Vanessa Can't she try for a set duration,and then decide if she would still wear it or not,as it is willingly,in your family?

Yes, of course she could do it... But she is so much pride or stubborn.
It is a complex situation, it includes a lot of reasons, firstly she is, or she pretend be, very independent and she is afraid that a belt avoids it.
Another reason, I think, she was a bit curvy, and nowadays she is much more slim, I believe she was afraid of be uncomfortable in the belt (she would be right in this), and for that reason she rejected the belt.
It is curious that, I wrote it here a couple of years ago, while she was a bit fat, she asked for a corset, and nowadays she does not touch the topic...
In her rejection is important the fact that she... well, she touch herself in places where she should not. It is forbidden, but I know she does it.
And finally, I think, she rejected it so many times, and she made fun of us so many times that it would be very hard for her accept the chastity belt.

      Vanessa I'm very surprised they have bought one for you,which is pretty expensive and woudl accept to use it "only" for a month...

      I admit that I'm also surprised, I'm a little worried that there's still something to come.

      Vanessa It's not perfect even after a longer time,but it's worse at the start,yes.

      it is never perfect, but the beginning is the worst 🙁

      Ines And finally, I think, she rejected it so many times, and she made fun of us so many times that it would be very hard for her accept the chastity belt.

      She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example. 😉

              Angelina She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example.

              Yes, I think the same, but really we have not ever pressed her at all, so, I do not know what satisfaction she can give us....

                  Ines Yes, I think the same, but really we have not ever pressed her at all, so, I do not know what satisfaction she can give us....

                  this reminds me of a situation when i was very little and couldn't open a jam jar. my father told me beforehand that i needed help to do it, but i wanted to do it myself. it ended with me eating sausage on my roll because i didn't want to begrudge him this triumoh.

                  i hope you understand the comparison 😃

                  • Ines replied to this.

                      vyktoryah It's really not that hard.
                      If its a cheap padlock you might be even able to rake it.

                      Although you could also just tell your parents that you will not wear the belt and will have it removed by fire department or police. You have all the leverage here.

                        Ines well, she touch herself in places where she should not. It is forbidden, but I know she does it.

                        Is she told it is forbidden? I think that's sad. I know you chose what's important for yourself but i think it's unfair if your sister is being forbidden

                            Jen
                            Well, maybe I did not choose well the word... That practice is not.... welcomed in my home.
                            But however it is a true, in my home there is not a witch's hunter with parents opening doors without knocking or sneaking.

                                Ines Knowing how chastity belts came in your family, your sister does the only right thing. She was probably the only one who saw through the system. In any case, it has nothing to do with love. I saw your mother here on the forum a long time ago when I explained to her that what she was doing was abuse (you were a minor at the time, and your sister is younger than you). My back ran down my spine when she answered ( she told something about a chastity belt of love?!). I wish your sister a lot of strength and independence so that she does not bow to this regime.

                                    a_father

                                    so with the best will in the world

                                    If there is one family on this forum that is not abusive it is @Ines' family.

                                        Sin She was here. She probably didn't always like the opinion of other participants.

                                          Angelina Not my opinion.... I had a dispute with @Ines mother.
                                          I didn't really want to say anything more about that. But now that the conversation turned to Ines younger sister and it seems as if she was rebellious, I had to give my opinion. Anyone who buys a chastity belt to spice up her married life and is so enthusiastic about it that she also buys some for her daughters ... well....
                                          And @Ines younger sister refuses wearing the belt her mother bought for her. And, that is fine in my opinion.
                                          As said before: Not everything is what it looks like at first glance. First you buy sex toys and then you develop a new moral concept for the children from them. Well, one way or another, I told her. She didn't like that.
                                          In any case, you shouldn't make a big deal of it with the history if the youngest daughter wants to live her own sexuality.

                                              Sin
                                              Yes, she used to be here some years ago.
                                              Currently I maintain her updated.

                                                  a_father Not my opinion.... I had a dispute with @Ines mother.

                                                  I noticed that, although I still don't understand why, because....

                                                  a_father And @Ines younger sister refuses wearing the belt her mother bought for her. And, that is fine in my opinion.

                                                  ...@Ines and @Tere never said it wasn't OK. they accept that she doesn't wear the belt. they might like it better if she did, but they accept it.

                                                        Angelina For one thing, children want to please their parents. Therefore, buying a belt already creates pressure by itself. @Ines sister always made it clear that she would not wear the belt. Why was it bought anyway? Asking this her mother she reacted in an angry way. But I think the question was justified. When you take part in a forum, there can be uncomfortable questions, too.
                                                        If her mother had never bought this sex toy, @Ines would not be wearing a chastity belt now. Everything very unusual. 'Oh look, I bought a chastity belt for me to spice up the sexuality with my husband. Hey daughters, don't you like to wear a chastity belt and live in absolut chastity, because masturbation is bad...'
                                                        But we had the same discussion a long time ago and I wasn't alone with my opinion. It ended 'not good'. So we should stop. It is as it is, but the younger sister is not rebellious but just normal. This is the reason why I usually don't address @Ines in discussions directly. I don't want to criticize @Ines because at some point she is old enough to recognize the lack of logic in the game herself.
                                                        Only her sister has nothing to do with any of this and deserves her carefree youth. Time won't come back. You can walk around wearing a chastity belt to please your morher or you can live your life and keep your sexuality for yourself.

                                                            Joh

                                                            If she planned/wanted to do it,yes.

                                                            If only to avoid the chastity belt,I don't think so.

                                                            Ines

                                                            The first reason,I'm not sure.It would prevent her to have sex and to wear some clothes,but,except this,not sure it would affect how independent she is.It would depend on how she would react to wearing it,too.

                                                            The second is not a problem,it could fit well or be adjusted.

                                                            The third one is understandable,and right,it would be totally prevented,and it can be hard to not be able to do it anymore;especially if she's used to it.

                                                            The fourth one is logical too,it could be hard for her to wear it after she laugh about your decision so often(but it would not last long after she starts to wear it).

                                                            Angelina I'm a little worried that there's still something to come.

                                                            Me too.

                                                            Angelina She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example. 😉

                                                            Possible too,yes.

                                                            Ines

                                                            If caught doing it,would there be consequences,or only told to stop and reminded it is not allowed in their house?

                                                            Ines

                                                            Any chance she come back?

                                                            a_father Why was it bought anyway?

                                                            To have one ready if she wanted to wear it.As long as she's not forced to wear it,I don't consider it is a problem if they bought it.It is their money,they can decide to spend it on chastity belts,even if it can be wasted in this case.

                                                                            Vanessa If caught doing it,would there be consequences,or only told to stop and reminded it is not allowed in their house?

                                                                            It would be a very improbable situation, and very embarrassing, so probably my parents will turn a blind eye. I think that even she should not do it, it is so intimate that we can not do so much about it..

                                                                            Vanessa Any chance she come back?

                                                                            Maybe, she ask me usually about the forum, but she is less used to "internet environment" than me, so, sometimes she was not comfortable with some stories and behaviors.

                                                                                  a_father

                                                                                  frankly, i don't really understand your problem. when parents buy a belt, it can also be a preparatory act. in @Ine's family, everything is voluntary, but if the sister changes her mind, the belt is already there. you sometimes create problems where there are none.

                                                                                  Vanessa To have one ready if she wanted to wear it.As long as she's not forced to wear it,I don't consider it is a problem if they bought it.It is their money,they can decide to spend it on chastity belts,even if it can be wasted in this case.

                                                                                  I agree thank you

                                                                                        Vanessa clothes,but,except this,not sure it would affect how independent she is

                                                                                        Well, truly we are dependent on our keyholders for a lot of things, I think she does not like it so much.

                                                                                        Vanessa The second is not a problem,it could fit well or be adjusted.

                                                                                        Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...

                                                                                        Angelina i hope you understand the comparison

                                                                                        Yes, it is accurate, I think.