Vanessa More bondage than chastity.
I agree. Use of thigh bands as a punishment is something horrific. This is particularly true for a male who would not be able to wear normal male clothing to conceal them. It is so heart breaking to me that something my partner and I enjoy, is being used for such vile purposes.
Vanessa Better.For punishment,you wear these "only" sometimes,if it was to increase the security it would probably be permanently.
it was for more security at night but with my new belt it isn't needed so it was permanent at night but not anymore
Vanessa How do you think she would react?
she would say she hates it
but deep inside I think she kind of likes it but we will se in the future
dylan I think freeundin means girlfriend?!
yes with bra and belt
but I dint wear thighbands with my new belt so she have not seen me in it
yes sorry sometimes i mix german and english. how did she rule, did she find it very strange that you wear a chastity bra?
Kris All of you have my biggest respect!
Thank You 
dylan no she will know it when I get into them (she knows that my parents are very strange so she knows te expect anything
to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts? I am amazed 
Max9 You can fit handcuffs on it so that your partner can clean the front part of the belt and make sure that you don't touch yourself during that... you can lock him to a table or wall for punishment, ok... that's already somewhat bdsm likely
that makes sense for bdsm purposes, but not for normal everyday life
The answer you quoted was about handcuffs!
But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...
dylan it was for more security at night but with my new belt it isn't needed so it was permanent at night but not anymore
Good.
Angelina to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts?
Good question.
Jonas
Well, even a boy with a chastity belt is not my cup of tea, I can understand, I can "catch" the concept, and, simply I do not participate in discussion (you can see I do not participate so much in themes not related to female belting) about it. But well, it is my problem, nothing wrong with other users, and even, I agree in a lot of themes with them, even I disagree with this.
However, talk about male chastity bras (even female are out of sight, you can imagine a male one), or thigh bands....
Firstly: why? Secondly, do you wear kilts?
In MY OPINION is not reasonable, it is not logical and it sounds more related to some fantasy that, even, real life.
But this is my opinion.
Jonas
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Noooo!
Jonas I have no problem with your opinion at all. But you are moderator here and you are using your animal-facts moderating tactic and this is making me feel unwelcome, like a troll.
Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.
But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....
You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.
And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!
Ines Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.
But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....
You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.
I really do appreciate and value your opinion on all aspects of chastity Ines. Thank you for addressing this issue. You have put my mind at ease.
And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!
I can tell you that Animal Facts is indeed a very effective tactic!!!
Vanessa But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...
definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is.
i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand @Ines
I also learned a lot about animals from @Ines.
Angelina i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand Ines
Now I'm pretty much locked up indefinitely I do find myself trying anything to get some sort of feeling and I am lucky/unlucky that nipple stimulation does work for me.
So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.
Of course I can see that in every day life a male with giant metal bra cups could be "out of sight" (as Ines might put it 
), but I'm wondering if something almost flat would be possible: Less of a cup and more of a spoon perhaps. I dunno.
A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.
I just want to be able to stop myself masturbating for as long as my wife and I decide.
As I said to you before.... I'm a simple creature: "Got problem. Got steel. Got lock. Problem gone away now."
Jonas A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.
frankly i see it the same way. a chastity bra is not something that radiates femininity. rather the opposite i feel like part of my femininity is being taken away from me
Possible,yes.
Ines Firstly: why? Secondly, do you wear kilts?
Two good questions.
Ines is not reasonable, it is not logical and it sounds more related to some fantasy
I tend to agree with you about it;but I give him the benefits of the doubt.
I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.
Ines You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.
Me too.
Ines And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!
Angelina definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is.
Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!
Jonas So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.
So,pretty happy it works for you?
Angelina a chastity bra is not something that radiates femininity. rather the opposite i feel like part of my femininity is being taken away from me
I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...
Vanessa I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.
that's the interesting thing, it could of course be intended more as a toy for men, but of course some might also think that the bra can also be used by men for serious use. no distinction is made on the website
Vanessa Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!
not every man is a Scottish
Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...
right, that's similar how I feel too
