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@Raziel, you cab youse an @ and write ones name after that, then they get a notification that you've written them a message... just saying ✌🏼

Jonas Could it be that the pro arguments are more like feelings? Harder to put into words? And confusing because, rationally, actually deciding to wear a chastity belt in 2021 seems so crazy!

Yes, yes & yes and also feels more personal too.

Raziel keep a pro list, since looking at positive outlooks would help you cheer you up rather than seeing the chastity belt a completely negative device.

Pro's scare me a bit like some ideas are daft. And negatives are real things so don't want to say anything stupid and make things awkward at home again. ......................... Yeah so I think I've been staring at this for 20 minutes. Was going to say something about why but my thoughts are in a loop.

Negatives are so much easier and also really interesting to see the other side like @Sin wrote some are not negative at all.

        Jen some ideas are daft

        Who says it is daft?

          I agree with your proposal. I think comfort and period are the things that sucks most...

          Jen You have a top of the range CB, a forum full of support and you have possible keyholders who are loving, but firm.
          Chastity is there if you want it.

          If your parents' feelings resonate within you, or if you want to commit to your future life-partner, or you think you'll "feel sexy AF" in your belt then great.

          On the other hand, if chastity makes you feel fearful, awkward, or negative then drop the idea and think no more about it. No worries,

            I’m half tempted to start a “reasons a chastity belt is awesome” thread but I’m not sure I have the nerve, so I’ll just hope someone else does 🙂.

              Jen Don't do it with your parents. I'm sorry but that's just unbelievably weird. Buy a cheap belt from eBay for like $50, play around for a little while and make your decision when you feel comfortable and you've had some experience. Do some sessions by yourself on a keyholding site if you want to know what it's like to lose control for a little while (albeit with a maximum duration of your choice).

              Maybe if you express an interest in it your parents will give you your good belt to wear when you go out or something. But never, ever, EVER let them hold the keys, because that's some next-level creepy incest shit.

                  Sin There's only one thing I would change - I wouldn't buy a belt but a cage for $50, because for that price you can get a great cage but only a very cheap belt.

                  • Sin replied to this.

                      Max9 Not sure a cage would work in Jen's case! Here you go, AU$47 delivered...
                      https://www.ebay.com/itm/353161852590

                      Nowhere near as secure as a My-Steel but comfortable, discrete and perfectly suitable for a teenager just beginning to explore the world of chastity, without the obvious dangers. Attachments optional!

                        Jen

                        i try to interpret what you write all the time, but i don't really succeed. you seem very insecure and i'm not quite sure why, because no one is pushing you at the moment. your parents currently think that you have refused and they have no chance to get you in the belt and i would advise you to take your time.

                        you also don't seem to have 100% trust in your parents about the whole thing. i can understand that, but if that's not the case, there's no point in trying, because the relationship between the wearer and the keyholder is very important.

                            Jen Hi, I get that your interested but I don't really want to share the pro list. I think it's part of my thoughts on what to do and I want it to be my decision.

                            I understand and respect your choice,but it could be hard for us to give good advices if we only know half of it...

                            Jen Hah 😳 I bet. But I'm leaving that off- part of primary purpose of belt not other issues

                            I would say more a side-effect of the purpose.It is not meant to make you frustrated.

                            Jen Yeah that's one of my reasons. If I wait a few years and then the belt is gone or doesn't fit I think I'll regret not even giving it a go.

                            Understandable.But be careful.

                            Angelina let me guess, you have found too many pro arguments and now want us to give you contra arguments 😂

                            🤣

                            Angelina your parents no longer think that you have this idea

                            I doubt they guess that @Jen is considering trying it.

                            Angelina your parents currently think that you have refused and they have no chance to get you in the belt

                            Right.They probably given up hope to make her wear a chastity belt.

                            Angelina you also don't seem to have 100% trust in your parents about the whole thing.

                            Understandable,the start of it was not done well...

                                            Sin I'm going to try and ask for the key, I think getting caught with another belt in the house would be worse. But waiting till I'm 18 first.

                                                Jen Good idea! If you get your hands on it, tell them you want to try wearing it out. Then go straight to the hardware store and get a bunch of keys cut. Stash one in your purse, one in your bag, one in your glovebox, one at friend's house, one under a rock in the garden... you get the idea.
                                                ;-)

                                                    Sin tell them you want to try wearing it out. Then go straight to the hardware store and get a bunch of keys cut

                                                    I doubt they will give her the key, they can only unlock the belt

                                                        Laura they can only unlock the belt

                                                        @Jen would dictate the rules! If her parents don't accept them she would not do it.

                                                            Laura Could they not give up the key to enable the belt to be trialled? In the future if they all decide to go ahead with the idea, the parents could buy another lock/key combo.

                                                                Laura
                                                                I believe the same, and it is pretty logical, I would not give the key to the wearer. It is a contradiction.
                                                                Sadely she miss trust her parents.
                                                                It is a hard situation due even if she buys a belt and has the keys, the feeling would be very different of depend and trust in a keyholder.

                                                                    Ines they can trust me first by handing over the key. Why doesn't it make sense to have the key while getting used to it?

                                                                        Jen You should never choose your parents as keyholder. You know, you can't trust your mother. In my opinion parents are always the wrong keyholder because of the power imbalance between parents and children. It mostly ends in abuse of power.You can break off a relationship with anyone else. But you have your parents for a lifetime. If you want to experiment, find a friend. Ask your parents to open the lock and buy a lock for your own for test.

                                                                          Vanessa I doubt they guess that @Jen is considering trying it.

                                                                          but that is why she should still be careful

                                                                          Jen I'm going to try and ask for the key, I think getting caught with another belt in the house would be worse. But waiting till I'm 18 first.

                                                                          good decision, but please remain cautious and under no circumstances enter into a deal that you do not want. 🙂

                                                                          Jen Why doesn't it make sense to have the key while getting used to it?

                                                                          i'll try to argue from your parents' point of view. you could have a spare key made and hide it. that would counteract the whole system of the chastity belt.