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James Also @Jen, what's the for list?

Angelina actually you should make 2 lists, one for the pro and one for the contra side

Hi, I get that your interested but I don't really want to share the pro list. I think it's part of my thoughts on what to do and I want it to be my decision.

Foxies learn also how it effects you emotionally

Thankyou

Foxies In the end a chastity device is an incredibly potent tool to effect your mental well being.

That's intense. Yeah it can't just be a decision, needs to be an ongoing confirmation it works for you.

Vanessa A lot of frustration

Hah 😳 I bet. But I'm leaving that off- part of primary purpose of belt not other issues

Jonas a possible course of action that most people don't have simply because chastity belts are so darn expensive.

Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

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Thanks all for helping with a bit of real perspective

                Jen Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or
                doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

                If it had been left unlocked, I'd have already tried it and gotten stuck in it by now! Lol. 😃

                Seriously, it is a genuine opportunity and you're right, this chance won't be available forever, but the stress and negativity surrounding the presentation of the whole idea must have confused things terribly. Whatever you decide, I hope you make a positive decision to reject the belt or a positive decision to give it a try.

                  Jen Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

                  What ever you want to do. Never give the key to your parents.

                    Jen Hi, I get that your interested but I don't really want to share the pro list. I think it's part of my thoughts on what to do and I want it to be my decision.

                    let me guess, you have found too many pro arguments and now want us to give you contra arguments 😂

                    Jen Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

                    maybe not a few years but a few months you should wait, at least until your parents no longer think that you have this idea. and you should not let yourself be pushed by youself.

                          Angelina let me guess, you have found too many pro arguments and now want us to give you contra arguments

                          Could it be that the pro arguments are more like feelings? Harder to put into words? And confusing because, rationally, actually deciding to wear a chastity belt in 2021 seems so crazy!

                          Angelina maybe not a few years but a few months you should wait, at least until your parents no longer think that you have this idea. and you should not let yourself be pushed by youself.

                          Waiting is a good idea if it means that the belt can re-approached in a positive way. Presentation of the idea was totally messed up imo (as is it was in your case too I think). I guess key-holding is a skill that needs to be learned too.

                                Jonas Could it be that the pro arguments are more like feelings? Harder to put into words? And confusing because, rationally, actually deciding to wear a chastity belt in 2021 seems so crazy!

                                this may well be the case yes

                                  Joh Ever since my chastity began, I began to feel insanely sexy. I have never experienced such strong sexual sensations. Not being able to get rid of your urges feels like being in a constant rush of adrenaline. I love it madly, although at first I was very afraid that I would lose the opportunity to masturbate and I would have to endure a lot.

                                  But now my position has changed. I think that chastity allows you to explore the other side of sexuality, to feel the sensations that you would never experience constantly getting rid of sexual tension.

                                  Joh It is certainly difficult to accept when it does not depend on you. But I accepted chastity after persistent persuasion, so I kind of accepted it myself, somewhere in half. Therefore, I do not know if this choice should be considered imposed.

                                        Jen Sexy clothes

                                        In my case, I feel much sexier with a belt, and I want to dress as sexy as the boys' fashion allows. Anyway, if it weren't for the belt, I would hardly have paid attention to skinny fit, thongs for men and short bonded jackets.

                                          Alex
                                          Everything has min two sides and what you experienced is another way. It is dependent on the viewpoint if it a bad or a good thing.

                                          I did a similar way with my girlfriend sometime. I excited her until just before the climax and then stopped. After some time started again and so on. I let her come only at the end of the weekend. She found that very nice, even the next day without having come, because it resonated in her after.

                                            Jen Limits sport activity

                                            My cup, like the previous cage, did not interfere with my sports activities. if you wear tight and slimming underwear, in order to press the belt to the body as much as possible, then the cage will find itself in a very tight space in order to loose it to the sides. But this applies to male cages, full belts for girls probably rigidly restrict movement.

                                            I wear tight and tight men's thongs with a wide strip and a voluminous codpiece to completely cover the cup. And the only hindrance to active movement is only the feeling of the perceptible weight of this device. But in the end it doesn't matter, since he's already tucked up tight.

                                            I also tried the dance bondage that dancers usually wear. It is just like a thong, and I found it the most comfortable for athletics. if anyone does not know what it is, you can easily find it on the Internet for the query "dance bandage"

                                              @Jen

                                              The biggest concern for me, is hygiene. The responsibility for wearing a belt isn't just for what your parents want, but for you to remain safe, by staying healthy hygienically. My alternate main concerns are mobility, as if someone needs to move you around if you're unconscious, especially if they need to give you a piggy back ride, but you can't because of thigh bands. You did list plenty of bad things about the chastity belt, but like anything you own, you need to be responsible of how it's used. Your parents sound strict since they first mentioned the belt, but I really hope you'll be ok. Do NOT wear the belt until you are 100% sure, or you will face regrets.

                                              As others have mentioned, keep a pro list, since looking at positive outlooks would help you cheer you up rather than seeing the chastity belt a completely negative device. I'm sure there are a few pros, but make sure they outweigh the cons. Do as you see fit, but the final decision is ultimately up to you.

                                              EDIT: Thanks Max9.

                                                @Raziel, you cab youse an @ and write ones name after that, then they get a notification that you've written them a message... just saying ✌🏼

                                                Jonas Could it be that the pro arguments are more like feelings? Harder to put into words? And confusing because, rationally, actually deciding to wear a chastity belt in 2021 seems so crazy!

                                                Yes, yes & yes and also feels more personal too.

                                                Raziel keep a pro list, since looking at positive outlooks would help you cheer you up rather than seeing the chastity belt a completely negative device.

                                                Pro's scare me a bit like some ideas are daft. And negatives are real things so don't want to say anything stupid and make things awkward at home again. ......................... Yeah so I think I've been staring at this for 20 minutes. Was going to say something about why but my thoughts are in a loop.

                                                Negatives are so much easier and also really interesting to see the other side like @Sin wrote some are not negative at all.

                                                      Jen some ideas are daft

                                                      Who says it is daft?

                                                        I agree with your proposal. I think comfort and period are the things that sucks most...

                                                        Jen You have a top of the range CB, a forum full of support and you have possible keyholders who are loving, but firm.
                                                        Chastity is there if you want it.

                                                        If your parents' feelings resonate within you, or if you want to commit to your future life-partner, or you think you'll "feel sexy AF" in your belt then great.

                                                        On the other hand, if chastity makes you feel fearful, awkward, or negative then drop the idea and think no more about it. No worries,

                                                          I’m half tempted to start a “reasons a chastity belt is awesome” thread but I’m not sure I have the nerve, so I’ll just hope someone else does 🙂.

                                                            Jen Don't do it with your parents. I'm sorry but that's just unbelievably weird. Buy a cheap belt from eBay for like $50, play around for a little while and make your decision when you feel comfortable and you've had some experience. Do some sessions by yourself on a keyholding site if you want to know what it's like to lose control for a little while (albeit with a maximum duration of your choice).

                                                            Maybe if you express an interest in it your parents will give you your good belt to wear when you go out or something. But never, ever, EVER let them hold the keys, because that's some next-level creepy incest shit.

                                                                Sin There's only one thing I would change - I wouldn't buy a belt but a cage for $50, because for that price you can get a great cage but only a very cheap belt.

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                                                                    Max9 Not sure a cage would work in Jen's case! Here you go, AU$47 delivered...
                                                                    https://www.ebay.com/itm/353161852590

                                                                    Nowhere near as secure as a My-Steel but comfortable, discrete and perfectly suitable for a teenager just beginning to explore the world of chastity, without the obvious dangers. Attachments optional!