Angelina does your belt have D-rings? i am surprised that a man has D-rings on his belt 😮

You can fit handcuffs on it so that your partner can clean the front part of the belt and make sure that you don't touch yourself during that... you can lock him to a table or wall for punishment, ok... that's already somewhat bdsm likely

    dylan at first a way to increase the security but they dit notice that it was a way to punish me so they used it from time to time

    Better.For punishment,you wear these "only" sometimes,if it was to increase the security it would probably be permanently.

    dylan im not allowed and im not wanting to get in trouble either so I have left the idea to know why

    Too bad...

    dylan no she will know it when I get into them

    How do you think she would react?

    Max9

    More bondage than chastity.

      Vanessa More bondage than chastity.

      Yes, it has nothing to do with chastity. Only use in connection with chastity is for cleaning purposes. At male belts can the frontshield be taken off to be cleanes. While the keyholder does this he can be sure that the lockee can't pleasure himself having the hands cuffed at the waistband.

      Vanessa More bondage than chastity.

      I agree. Use of thigh bands as a punishment is something horrific. This is particularly true for a male who would not be able to wear normal male clothing to conceal them. It is so heart breaking to me that something my partner and I enjoy, is being used for such vile purposes.

        Foxies It is so heart breaking to me that something my partner and I enjoy, is being used for such vile purposes.

        Unfortunately, this is the reality we live in. This is shown here in small ways and we can see this injustice on a large scale every day in the news.

        Vanessa Better.For punishment,you wear these "only" sometimes,if it was to increase the security it would probably be permanently.

        it was for more security at night but with my new belt it isn't needed so it was permanent at night but not anymore

        Vanessa How do you think she would react?

        she would say she hates it
        but deep inside I think she kind of likes it but we will se in the future

          dylan I think freeundin means girlfriend?!
          yes with bra and belt
          but I dint wear thighbands with my new belt so she have not seen me in it

          yes sorry sometimes i mix german and english. how did she rule, did she find it very strange that you wear a chastity bra?

          Kris All of you have my biggest respect! 🙂

          Thank You 🙂

          dylan no she will know it when I get into them (she knows that my parents are very strange so she knows te expect anything

          to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts? I am amazed 😉

          Max9 You can fit handcuffs on it so that your partner can clean the front part of the belt and make sure that you don't touch yourself during that... you can lock him to a table or wall for punishment, ok... that's already somewhat bdsm likely

          that makes sense for bdsm purposes, but not for normal everyday life

            Angelina that makes sense for bdsm purposes, but not for normal everyday life

            depending on who to be your keyholder... if it's your partner, then it's no problem and he can clean the removable front shield without having to hurry or without the need of a second belt to switch to.

              Max9

              of course, i still find it very difficult to bring chastity and bdsm together. probably because I still associate chastity very strongly with my father and I don't want to associate bdsm with my father

              Foxies

              The answer you quoted was about handcuffs!😉

              But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

              dylan it was for more security at night but with my new belt it isn't needed so it was permanent at night but not anymore

              Good.

              Angelina to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts?

              Good question.

                Vanessa But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

                In my opinion, @Vanessa, that is one of the reasons because I identify "male chastity bra" "boy thigh bands" as deserving an interesting animal fact.

                  Ines In my opinion, @Vanessa, that is one of the reasons because I identify "male chastity bra" "boy thigh bands" as deserving an interesting animal fact.

                  I think talking about the difficulty of a man hiding such equipment would be better than all the animal stuff.

                  • Ines replied to this.

                    Ines I don't understand your reaction. I am just trying to contribute to the forum.

                    • Ines replied to this.

                      Jonas
                      Well, even a boy with a chastity belt is not my cup of tea, I can understand, I can "catch" the concept, and, simply I do not participate in discussion (you can see I do not participate so much in themes not related to female belting) about it. But well, it is my problem, nothing wrong with other users, and even, I agree in a lot of themes with them, even I disagree with this.
                      However, talk about male chastity bras (even female are out of sight, you can imagine a male one), or thigh bands....
                      Firstly: why? Secondly, do you wear kilts?
                      In MY OPINION is not reasonable, it is not logical and it sounds more related to some fantasy that, even, real life.
                      But this is my opinion.

                        Ines I have no problem with your opinion at all. But you are moderator here and you are using your animal-facts moderating tactic and this is making me feel unwelcome, like a troll.

                        • Ines replied to this.

                          Jonas
                          😂.
                          Noooo!

                          Jonas I have no problem with your opinion at all. But you are moderator here and you are using your animal-facts moderating tactic and this is making me feel unwelcome, like a troll.

                          Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.

                          But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....

                          You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

                          And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

                            Ines Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.

                            But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....

                            You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

                            I really do appreciate and value your opinion on all aspects of chastity Ines. Thank you for addressing this issue. You have put my mind at ease.

                            And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

                            I can tell you that Animal Facts is indeed a very effective tactic!!! 🙂

                              Vanessa But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

                              definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is. 😂

                              Jonas

                              i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand @Ines 🙂

                              I also learned a lot about animals from @Ines. 😉

                                Angelina i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand Ines

                                Now I'm pretty much locked up indefinitely I do find myself trying anything to get some sort of feeling and I am lucky/unlucky that nipple stimulation does work for me.

                                So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.

                                Of course I can see that in every day life a male with giant metal bra cups could be "out of sight" (as Ines might put it 😄), but I'm wondering if something almost flat would be possible: Less of a cup and more of a spoon perhaps. I dunno.

                                A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.

                                I just want to be able to stop myself masturbating for as long as my wife and I decide.

                                As I said to you before.... I'm a simple creature: "Got problem. Got steel. Got lock. Problem gone away now." 😂