dylan for me it works if its tight and connected to the belt

Not sure I like the sound of it being tight across the chest, I guess comfort then depends if you're a belly-breather or not.

dylan but do you have d rings on your belt?

No, but I can rivet and weld and am handy enough to fit some if and when needed. Really all I'd actually need is something that was tamper-evident. A set of (signed?) plasters or pasties could possibly be enough. Depends if it becomes an issue for me as time goes on.

        Jonas Not sure I like the sound of it being tight across the chest, I guess comfort then depends if you're a belly-breather or not.

        yes it does
        as long as you don't struggle against it it wil not be painful

            dylan Maybe I'll knock something up, to try the idea out ...and to get an idea of what you're going through of course.

              Ines

              It's a lot!😉

              Jonas Not only can I gain pleasure from nipple stimulation but in my situation right now this (together with stimulation of the perineum) is all the sex I'm allowed. I don't feel hard done by, as I enjoy both.

              No sex with your wife?

                    dylan why do you ware it full time nou?

                    I don't wear it at all anymore 😉

                    Max9 but that doesn't work for us

                    I thought so too, but it seems to work for some men.

                    Ines An adult walrus eat around 10.000 clams for day.

                    😂

                          Vanessa I am addicted to orgasm, she is not. I am happy for her and I am happy that my energies are redirected into living a highly productive life. The only downside is that I'm aroused all the time, but it's not painful, just very frustrating on times.

                              Jonas

                              It's very different not being addicted,and never doing it...

                              But if you like it,it's good.

                                  Vanessa It's very different not being addicted,and never doing it...

                                  right but maybe it's like some drug addicts. one orgasm and he can't stop himself anymore

                                      Angelina right but maybe it's like some drug addicts. one orgasm and he can't stop himself anymore

                                      Yeah, I definitely feel addicted so relapse is always a danger.

                                      But this is also all about how I make decisions in general... I think about things for a very long time, discuss them with my wife, then when I'm ready I finally I make a very strong choice and live with it.

                                      I've decided orgasm and (especially) masturbation aren't good for me, ...so they're out of the picture.

                                      This doesn't mean I don't miss them both!!

                                      But I prefer living with the feeling of sexual frustration if it means that I also feel fully engaged in life with a drive to succeed etc.

                                          Jonas But I prefer living with the feeling of sexual frustration if it means that I also feel fully engaged in life with a drive to succeed etc.

                                          i try to understand, but i think it is better not to do it if it causes you serious harm, even if the consequence is enormous frustration.

                                              Angelina I wasted a lot of time. Can't do that now. Can only live and engage with the world!! 🌍

                                              The trick, I think, is to transform frustration into positive words and activities, like I think you do.

                                                  Jonas The trick, I think, is to transform frustration into positive words and activities, like I think you do.

                                                  well, i haven't managed to turn the frustration into something positive yet, but i generally always try to stay positive 😃

                                                      Angelina well, i haven't managed to turn the frustration into something positive yet, but i generally always try to stay positive

                                                      Your contribution to the this forum is positive and supportive. That's just the kind of transformation I want to achieve!! 😃

                                                        Angelina

                                                        Maybe.But it is less dangerous than drugs,generally!😉

                                                        Jonas I wasted a lot of time.

                                                        If it was the main reason,limiting it would have worked,too.

                                                        Anyway,if you prefer it this way,it is your choice,of course!

                                                        Angelina i haven't managed to turn the frustration into something positive

                                                        Similar for me.

                                                                Vanessa If it was the main reason,limiting it would have worked,too.

                                                                😀 We've disagreed on this one before a while back.

                                                                I only have success quitting things when I go cold-turkey. If I have a smoke or in this case an orgasm, I'm right back into the addiction again.

                                                                Anyway,if you prefer it this way,it is your choice,of course!

                                                                Yes, and the forum has made me aware that I am lucky that these decisions are all my choice...

                                                                    Vanessa Maybe.But it is less dangerous than drugs,generally!😉

                                                                    I agree 😉

                                                                    Jonas I only have success quitting things when I go cold-turkey. If I have a smoke or in this case an orgasm, I'm right back into the addiction again.

                                                                    hmm... i think i have written before about the father of a friend who was an alcoholic and today can normally drink a glass sometimes without getting addicted again 😉

                                                                          Angelina Yep, but I'm sure you can understand that this might not be the case for everyone. For me, the cycle just restarts. Best to avoid addictive things completely, I find.

                                                                              Jonas Yep, but I'm sure you can understand that this might not be the case for everyone.

                                                                              of course, that is always individual 🙂