punishment for arousal

Angelina @Sara2001 can do it and yes it could be useful, i can't. but if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra

Boy I hope @Sara2001 can send me some pointers.

Angelina
Well, even if I agree with you in this, thigh bands should be a "must" sometimes, I understand that for @shinydiamond77 they can be unacceptable.
It is her opinion

Angelina even if she pushes the skin down hard enough?

Mine the shield is curved and the sides push down I can get a finger tip under the side but I'm pushing into the side and it's no good. From the front I can just reach enough to be nice but I need more, like I really need internal as well to finish.

Avery I think it is only dependent on the person. Maybe you can learn it with exercise and passion.

Joh Avery I think it is only dependent on the person. Maybe you can learn it with exercise and passion.

I think there's a mental component too, visualization, fantasizing, to make up for the lack of genital stimulation.

Avery Boy I hope @Sara2001 can send me some pointers.

But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so.

Ines , thigh bands should be a "must" sometimes,

you should really do some advertising for thighbands

Jen

i have had similar experiences. without thighbands i can stimulate myself minimally, but it is definitely not enough for an orgasm.

Angelina But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so.

Maybe if my boobs were bigger...

Avery Maybe if my boobs were bigger...

I don't know if it has anything to do with that, it might, mine are rather small and I can't do it , so you could be right

Avery mental component too, visualization, fantasizing

I agree. Strong fantasy and imagination can eclipse everything.

Avery Maybe if my boobs were bigge

It has nothing to do with size more with sensitivity.

Joh It has nothing to do with size more with sensitivity.

Then there's hope.

Avery I think there's a mental component too, visualization, fantasizing, to make up for the lack of genital stimulation.

I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.

Angelina that is good

Why?

It would better if it could work with the belt...

Avery I can't manage it

I can't too...

Angelina if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra

I think so,too.

Even if it depends on the purpose of the chastity belt;useless to be sure she stays virgin until marriage,for example.

Angelina But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so.

I agree.

Angelina without thighbands i can stimulate myself minimally, but it is definitely not enough for an orgasm.

Often the case.

Sara2001 I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.

Yup. Exploration and trying things, if one can.

Avery I may be trying too hard. I read things like "I need to be incredibly relaxed, otherwise, I overthink it and can’t get there." That sounds like me. And "don’t focus on whether or not an orgasm is building; just enjoy the sensations for what they are."

i have already tried this, but either one needs physical prerequisites or i cannot relax enough, although i can stimulate myself.

Sara2001 I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.

you once wrote that it is like a kind of orgasm. did you ever try to orgasm this way before your relationship?

Vanessa Even if it depends on the purpose of the chastity belt;useless to be sure she stays virgin until marriage,for example.

Of Course, but for some parents virginity means no orgasms no matter what way

Vanessa It would better if it could work with the belt...

sorry i misread, i thought it worked with and without the belt

Angelina i have already tried this, but either one needs physical prerequisites or i cannot relax enough, although i can stimulate myself.

If I had someone to fantasize about I think perhaps I could get it to work but I don't.

Avery If I had someone to fantasize about I think perhaps I could get it to work but I don't.

try it and if you succeed, feel free to write to give tips

Angelina you once wrote that it is like a kind of orgasm. did you ever try to orgasm this way before your relationship?

I always stopped before, because I didn't want to risk anything before my relationship I had tried to prevent the next of a chastity bra. During my relationship it feels like cheating and now I wear my bra anyway. But I am curious if it would feel like an orgasm, but I would say I am 95% sure.

Sara2001 During my relationship it feels like cheating

that's why i specifically mentioned the time before your relationship, it's clear that it would be something like cheating now.

Sara2001 But I am curious if it would feel like an orgasm, but I would say I am 95% sure.

I hope you are allowed to try it out