punishment for arousal
Avery I think there's a mental component too, visualization, fantasizing, to make up for the lack of genital stimulation.
I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.
Angelina that is good
Why?
It would better if it could work with the belt...
Avery I can't manage it
I can't too...
Angelina if parents find out it can very quickly lead to a chasttity bra
I think so,too.
Even if it depends on the purpose of the chastity belt;useless to be sure she stays virgin until marriage,for example.
Angelina But it only helps if you have the basic ability to do so.
I agree.
Angelina without thighbands i can stimulate myself minimally, but it is definitely not enough for an orgasm.
Often the case.
Avery I may be trying too hard. I read things like "I need to be incredibly relaxed, otherwise, I overthink it and canβt get there." That sounds like me. And "donβt focus on whether or not an orgasm is building; just enjoy the sensations for what they are."
i have already tried this, but either one needs physical prerequisites or i cannot relax enough, although i can stimulate myself.
Sara2001 I don't know if it is really possible to learn or to teach. I just had explored my body. Nowadays I wear my chastity bra all the time, so I can't stimulate me there.anymore.
you once wrote that it is like a kind of orgasm. did you ever try to orgasm this way before your relationship?
Vanessa Even if it depends on the purpose of the chastity belt;useless to be sure she stays virgin until marriage,for example.
Of Course, but for some parents virginity means no orgasms no matter what way
Vanessa It would better if it could work with the belt...
sorry i misread, i thought it worked with and without the belt
Angelina you once wrote that it is like a kind of orgasm. did you ever try to orgasm this way before your relationship?
I always stopped before, because I didn't want to risk anything before my relationship I had tried to prevent the next of a chastity bra. During my relationship it feels like cheating and now I wear my bra anyway. But I am curious if it would feel like an orgasm, but I would say I am 95% sure.
Sara2001 During my relationship it feels like cheating
that's why i specifically mentioned the time before your relationship, it's clear that it would be something like cheating now.
Sara2001 But I am curious if it would feel like an orgasm, but I would say I am 95% sure.
I hope you are allowed to try it out
Angelina i have already tried this, but either one needs physical prerequisites or i cannot relax enough, although i can stimulate myself.
Similar for me.
Angelina Of Course, but for some parents virginity means no orgasms no matter what way
Right...
Angelina i thought it worked with and without the belt
Unhappily,no...
Sara2001 But I am curious if it would feel like an orgasm, but I would say I am 95% sure.
If you can try,please let us know!
I wonder how it feels too.
Avery I've read on the net about girls who can orgasm simply by stimulating their breasts. I can't manage it but for belted girls it might be a useful technique to master.
I have also achieved orgasms this way. It always took quite a bit longer than genital stimulation, and the orgasm was not as intense, but it did happen on occasion.
I never attempted to do it to myself, though. There was always a partner involved.
gwen I have also achieved orgasms this way. It always took quite a bit longer than genital stimulation, and the orgasm was not as intense, but it did happen on occasion.
I never attempted to do it to myself, though. There was always a partner involved.
Thanks for the input. I also need someone to help plus my imagining I might do more.
Angelina So it's like an orgasm light, or how can I imagine that?
Not all orgasms are created equal. At one end they can be 'ruined', at the other end they can feel like the world is shattering around you.
I'd rate my small number of nipple orgasms as a 3/10, which rates them only slightly more enjoyable than the spontaneous ones.
Angelina so not necessarily the most pleasant orgasms , but if you wear the belt it is at least an alternative (if you can't unlock the belt yourself) ?
If it were my only option, sure! However, I have better options while belted. Vibrators work sufficiently well for me through the belt.
My circumstances are different now, though. Early on I experimented to find the limits of what the belt can do for my partner and I. Now that they're understood, I avoid those limitations.
gwen If it were my only option, sure! However, I have better options while belted. Vibrators work sufficiently well for me through the belt.
i sometimes experiment with this too, unfortunately without success so far. i'm probably not sensitive enough.
Vanessa Surprisingly,it seems it varies a lot for everyone,based on what I read here...
Yes