Fantasy tag,good idea.
I would not say I'm lucky about it,no...
About thigh bands,I've these on sometimes,but not permanently.
I'm not allowed to have such massagers,bit I've tried a few times with some ex,without success.
punishment for arousal
No, I would never punish my daughter for arousal, or for trying to get around the belt. She should not feel guilty for feeling aroused and acting on it.
shinydiamond77 or for trying to get around the belt.
but i think you would do something about it if it had any chance of success (like thighbands etc.), that would be a kind of punishment. ?
No. If she finds a way to bypass the belt, there isn't much I can do. Thigh bands are absolutely out of question, just no.
It's very unlikely she can bypass it though. I don't think it's physically possible.
good that you are not thinking about thighbands, but i doubt that it is not physically possible, we just haven't found the right way yet.
Vanessa Works well without the belt,and not at all with the belt...
that is good
shinydiamond77 No, I would never punish my daughter for arousal, or for trying to get around the belt. She should not feel guilty for feeling aroused and acting on it.
I've read on the net about girls who can orgasm simply by stimulating their breasts. I can't manage it but for belted girls it might be a useful technique to master.
The shield on my daughter's belt is firmly pressed against the body, it's impossible to move aside or pull away at all. There is no way to make a gap between the skin and the shield anywhere.
I am aware, but it's the same as with thigh bands - I'd rather not do anything than make her wear a chastity bra. In my view those devices are just completely unacceptable.
shinydiamond77 I am aware, but it's the same as with thigh bands - I'd rather not do anything than make her wear a chastity bra. In my view those devices are just completely unacceptable.
I agree completely. Can't see any harm anyway in her playing with her breasts.
Avery I've read on the net about girls who can orgasm simply by stimulating their breasts. I can't manage it but for belted girls it might be a useful technique to master.
@Sara2001 can do it 
and yes it could be useful, i can't. but if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra
shinydiamond77 The shield on my daughter's belt is firmly pressed against the body, it's impossible to move aside or pull away at all. There is no way to make a gap between the skin and the shield anywhere.
even if she pushes the skin down hard enough?
shinydiamond77 In my view those devices are just completely unacceptable.
it's good that you don't think about it, but to simply say it's unacceptable that would shorten the debate, there are reasons for these devices, they should just be worn voluntarily in my opinion.
Angelina
Well, even if I agree with you in this, thigh bands should be a "must" sometimes, I understand that for @shinydiamond77 they can be unacceptable.
It is her opinion 
Angelina even if she pushes the skin down hard enough?
Mine the shield is curved and the sides push down I can get a finger tip under the side but I'm pushing into the side and it's no good. From the front I can just reach enough to be nice but I need more, like I really need internal as well to finish.
But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so.
Ines , thigh bands should be a "must" sometimes,
you should really do some advertising for thighbands 
i have had similar experiences. without thighbands i can stimulate myself minimally, but it is definitely not enough for an orgasm.
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Angelina I don't know if it has anything to do with that
I may be trying too hard. I read things like "I need to be incredibly relaxed, otherwise, I overthink it and can’t get there." That sounds like me. And "don’t focus on whether or not an orgasm is building; just enjoy the sensations for what they are."