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dylan Maybe I'll knock something up, to try the idea out ...and to get an idea of what you're going through of course.

Ines

It's a lot!

Jonas Not only can I gain pleasure from nipple stimulation but in my situation right now this (together with stimulation of the perineum) is all the sex I'm allowed. I don't feel hard done by, as I enjoy both.

No sex with your wife?

Vanessa No sex with your wife?

Sex where she orgasms and I do not.

dylan why do you ware it full time nou?

I don't wear it at all anymore

Max9 but that doesn't work for us

I thought so too, but it seems to work for some men.

Ines An adult walrus eat around 10.000 clams for day.

Jonas

Hard!

Why?

Vanessa I am addicted to orgasm, she is not. I am happy for her and I am happy that my energies are redirected into living a highly productive life. The only downside is that I'm aroused all the time, but it's not painful, just very frustrating on times.

Jonas

It's very different not being addicted,and never doing it...

But if you like it,it's good.

Vanessa It's very different not being addicted,and never doing it...

right but maybe it's like some drug addicts. one orgasm and he can't stop himself anymore

Angelina right but maybe it's like some drug addicts. one orgasm and he can't stop himself anymore

Yeah, I definitely feel addicted so relapse is always a danger.

But this is also all about how I make decisions in general... I think about things for a very long time, discuss them with my wife, then when I'm ready I finally I make a very strong choice and live with it.

I've decided orgasm and (especially) masturbation aren't good for me, ...so they're out of the picture.

This doesn't mean I don't miss them both!!

But I prefer living with the feeling of sexual frustration if it means that I also feel fully engaged in life with a drive to succeed etc.

Jonas The trick, I think, is to transform frustration into positive words and activities, like I think you do.

well, i haven't managed to turn the frustration into something positive yet, but i generally always try to stay positive

Angelina well, i haven't managed to turn the frustration into something positive yet, but i generally always try to stay positive

Your contribution to the this forum is positive and supportive. That's just the kind of transformation I want to achieve!!

Angelina

Maybe.But it is less dangerous than drugs,generally!

Jonas I wasted a lot of time.

If it was the main reason,limiting it would have worked,too.

Anyway,if you prefer it this way,it is your choice,of course!

Angelina i haven't managed to turn the frustration into something positive

Similar for me.

Vanessa If it was the main reason,limiting it would have worked,too.

We've disagreed on this one before a while back.

I only have success quitting things when I go cold-turkey. If I have a smoke or in this case an orgasm, I'm right back into the addiction again.

Anyway,if you prefer it this way,it is your choice,of course!

Yes, and the forum has made me aware that I am lucky that these decisions are all my choice...

Vanessa Maybe.But it is less dangerous than drugs,generally!

I agree

Jonas I only have success quitting things when I go cold-turkey. If I have a smoke or in this case an orgasm, I'm right back into the addiction again.

hmm... i think i have written before about the father of a friend who was an alcoholic and today can normally drink a glass sometimes without getting addicted again

Angelina Yep, but I'm sure you can understand that this might not be the case for everyone. For me, the cycle just restarts. Best to avoid addictive things completely, I find.

Jonas Yep, but I'm sure you can understand that this might not be the case for everyone.

of course, that is always individual