Visiting a doctor during the pandemic

Jen

Vanessa You could have stopped the call right after he could hear your doctor telling you to come in his office,and call back right before he would say good bye to you.

Or mute for a bit? Privacy with your doctor should be allowed.

Vanessa

Jen

Possible too,yes.

HHelen

But if we have a chance,while not usually...

Angelina that's how my father always did it too, it's just hard because of corona

With some social distancing and a big waiting room,it is generally accepted,I think.

HHelen

Vanessa We should not wear it(of course),and still have some privacy,when visiting a doctor.

Also you do not go to a doctor for pleasure.

Angelina

Vanessa Similar for me,except my parents wait inside,so I can't go to the toiler unnoticed.

that's how my father always did it too, it's just hard because of corona

Vanessa Why she should call back before going out of his office.

yes, I admit I didn't really understand that either, you're right

HHelen Also you do not go to a doctor for pleasure.

right, i would have to be very desperate to take that chance

Sara2001

HHelen Also you do not go to a doctor for pleasure.

Of course not, but my father thinks an opportunity is an opportunity. After a checkup you don't have anything that impacts you from doing it, you don't feel sick or something.

Angelina right, i would have to be very desperate to take that chance

And you are not 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa With some social distancing and a big waiting room,it is generally accepted,I think.

yes, but i'm with a doctor who only has a very small practice. is a family business, just like my father and me later 😉

Sara2001 I think starting a phone call while the doctor is talking with you, would be very rude.

right, i think so too, and it could also lead to strange questions

Sara2001 And you are not 🙂

at least not so much 🙂

Sara2001

Vanessa You don't understand what I meant.You could have stopped the call right after he could hear your doctor telling you to come in his office,and call back right before he would say good bye to you

But the doctor would have seen this. I think starting a phone call while the doctor is talking with you, would be very rude.

Vanessa Ok,so,even if she hasn't dated him,she would have had to wear the chastity bra anyway,only maybe a bit later?

I don't know for sure, but I think it is likely.

Vanessa Similar for me,except my parents wait inside,so I can't go to the toiler unnoticed.

This is how it was for me before the pandemic.

Vanessa Good question.

Not to much. Overall it's still the same. Many aspects are just not that important like going on parties and things like that because of the pandemic.

Vanessa

Sara2001 But the doctor would have seen this. I think starting a phone call while the doctor is talking with you, would be very rude.

Yes,but better than having no privacy.And you may tell you would prefer to know if your father is already here,or if you have to wait in the hot/cold/rain(depending on the day)...

Sara2001 This is how it was for me before the pandemic.

Very effective to be unable to cheat...

Angelina yes, but i'm with a doctor who only has a very small practice. is a family business, just like my father and me later 😉

Yes,sin this case,it would harder for him to come with you in the waiting room.

Sara2001 After a few years without any opportunities, a toilet in a doctor's office maybe can become an appropriate atmosphere

I agree!

Angelina

It probably haven't help him to trust @Sara2001 enough,yes.

HHelen

Sara2001 After a checkup you don't have anything that impacts you from doing it

But an atmosphere in a doctor's office.

Sara2001

HHelen But an atmosphere in a doctor's office.

After a few years without any opportunities, a toilet in a doctor's office maybe can become an appropriate atmosphere, especially if you keep in mind that you have much more privacy at European toilet compared with American standards. At least that's what my father fears and to be honest, it's something I thought about in a way of possibilities I decided not to use for Daniel.

Angelina

Sara2001

I can kind of understand your father, after the action your sister did in the school toilet, he doesn't want to take any more risks.

HHelen

Sara2001 After a few years without any opportunities, a toilet in a doctor's office maybe can become an appropriate atmosphere, especially if you keep in mind that you have much more privacy at European toilet compared with American standards.

Then what's your goal? Cheat or stay chaste?

Joh

Sara2001 I thought about in a way of possibilities I decided not to use for Daniel.

Praiseful and far-sighted

Sara2001 I like to think so. I would have to lie to Daniel about it and this would make me feel very bad.

This is an important reason and a nice gift to Daniel. Your father should not interfere in your relation.

Sara2001

Vanessa Yes,but better than having no privacy.And you may tell you would prefer to know if your father is already here,or if you have to wait in the hot/cold/rain(depending on the day)..

But why shouldn't I do this in the waiting room, especially during the pandemic I wouldn't be allowed to wait there anyway.

Vanessa It probably haven't help him to trust @Sara2001 enough,yes.

My father thinks that orgasm prevention for us has nothing to do with trust but he fears that we probably can't stand the urges, no matter what we want. He thinks supervision is necessary at all times when we are not in our belts and nothing can change it.

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,sin this case,it would harder for him to come with you in the waiting room.

right but he can see most of it from outside, just not the doctor's room, so it makes almost no difference in our case.

Vanessa It is close to not trusting you about self-control,so.

But you must also admit that it is difficult to control yourself in this point.

Vanessa

Sara2001 But why shouldn't I do this in the waiting room, especially during the pandemic I wouldn't be allowed to wait there anyway.

It may not be very logical,yes,but could allow some privacy.

Sara2001 no matter what we want.

It is close to not trusting you about self-control,so.

Sara2001

Vanessa It is close to not trusting you about self-control,so.

It's more that trusting us in this area is not an opinion. He strongly believe that control is better then trust is better in this area. No matter how good or bad we act.

Liana

Sara2001 It's more that trusting us in this area is not an opinion. He strongly believe that control is better then trust is better in this area. No matter how good or bad we act.

It is normal if you could not control yourself after being in chastity for 5 years ..
so i can understand why your father didn't want to take any risks ..it has nothing to do with trust ..he knows that only control can prevent you from this and he is right in my opinion..

Vanessa

Sara2001

I can understand it,even if I don't agree.

Sara2001

Do you think you would be able to not cheat if you have the opportunity,and be sure to not be caught?

Angelina But you must also admit that it is difficult to control yourself in this point.

I agree.

I doubt I would have enough self-control...

Sara2001

HHelen Then what's your goal? Cheat or stay chaste?

I don't want to cheat anyway, but not for my father but for Daniel. I see it as a kind of gift to him.

Sara2001

Vanessa Do you think you would be able to not cheat if you have the opportunity,and be sure to not be caught?

I like to think so. I would have to lie to Daniel about it and this would make me feel very bad.

Angelina

Vanessa I doubt I would have enough self-control...

that's how I see it with me too

Sara2001 I like to think so. I would have to lie to Daniel about it and this would make me feel very bad.

understandable, but that doesn't seem to convince your father enough for him to forego certain measures, does it?

Vanessa

Sara2001 this would make me feel very bad.

Understandable.

Sara2001 why should he?

Because he may know you don't want to lie to your fiancé about it.

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