Sin omgggggglol no i havent yet. my moms pretty much been in and out of my room checking on me to see if im doing ok. i dont really even think it would work at this point. im gonna try to talk her out of this though because shes telling me i literally need to use the shower to wash myself after using the bathroom. i REALLY dont wana have to do that every time i go
Seeking help and advice on situation
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Sin if i figure out the model or name of it do you think theres a way i can look it up online on how to unlock it?
EDIT: im editing thi sbecause ive been making alot of replies sorry
i really cannot do this i dont think. im itchy and its hard to sit and i have to literally use a shower to pee this is too much for me. i didnt expect this to be what it was and my moms taking me asking her to take it off as giving her a hard time so shes starting to get annoyed now. i dont want these cables wrapped around my waist all day it feels humilating to me. sorry for the constant ranting im just on the verge of like flipping out this is a lot for me
vyktoryah you can't. It's a chastity belt! That's the whole point.
I should point out that YOU hold all the power at this point, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If it all gets too much, tell your parents that you will not hesitate to go to the police, CPS, teacher etc.
If you are interested in wearing a belt, let them know that you might be willing to work with them, but it has to be a two way street. Communication is paramount.
vyktoryah do you think theres a way i can look it up online on how to unlock it?
@BikelockFugitive is an expert 
Sin i understand. it may be my only option soon if it ends up going to 24/7 use honestly. i dont think i could do it but we havent even left yet weve just been talking. she took it off now though and i figured out what kind of belt it is but you said it doesnt matter anyway so its whatever. i just wish it didnt come to this. i wish i wasnt so weak to not be able to handle it too like my mom spent a lot of money on it and she just wants to help. and im messing up my life probably and she may not be the best but ik she wants the best for me. i just have to talk to her about this more. im exhausted right now though i dont wana go anyhwere i just wana lay down and sleep so im gonna see if she would let me do that. this really has been so humiliating she saw me entirely naked and put oil on me and did all the chastity belt locking for me and it just was so uncomfortable to me. im not used to being seen naked obviously. i wana be able to do this for her though because she honestly would be really proud of me i think if i did this. i wana do this right but at the same time its a tremendous amount of complications and work from me. thank you though for reminding me that i can get out of this. i kind of forgot that somehow and i was getting really anxious about it all. but i do definitely have options its just a last resort because ik im gonna be taken from my home if i end up doing that. thank you though @Sin youre really nice.
vyktoryah i masturbate a lot though and my mom says its not normal because i do it everyday
I think one time per day is fine. They are still young. It will decrease over time, but it is not extensive.
If you only think about it then I think it is too much.
vyktoryah thank you everyone who is willing to listen to me rant
You are welcome and I hope we could help. You can come again and share how it is going on. I think we all try to help in any way which is possible in this forum.
Joh thank you for the support with these things. i understand we dont actually know eachother but im glad to have everyone here. seeing so many people use these belts makes me feel like i can do it and its not going to be as impossible as i imagine.
HHelen You can't do it without a break.
yeah this month is my practice for wearing it. ive worn it twice today. the first time was for an hourish and the second was 2. im not as of right now though im pretty sure im done for today but im not 100%. i know shes not going to make me sleep with it though
Laura so um i definitely mean this in the least offensive way as possible of course. im not upset or anything like that im just saying that i dont really need you to believe me with this. id be happy of course to clear anything up but i just want you to give me advice as youd give if you truly believed me. i also really just want a place to vent. i dont necessarily need everyone to believe me i just cant tell my friend this because she deals with literally every other problem in my life. and i wana spare her this at least. though i do know youre the admin or something of this site so if you just want me to leave i guess i can do that. but im still willing to clear any questions or whatever up that you may have so im just wondering what youre skeptical about?
Laura oh omg lol my apologies laura. i thought you were asking me to clear stuff up about my situation which of course if you ever want me to im willing to but yeah i actually have been looking it up and you definitely CAN pick pretty much any lock. theres kits on amazon for 25-30 dollars that would help you practice and they have a like transparent lock so you cans ee whats going on inside. though my concern is damaging the lock then me being stuck until they like literally cut me out or something at the ER
