Laura so um i definitely mean this in the least offensive way as possible of course. im not upset or anything like that im just saying that i dont really need you to believe me with this. id be happy of course to clear anything up but i just want you to give me advice as youd give if you truly believed me. i also really just want a place to vent. i dont necessarily need everyone to believe me i just cant tell my friend this because she deals with literally every other problem in my life. and i wana spare her this at least. though i do know youre the admin or something of this site so if you just want me to leave i guess i can do that. but im still willing to clear any questions or whatever up that you may have so im just wondering what youre skeptical about?
Seeking help and advice on situation
Laura oh omg lol my apologies laura. i thought you were asking me to clear stuff up about my situation which of course if you ever want me to im willing to but yeah i actually have been looking it up and you definitely CAN pick pretty much any lock. theres kits on amazon for 25-30 dollars that would help you practice and they have a like transparent lock so you cans ee whats going on inside. though my concern is damaging the lock then me being stuck until they like literally cut me out or something at the ER
vyktoryah theres kits on amazon for 25-30 dollars that would help you practice and they have a like transparent lock so you cans ee whats going on inside. though my concern is damaging the lock then me being stuck until they like literally cut me out or something at the ER
This kits are a starting point but they are easy to pick. The information I found some say this tools which comes in the kits are too large or not the right quality for better locks.
I also recommend you practice with others until you get the feel of how it works. You will also find out how easy or difficult it is to damage the lock. Only then would I start with the lock from the CB.
Sin You don't have to actually report it, but you can certainly use it as leverage.
@vyktoryah This is a good argument. If it too hard for you to wear it tell your parents what the consequences could be in worst case. Both would go to prison, you would be separated from them for the rest of your life which means your family relationship will be destroyed. Also tell them this is not what you want but you see no other option because of the unbearable situation beside maybe suicide.
It has not to go in this way but this are all possible outcomes in worst case. They should think about what is important.
To point out the consequences doesn't mean you have to do it. It get the facts in their mind which they may have not thought about.
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Raziel Yes, you can close the padlock without needing the key, so don't worry about it. The video descriptions has the time stamps for more info if you need it. They are spoken in English, so hopefully you'll understand. Please enjoy and I hope you learn something!
Lockpicking Overview (explains what my mind thinks about as I'm lockpicking):
https://youtu.be/2ZsY8qjD5NUBurg Watcher padlock (orientation and lock pick sizes that does matter):
https://youtu.be/XKMwbp7FiZoUpside-Down lockpicking demonstration (as if its locked on a chastity belt):
https://youtu.be/gQIhZJAz4AA
I talked about the lock before. Here are a few of my guides to get you started in lockpicking.
Btw, do you know which type of padlock does your device use? Don't get caught!
vyktoryah my mom definitely could have but her reason for having one was because a bad thing that happened to her and she used to live in a bad area. we however don't and havent since shes had kids.
Then why did she change her mind recently and decided that a chastity belt was a right thing for you?
I'm sorry, but can you just recap, which one of your sisters-in-law has moved out now, the one who is pregnant or the other one? and why do you have to wear the belt now but not your sister who still lives at home? i'm confused. I understand your frustration, but not really your text. 
vyktoryah all i know is libby cant close her door now and my other sister is just literally leaving
is libby the pregnant?
you can always complain here, but yes of course you can't masturbate with the belt on.
vyktoryah sorry for the constant ranting im just on the verge of like flipping out this is a lot for me
let it out, i understand all your problems too well, we can't change much right now (only your mother can) but it's clear that it's a lot for you right now, it will get better soon but the beginning is horrible that's true
vyktoryah yeah so far. its been pretty clean around the house now so thats good i feel.
Good they take care of it,now.
Rina I don't really feel it's a good sign... they can make up any "trouble" as an excuse... I hope they don't.
Right.
vyktoryah she said she wants to work up to doing longer periods but shes fully aware of the skin irritation
Good.
vyktoryah she said its okay if i dont use it for that week.
Good too.
vyktoryah my sister is actually moving in with her friend now to avoid having to wear one
A bit extreme reaction!
What your parents think about it?
vyktoryah because i do it everyday
If once everyday,it is not excessively,in my opinion.
vyktoryah ill get through this and then ill say goodbye to it forever.
I'm very surprised they have bought one for you,which is pretty expensive and woudl accept to use it "only" for a month...
vyktoryah all i know is libby cant close her door now and my other sister is just literally leaving
But when she's alone(not with your parents at home, I mean),I doubt she care about her door...
vyktoryah i really cant touch myself at all in this. and its extremely frustrating to me, and it was super humiliating too
Not surprising,and logical reactions.
vyktoryah i dont really even think it would work
Sorry,but it wouldn't...
Right!
vyktoryah youre the admin
She's the webmaster.
Not so sure,he seems skilled in it!
A bit surprising.Maybe she consider it,but is too scared to accept it,and try to infirm or confirm her fears about it with these talks.
Can't she try for a set duration,and then decide if she would still wear it or not,as it is willingly,in your family?
Angelina is libby the pregnant?
I think so.
Angelina the beginning is horrible that's true
It's not perfect even after a longer time,but it's worse at the start,yes.
Vanessa Can't she try for a set duration,and then decide if she would still wear it or not,as it is willingly,in your family?
Yes, of course she could do it... But she is so much pride or stubborn.
It is a complex situation, it includes a lot of reasons, firstly she is, or she pretend be, very independent and she is afraid that a belt avoids it.
Another reason, I think, she was a bit curvy, and nowadays she is much more slim, I believe she was afraid of be uncomfortable in the belt (she would be right in this), and for that reason she rejected the belt.
It is curious that, I wrote it here a couple of years ago, while she was a bit fat, she asked for a corset, and nowadays she does not touch the topic...
In her rejection is important the fact that she... well, she touch herself in places where she should not. It is forbidden, but I know she does it.
And finally, I think, she rejected it so many times, and she made fun of us so many times that it would be very hard for her accept the chastity belt.
Vanessa I'm very surprised they have bought one for you,which is pretty expensive and woudl accept to use it "only" for a month...
I admit that I'm also surprised, I'm a little worried that there's still something to come.
Vanessa It's not perfect even after a longer time,but it's worse at the start,yes.
it is never perfect, but the beginning is the worst 
Ines And finally, I think, she rejected it so many times, and she made fun of us so many times that it would be very hard for her accept the chastity belt.
She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example. 
Ines Yes, I think the same, but really we have not ever pressed her at all, so, I do not know what satisfaction she can give us....
this reminds me of a situation when i was very little and couldn't open a jam jar. my father told me beforehand that i needed help to do it, but i wanted to do it myself. it ended with me eating sausage on my roll because i didn't want to begrudge him this triumoh.
i hope you understand the comparison 