punishment for arousal

Angelina

Vanessa I'm not allowed to have such massagers,bit I've tried a few times with some ex,without success.

while you were wearing the belt?

Vanessa

Angelina

With and without.

Works well without the belt,and not at all with the belt...

shinydiamond77

Kaja

No, I would never punish my daughter for arousal, or for trying to get around the belt. She should not feel guilty for feeling aroused and acting on it.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 or for trying to get around the belt.

but i think you would do something about it if it had any chance of success (like thighbands etc.), that would be a kind of punishment. ?

Avery

shinydiamond77 No, I would never punish my daughter for arousal, or for trying to get around the belt. She should not feel guilty for feeling aroused and acting on it.

I've read on the net about girls who can orgasm simply by stimulating their breasts. I can't manage it but for belted girls it might be a useful technique to master.

shinydiamond77

Angelina

No. If she finds a way to bypass the belt, there isn't much I can do. Thigh bands are absolutely out of question, just no.

It's very unlikely she can bypass it though. I don't think it's physically possible.

Angelina

shinydiamond77

good that you are not thinking about thighbands, but i doubt that it is not physically possible, we just haven't found the right way yet.

Vanessa Works well without the belt,and not at all with the belt...

that is good

shinydiamond77

Angelina

The shield on my daughter's belt is firmly pressed against the body, it's impossible to move aside or pull away at all. There is no way to make a gap between the skin and the shield anywhere.

Avery

I am aware, but it's the same as with thigh bands - I'd rather not do anything than make her wear a chastity bra. In my view those devices are just completely unacceptable.

Vanessa

Angelina that is good

Why?

It would better if it could work with the belt...

Avery I can't manage it

I can't too...🙁

Angelina if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra

I think so,too.

Even if it depends on the purpose of the chastity belt;useless to be sure she stays virgin until marriage,for example.

Angelina But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so. 😉

I agree.

Angelina without thighbands i can stimulate myself minimally, but it is definitely not enough for an orgasm.

Often the case.

Angelina

Avery I've read on the net about girls who can orgasm simply by stimulating their breasts. I can't manage it but for belted girls it might be a useful technique to master.

@Sara2001 can do it 😉 and yes it could be useful, i can't. but if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra

shinydiamond77 The shield on my daughter's belt is firmly pressed against the body, it's impossible to move aside or pull away at all. There is no way to make a gap between the skin and the shield anywhere.

even if she pushes the skin down hard enough?

shinydiamond77 In my view those devices are just completely unacceptable.

it's good that you don't think about it, but to simply say it's unacceptable that would shorten the debate, there are reasons for these devices, they should just be worn voluntarily in my opinion.

gwen

Avery I've read on the net about girls who can orgasm simply by stimulating their breasts. I can't manage it but for belted girls it might be a useful technique to master.

I have also achieved orgasms this way. It always took quite a bit longer than genital stimulation, and the orgasm was not as intense, but it did happen on occasion.

I never attempted to do it to myself, though. There was always a partner involved.

Avery

shinydiamond77 I am aware, but it's the same as with thigh bands - I'd rather not do anything than make her wear a chastity bra. In my view those devices are just completely unacceptable.

I agree completely. Can't see any harm anyway in her playing with her breasts.

Avery

Angelina @Sara2001 can do it 😉 and yes it could be useful, i can't. but if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra

Boy I hope @Sara2001 can send me some pointers.

Ines

Angelina
Well, even if I agree with you in this, thigh bands should be a "must" sometimes, I understand that for @shinydiamond77 they can be unacceptable.
It is her opinion 😅

Jen

Angelina even if she pushes the skin down hard enough?

Mine the shield is curved and the sides push down I can get a finger tip under the side but I'm pushing into the side and it's no good. From the front I can just reach enough to be nice but I need more, like I really need internal as well to finish.

Joh

Avery I think it is only dependent on the person. Maybe you can learn it with exercise and passion.

Angelina

Avery Boy I hope @Sara2001 can send me some pointers.

But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so. 😉

Ines , thigh bands should be a "must" sometimes,

you should really do some advertising for thighbands 😂

Jen

i have had similar experiences. without thighbands i can stimulate myself minimally, but it is definitely not enough for an orgasm.

Avery

Joh Avery I think it is only dependent on the person. Maybe you can learn it with exercise and passion.

I think there's a mental component too, visualization, fantasizing, to make up for the lack of genital stimulation.

Joh

Avery mental component too, visualization, fantasizing

I agree. Strong fantasy and imagination can eclipse everything.

Avery Maybe if my boobs were bigge

It has nothing to do with size more with sensitivity.

Sara2001

Avery I think there's a mental component too, visualization, fantasizing, to make up for the lack of genital stimulation.

I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.

Avery

Angelina But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so. 😉

Maybe if my boobs were bigger...

Angelina

Avery Maybe if my boobs were bigger...

I don't know if it has anything to do with that, it might, mine are rather small and I can't do it , so you could be right

Avery

Angelina I don't know if it has anything to do with that

I may be trying too hard. I read things like "I need to be incredibly relaxed, otherwise, I overthink it and can’t get there." That sounds like me. And "don’t focus on whether or not an orgasm is building; just enjoy the sensations for what they are."

Angelina

Avery I may be trying too hard. I read things like "I need to be incredibly relaxed, otherwise, I overthink it and can’t get there." That sounds like me. And "don’t focus on whether or not an orgasm is building; just enjoy the sensations for what they are."

i have already tried this, but either one needs physical prerequisites or i cannot relax enough, although i can stimulate myself.

Sara2001 I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.

you once wrote that it is like a kind of orgasm. did you ever try to orgasm this way before your relationship?

Vanessa Even if it depends on the purpose of the chastity belt;useless to be sure she stays virgin until marriage,for example.

Of Course, but for some parents virginity means no orgasms no matter what way

Vanessa It would better if it could work with the belt...

sorry i misread, i thought it worked with and without the belt

Avery

Joh I agree. Strong fantasy and imagination can eclipse everything.

Yup, I think that's my best shot.

Avery

Joh It has nothing to do with size more with sensitivity.

Then there's hope.

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