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  • Reasons a chastity belt sucks?

Vanessa Why,as there is many ways to be free of it,quickly,even in they don't respect the agreement(and the belt can be sent to the trash after it,as she would never accept it again if they betray their agreement)?

because it would damage the family, if it does not work it can destroy a lot of things within the family because the trust that was not there in this situation is no longer there in other situations.

Joh If this would happen they have to face the consequence that with their behaviour they destroyed the last bit of the relationship.

I would never have thought it possible but I agree with you at this point and not with @Vanessa.

        Angelina because it would damage the family, if it does not work it can destroy a lot of things within the family because the trust that was not there in this situation is no longer there in other situations.

        I would let the family be destroyed by it. And I would think it was their doing not mine. But yes it would be difficult but also I don't say it to be stubborn - more like a self defence, I have to be clear about it for myself or the whole thing is overwhelming. also long term I think it would be better anyway - the short term destroy family and move on is better than long term me being destroyed. But anyway i don't think this is something i need to worry about.

            Jen But anyway i don't think this is something i need to worry about.

            I hope so for you, maybe you will manage to meet an arangemant with your parents for a long time or maybe with a future partner 😉

              Joh

              Mine are bad enough to be a deterrent.

              Angelina because it would damage the family, if it does not work it can destroy a lot of things within the family because the trust that was not there in this situation is no longer there in other situations.

              Right,it could damage a bit more the family.But,about trust,it seems it is already not here anymore.

              Angelina I would never have thought it possible but I agree with you at this point and not with @Vanessa.

              But it would not be @Jen's fault,but the fault of her parents.

              Jen And I would think it was their doing not mine.

              Right.

                        Vanessa But,about trust,it seems it is already not here anymore.

                        that may be, i just want to say that a family where there is no trust is not a happy family. i hate that i have to wear the belt but i would stop immediately if i could not trust my father.

                        Vanessa But it would not be @Jen's fault,but the fault of her parents.

                        Of course not, but the trust would be gone, no matter who is fault

                              Angelina

                              Don't you think it could help to restore the trust,however,if they follow the agreement(no matter what would be @Jen's decision,after the trying)?

                                  Vanessa trust isn't gone, that's why i said i don't need to worry.

                                      Jen

                                      Oh,ok,good trust isn't gone!🙂

                                      Why do you think this,now?It was not the case not so long ago,it seems...

                                      • Jen replied to this.

                                          Vanessa ,if they follow the agreement

                                          that is the critical point IF they follow

                                          Jen i think they realise what they did.

                                          that sounds good, so your parents realized they went the wrong way?

                                                Jen

                                                Good,it may help if you want to try it,and have an agreement with them.

                                                Angelina that is the critical point IF they follow

                                                Only @Jen would be able to guess well if they would follow it or not,I think.

                                                      Vanessa Only @Jen would be able to guess well if they would follow it or not,I think.

                                                      of course, I do not want to claim that I know better than @Jen herself

                                                        2 months later

                                                        Jen Why do you suddenly need a chastity belt? I tought it's only no sex toys for you.