find someone (maybe we should make the thread for this only visible for registered users)
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it would help anyone here, because right noe we have sad single girls and sad single boys...

GoodyProctor

Max9 Here's an unspoken truth: anyone here who's really belted by their parents for college or whatever and not just telling a story? They aren't likely to be searching for singles any time soon. The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match. Some things never change. Purity culture's obsession with policing the bodies of unmarried women is one of them.

Vanessa

Max9

We've discussed a lot about an unwed chastity dating site,but decided it would be mainly useless.

GoodyProctor The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match.

Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.

Sara2001

GoodyProctor Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted? Most of us want to get rid of the belt as soon as possible, so I think this is maybe one of the last places to find a woman who wants to live in chastiy.