Seeking help and advice on situation
so im back from talking with my mom and dad about everything. i went over pretty much everything ialready did with her sabout how its not really me doing the bad stuff etc. shes more so of the opinion that its a good thing but my dad sees it as a punishment i feel. so its mixed signals i guess. like she wants me to use it to better myself if i want to use it and my dad just wants me to quit watching porn and all tha stuff all together. but what we worked out in the end is that i wear it for one month starting tomorrow and then if i didnt give them any problems i can never use it again or i can keep it and use it forever if id like. my sisters are going to be belted too though. my pregnant one will be belted after her pregnancy and my other sister is being belted tomorrow with me. they dont know the news as of right now but tonight they will it could be any second really. im pretty nervous though im not gonna lie. this is a way better alternative than what could have happened for sure though. im not necessarily 1000% against it i just wish i could still masturbate but im PRETTY sure ill still be able to through it. ive got ideas that i think would work so this really isnt bad tbh. i feel it coulda gone way worse but this is definitely a preferable route for me.
saras happy birthday!
also thank you for wishing me happy birthday!
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Angelina yes, but with pregnant women you should be very sensitive
Sure.
Do you discuss it with her,sometimes?
vyktoryah i got grounded
Why?
vyktoryah oh the rules do now but they didnt before. iwas just giving examples of WHY they are there now lol. because my sisters would just ruin everything around the house.
Do they follow these,now?
vyktoryah my birthday is today actually
Happy birthday(even if late)!
vyktoryah i wear it for one month starting tomorrow
Not a good idea.There should be some training first.
vyktoryah i didnt give them any problems
So,after it,you can decide,as long as you have a good behavior?
vyktoryah my sisters are going to be belted too though.
Have they the same choice than you?
vyktoryah my pregnant one will be belted after her pregnancy
It would be a very hard wait for her...
vyktoryah they dont know the news as of right now
A very bad idea to not have told them before...
vyktoryah i could still masturbate but im PRETTY sure ill still be able to through it
Trust us,if it is a secure one,and well fitted(especially if from a major brand)you would not be able.
Vanessa Do they follow these,now?
yeah so far. its been pretty clean around the house now so thats good i feel.
Vanessa Happy birthday(even if late)!
thank you!
Vanessa So,after it,you can decide,as long as you have a good behavior?
yep after the month i can decide if i dont want to use it anymore. and i dont think its going to be 24/7 use though but i dont 100% know yet my moms going to tell me all that tomorrow when we work on that
Vanessa Have they the same choice than you?
i dont know what their situation will be in specific aside from what i sai dabout her not being belted until after pregnancy
Vanessa Trust us,if it is a secure one,and well fitted(especially if from a major brand)you would not be able.
ill take your word for it but i definitely have ideas like humping that i feel may work
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vyktoryah i wear it for one month starting tomorrow and then if i didnt give them any problems i can never use it again or i can keep it and use it forever if id like.
I don't really feel it's a good sign... they can make up any "trouble" as an excuse... I hope they don't.
If they go straight 24/7, it's really a wrong approach. Wearing chastity belt requires training, starting from short term to gradually increase hours. In my opinion, a wearer need to get used to handle body functions without trouble while wearing a belt before they go 24/7 as well as be comfortable with wearing a belt.
However, if they were genuinely would let you make a choice after a month, I'd advise you to decide not to wear it. Wearing chastity belt is a big commitment, even for willing wearers. I generally feel keyholding of anyone who wearer is dependent to is unhealthy and going to damage the relationship altogether.
vyktoryah i just wish i could still masturbate but im PRETTY sure ill still be able to through it.
Nope, one of main purposes of the chastity belt is to stop masturbation. I know I won't be able to masturbate at all once I wear a belt. (I have to move out first to wear any belt, as my parents would think I'm insane or obsessed with "weird looking expensive metal underwear" if they discover it or notice me wearing it.)
I agree @vyktoryah, your skin will have bruises and abrasions within days if you go straight to 24/7 wearing, regardless of how well your belt is made. Please make your parents aware of this. What happens during your period?
@vyktoryah
Happy birthday and I hope, beside of the CB topic, it was a nice day for you.
Rina If they go straight 24/7, it's really a wrong approach. Wearing chastity belt requires training, starting from short term to gradually increase hours. In my opinion, a wearer need to get used to handle body functions without trouble while wearing a belt before they go 24/7 as well as be comfortable with wearing a belt.
Sin I agree @vyktoryah, your skin will have bruises and abrasions within days if you go straight to 24/7 wearing, regardless of how well your belt is made. Please make your parents aware of this. What happens during your period?
so to respond to both of these we just got done talking and we will certainly be doing more talking later, ive confirmed its not going to be 24/7 use afterall. she said she wants to work up to doing longer periods but shes fully aware of the skin irritation as she had one when she was younger too. i have to shave and shower and we are going to get it "situated" in a few hours. now that its come down to this i feel like i have alot more freedom in this situation than initially thought. but i still am pretty nervous and a little frustrated about it because everyone here says masturbation is entirely impossible with it on which i was of the assumption it was still kinda possible it just prevented sex. but anyways i guess it wont kill me to not orgasm every day. idk but about the period she said for right now with me just starting using one my period would raise too many complications and stress so she said its okay if i dont use it for that week.
Joh Happy birthday and I hope, beside of the CB topic, it was a nice day for you.
thank you! yes it actually wasnt bad i had a good time. my moms off today so we are gonna go do some stuff together to celebrate it.
im going to be doing this stuff with my mom pretty much in the next 10-15 minutes. im actualyl pretty scared so thats why im making this to just try to vent a little i guess before it happens idk rly. but im pretty nervous about whats to come but my mom says she understands my concerns and its going to be okay. i dont even know how we are really doing this exactly like is she just gonna see me naked and stuff? IDK thats not something im really used to though it all just feels embarrassing. but im trying my best to be optimistic about it i actually have to go now so ill update whebever im back. ty all for the support and replies
vyktoryah thank you and yes! my birthday is today actually
then congratulations 
you are 16 now, right?
thanks for the update, i'd love to reply but i'll read all the way to the bottom first to see if there's anything else. 
so now i have reached the last post
i think the conversation didn't go too badly, i also think it's good that it should depend on your own behaviour what happens after a month and that you won't be held responsible "for the sins of your sisters". Do you know what the rules will be for your sisters? I can imagine that it will be extremely difficult, especially for your pregnant sister, to know what the belt is doing and that her access will be closed after the birth.
PS: Sorry to say, but unless the belt is extremely poorly made, you definitely won't be able to masturbate with it. 
Sin Rookie mistake!
somehow yes 
i really dont know how to say this appropriately or whatever the words are for it but im using one now. i have to leave and go with my mom somewhere and shes going to tell me abunch of things about this while we are together. like how to use it i guess. im upset at the moment though because im not really a fan of it its just super pressed against me and it feels awkward and tight but my mom says it fits. but i think i only have to wear it for an hour or two today. which sounds okay to me at least. again i know it could be alot worse for me right now but this still is really frustrating that i have to deal with this. like its ltierally not even my fault my sisters do this. but my sister is actually moving in with her friend now to avoid having to wear one. so now its just me and libby living here soon. we didnt necessarily get along that well anyway so im not really u pset about that in particular im upset that she can get out of it and i cant. i know it sonly amonth but its not fair and i know its not the end of the world and they are being nice about this and my mom only wants to help me but it still just is direct punishment to me. i masturbate a lot though and my mom says its not normal because i do it everyday and she says girls arent supposed to pleasure themselves with vibrators and stuff. sorry to rant im just very frusrated right now with my sisters. they have caused all this for me and now she can just get out of it, aaa its unbelievable. but i guess its whatever i only have one month with this and i can take it off for my entire period so its fine. ill get through this and then ill say goodbye to it forever. thank you everyone who is willing to listen to me rant this place is really trhe only place i can go to about this honestly.
Angelina then congratulations
yep im 16 now! it doesnt feel any different though lol but we are gonna be doing some cool things today and im gonna be getting a nice present sometime soon. i just dont know when
Angelina Do you know what the rules will be for your sisters?
all i know is libby cant close her door now and my other sister is just literally leaving
sorry for the multiple repliesim just coming back to rant a littl emore before i leave. i dont mean to really state the obvbious but i really cant touch myself at all in this. and its extremely frustrating to me, and it was super humiliating too this whole day has felt like a year and its just been so dumb the entire time im gonna get through this ik but for right now im pouty so ima complain! lol idk thats all i guess i have to say rn i do have to leave soon though apologies for the many replies im makin
