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  • Reasons a chastity belt sucks?

Jen Hi, I get that your interested but I don't really want to share the pro list. I think it's part of my thoughts on what to do and I want it to be my decision.

I understand and respect your choice,but it could be hard for us to give good advices if we only know half of it...

Jen Hah 😳 I bet. But I'm leaving that off- part of primary purpose of belt not other issues

I would say more a side-effect of the purpose.It is not meant to make you frustrated.

Jen Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

Understandable.But be careful.

Angelina let me guess, you have found too many pro arguments and now want us to give you contra arguments 😂

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Angelina your parents no longer think that you have this idea

I doubt they guess that @Jen is considering trying it.

Angelina your parents currently think that you have refused and they have no chance to get you in the belt

Right.They probably given up hope to make her wear a chastity belt.

Angelina you also don't seem to have 100% trust in your parents about the whole thing.

Understandable,the start of it was not done well...

                  Sin I'm going to try and ask for the key, I think getting caught with another belt in the house would be worse. But waiting till I'm 18 first.

                      Jen Good idea! If you get your hands on it, tell them you want to try wearing it out. Then go straight to the hardware store and get a bunch of keys cut. Stash one in your purse, one in your bag, one in your glovebox, one at friend's house, one under a rock in the garden... you get the idea.
                      ;-)

                          Sin tell them you want to try wearing it out. Then go straight to the hardware store and get a bunch of keys cut

                          I doubt they will give her the key, they can only unlock the belt

                              Laura they can only unlock the belt

                              @Jen would dictate the rules! If her parents don't accept them she would not do it.

                                  Laura Could they not give up the key to enable the belt to be trialled? In the future if they all decide to go ahead with the idea, the parents could buy another lock/key combo.

                                      Laura
                                      I believe the same, and it is pretty logical, I would not give the key to the wearer. It is a contradiction.
                                      Sadely she miss trust her parents.
                                      It is a hard situation due even if she buys a belt and has the keys, the feeling would be very different of depend and trust in a keyholder.

                                          Ines they can trust me first by handing over the key. Why doesn't it make sense to have the key while getting used to it?

                                              Jen You should never choose your parents as keyholder. You know, you can't trust your mother. In my opinion parents are always the wrong keyholder because of the power imbalance between parents and children. It mostly ends in abuse of power.You can break off a relationship with anyone else. But you have your parents for a lifetime. If you want to experiment, find a friend. Ask your parents to open the lock and buy a lock for your own for test.

                                                Vanessa I doubt they guess that @Jen is considering trying it.

                                                but that is why she should still be careful

                                                Jen I'm going to try and ask for the key, I think getting caught with another belt in the house would be worse. But waiting till I'm 18 first.

                                                good decision, but please remain cautious and under no circumstances enter into a deal that you do not want. 🙂

                                                Jen Why doesn't it make sense to have the key while getting used to it?

                                                i'll try to argue from your parents' point of view. you could have a spare key made and hide it. that would counteract the whole system of the chastity belt.

                                                        Jen they can trust me first by handing over the key.

                                                        I think such a gesture would help you to feel that chastity wasn't a stressful or crazy idea.

                                                        Why doesn't it make sense to have the key while getting used to it?

                                                        I think it does make a lot of sense. To give informed consent, it is reasonable for you to find out what wearing a belt is actually like. And it is far better to test the belt a little each day over, say, a month than it would be to suddenly to try it for three days straight and end up sore and stressed out.

                                                        I had the key for my belt for months before I decided to give it up. Even then it wasn't an all or nothing thing, at first.

                                                        Angelina you could have a spare key made and hide it.

                                                        As I say, I think copying the key isn't an issue because a replacement lock/key can be bought if and when they're needed.

                                                              Jen
                                                              Well in my opinion because since you have the power you are not using to wear a chastity belt. Basically, further the physical use the chastity belt means to be overpowered. And you do not know this intense feeling if you have a key. You can not know what means wear a belt if you have power over your belt.
                                                              Your situation is hard, in fact I do not trust in your mother in this sense, but, this point that I am touching is true, and every girl here can say you the same.

                                                                  Ines Well in my opinion because since you have the power you are not using to wear a chastity belt.

                                                                  I agree with you, but I think in such an awkward situation they should move forward very slowly.

                                                                  1. - Get used to wearing the belt.
                                                                  2. - Build loving trust with keyholders.
                                                                  3. - Gently experiment with not having the key.
                                                                  4. - Choose whether to keep the belt or dump it.

                                                                  In this manner consent is assured and all parties end up getting a fair chance of getting what they want - in the end.

                                                                      Ines It's an attempt to give the belt another chance, but in a positive way.

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                                                                        Jonas Could they not give up the key to enable the belt to be trialled?

                                                                        She can ask to be unlocked anytime instead

                                                                        Ines I believe the same, and it is pretty logical, I would not give the key to the wearer.

                                                                        My parents do the same. They never give me the key

                                                                        Jen they can trust me first by handing over the key

                                                                        They can trust you be leaving the belt open

                                                                                A negative reason I'm surprised isn't listed yet:

                                                                                You can't hug your friends without risking some questioning looks.

                                                                                  gwen
                                                                                  You can not hug your friends due a pandemia.
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                                                                                      Ines You can not hug your friends due a pandemia.

                                                                                      Hopefully this is a temporary situation! With vaccines rolled out widely in my area, hugs have again resumed.

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                                                                                          gwen
                                                                                          Even with vaccine social distance must be maintained.
                                                                                          And with my chastity belt I hug friends and relatives... I do not brush my body when I hug someone! And I am southern!
                                                                                          Even with wide belts over the drees more discreet. There are a lot of propaganda and with a chastity belt you can wear trousers without problem.