dylan I think freeundin means girlfriend?!
yes with bra and belt
but I dint wear thighbands with my new belt so she have not seen me in it

yes sorry sometimes i mix german and english. how did she rule, did she find it very strange that you wear a chastity bra?

Kris All of you have my biggest respect! 🙂

Thank You 🙂

dylan no she will know it when I get into them (she knows that my parents are very strange so she knows te expect anything

to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts? I am amazed 😉

Max9 You can fit handcuffs on it so that your partner can clean the front part of the belt and make sure that you don't touch yourself during that... you can lock him to a table or wall for punishment, ok... that's already somewhat bdsm likely

that makes sense for bdsm purposes, but not for normal everyday life

            Angelina that makes sense for bdsm purposes, but not for normal everyday life

            depending on who to be your keyholder... if it's your partner, then it's no problem and he can clean the removable front shield without having to hurry or without the need of a second belt to switch to.

                Max9

                of course, i still find it very difficult to bring chastity and bdsm together. probably because I still associate chastity very strongly with my father and I don't want to associate bdsm with my father

                  Foxies

                  The answer you quoted was about handcuffs!😉

                  But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

                  dylan it was for more security at night but with my new belt it isn't needed so it was permanent at night but not anymore

                  Good.

                  Angelina to you and to all men who have tested thighbands. what kind of clothes do you wear when you wear thighbands? clothes? skirts?

                  Good question.

                          Vanessa But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

                          In my opinion, @Vanessa, that is one of the reasons because I identify "male chastity bra" "boy thigh bands" as deserving an interesting animal fact.

                              Ines In my opinion, @Vanessa, that is one of the reasons because I identify "male chastity bra" "boy thigh bands" as deserving an interesting animal fact.

                              I think talking about the difficulty of a man hiding such equipment would be better than all the animal stuff.

                              • Ines replied to this.

                                  Ines I don't understand your reaction. I am just trying to contribute to the forum.

                                  • Ines replied to this.

                                      Jonas
                                      Well, even a boy with a chastity belt is not my cup of tea, I can understand, I can "catch" the concept, and, simply I do not participate in discussion (you can see I do not participate so much in themes not related to female belting) about it. But well, it is my problem, nothing wrong with other users, and even, I agree in a lot of themes with them, even I disagree with this.
                                      However, talk about male chastity bras (even female are out of sight, you can imagine a male one), or thigh bands....
                                      Firstly: why? Secondly, do you wear kilts?
                                      In MY OPINION is not reasonable, it is not logical and it sounds more related to some fantasy that, even, real life.
                                      But this is my opinion.

                                          Ines I have no problem with your opinion at all. But you are moderator here and you are using your animal-facts moderating tactic and this is making me feel unwelcome, like a troll.

                                          • Ines replied to this.

                                              Jonas
                                              😂.
                                              Noooo!

                                              Jonas I have no problem with your opinion at all. But you are moderator here and you are using your animal-facts moderating tactic and this is making me feel unwelcome, like a troll.

                                              Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.

                                              But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....

                                              You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

                                              And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

                                                    Ines Ok. Even, it is weird for me, and I can not understand at all the point of all this, I do not want you feel unwelcome here.

                                                    But, think about if you are not "making the war" for a troll....

                                                    You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

                                                    I really do appreciate and value your opinion on all aspects of chastity Ines. Thank you for addressing this issue. You have put my mind at ease.

                                                    And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

                                                    I can tell you that Animal Facts is indeed a very effective tactic!!! 🙂

                                                        Vanessa But yes,thigh bands are probably "worse" for men,as it can't be used with pants...

                                                        definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is. 😂

                                                        Jonas

                                                        i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand @Ines 🙂

                                                        I also learned a lot about animals from @Ines. 😉

                                                              Angelina i also find it strange when a boy/man wears thighbands or a chastity bra, but i am very interested in the men's experience, but i can understand Ines

                                                              Now I'm pretty much locked up indefinitely I do find myself trying anything to get some sort of feeling and I am lucky/unlucky that nipple stimulation does work for me.

                                                              So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.

                                                              Of course I can see that in every day life a male with giant metal bra cups could be "out of sight" (as Ines might put it 😄), but I'm wondering if something almost flat would be possible: Less of a cup and more of a spoon perhaps. I dunno.

                                                              A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.

                                                              I just want to be able to stop myself masturbating for as long as my wife and I decide.

                                                              As I said to you before.... I'm a simple creature: "Got problem. Got steel. Got lock. Problem gone away now." 😂

                                                                  Jonas A bra isn't filed under cross-dressing in my mind for the simple reason that all chastity equipment is just a means to an end to me.

                                                                  frankly i see it the same way. a chastity bra is not something that radiates femininity. rather the opposite i feel like part of my femininity is being taken away from me

                                                                      Ines

                                                                      Possible,yes.

                                                                      Ines Firstly: why? Secondly, do you wear kilts?

                                                                      Two good questions.

                                                                      Ines is not reasonable, it is not logical and it sounds more related to some fantasy

                                                                      I tend to agree with you about it;but I give him the benefits of the doubt.

                                                                      I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.

                                                                      Ines You are a good and polite user, and I am glad you are here.

                                                                      Me too.

                                                                      Ines And I am very happy you upgrade the rank of my animal facts to "tactic". Thanks!!!

                                                                      🤣

                                                                      Angelina definitely and the risk of detection would be higher, because a woman in a skirt is not unusual, a man is. 😂

                                                                      Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!😉

                                                                      Jonas So, if I were to start wasting time with this behaviour then I would need something to help me block access.

                                                                      So,pretty happy it works for you?

                                                                      Angelina a chastity bra is not something that radiates femininity. rather the opposite i feel like part of my femininity is being taken away from me

                                                                      I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

                                                                                        Vanessa I noticed the use for men is written on My-Steel website,but I think is is mainly done for advertising it to fetishists or cross-dressers,not for serious users.

                                                                                        that's the interesting thing, it could of course be intended more as a toy for men, but of course some might also think that the bra can also be used by men for serious use. no distinction is made on the website

                                                                                        Vanessa Except if he says he's scottish and wear a kilt!😉

                                                                                        not every man is a Scottish 😂

                                                                                        Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

                                                                                        right, that's similar how I feel too

                                                                                                Vanessa I agree;I feel less feminine when I've to wear it.Hard emotionally to not be able to reach them,nor look at them...

                                                                                                In my case, I feel exactly the opposite. I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

                                                                                                    Vanessa So,pretty happy it works for you?

                                                                                                    If you mean breast stimulation, then no! The fact that I am sensitive where 50% of other men are not, just makes it more difficult for me to achieve what, on paper, seems like such a simple idea: chastity!

                                                                                                    Chastity. See? One word. It shouldn't be difficult!

                                                                                                    Wanna be 100% faithful to my wife... not even look at another woman! Wanna save a lot of time! Want to feel driven to achieve and yet be in absolute control of myself.

                                                                                                    One word: Chastity.

                                                                                                    Chastity. Chastity. Chastity.

                                                                                                    Gah! I would indeed wear some form of chastity bra ....if that's what's required to achieve my goal!! 😂

                                                                                                        Ines I feel my womanhood as something very valuable.

                                                                                                        Its funny Ines, that you and I are so different and yet feel so very much the same. Except in my case I have already given my womanhood to my partner and I like to keep it safe and secure for her. It is only ever "used" with her knowledge. The belt and thigh bands are merely tools of that security and somehow increase its value even more.