vyktoryah

I'm sorry, but can you just recap, which one of your sisters-in-law has moved out now, the one who is pregnant or the other one? and why do you have to wear the belt now but not your sister who still lives at home? i'm confused. I understand your frustration, but not really your text. 😂

vyktoryah all i know is libby cant close her door now and my other sister is just literally leaving

is libby the pregnant?

vyktoryah

you can always complain here, but yes of course you can't masturbate with the belt on.

vyktoryah sorry for the constant ranting im just on the verge of like flipping out this is a lot for me

let it out, i understand all your problems too well, we can't change much right now (only your mother can) but it's clear that it's a lot for you right now, it will get better soon but the beginning is horrible that's true

            vyktoryah yeah so far. its been pretty clean around the house now so thats good i feel.

            Good they take care of it,now.

            Rina I don't really feel it's a good sign... they can make up any "trouble" as an excuse... I hope they don't.

            Right.

            vyktoryah she said she wants to work up to doing longer periods but shes fully aware of the skin irritation

            Good.

            vyktoryah she said its okay if i dont use it for that week.

            Good too.

            vyktoryah my sister is actually moving in with her friend now to avoid having to wear one

            A bit extreme reaction!

            What your parents think about it?

            vyktoryah because i do it everyday

            If once everyday,it is not excessively,in my opinion.

            vyktoryah ill get through this and then ill say goodbye to it forever.

            I'm very surprised they have bought one for you,which is pretty expensive and woudl accept to use it "only" for a month...

            vyktoryah all i know is libby cant close her door now and my other sister is just literally leaving

            But when she's alone(not with your parents at home, I mean),I doubt she care about her door...

            vyktoryah i really cant touch myself at all in this. and its extremely frustrating to me, and it was super humiliating too

            Not surprising,and logical reactions.

            vyktoryah i dont really even think it would work

            Sorry,but it wouldn't...

            Laura

            Right!

            vyktoryah youre the admin

            She's the webmaster.

            Laura

            Not so sure,he seems skilled in it!

            Ines

            A bit surprising.Maybe she consider it,but is too scared to accept it,and try to infirm or confirm her fears about it with these talks.

            Can't she try for a set duration,and then decide if she would still wear it or not,as it is willingly,in your family?

            Angelina is libby the pregnant?

            I think so.

            Angelina the beginning is horrible that's true

            It's not perfect even after a longer time,but it's worse at the start,yes.

                                              Vanessa A bit extreme reaction!

                                              I think it is a logical reaction. If moving in with her friend is a good decision is questionable. She will figure out in the long run.

                                                  Vanessa Can't she try for a set duration,and then decide if she would still wear it or not,as it is willingly,in your family?

                                                  Yes, of course she could do it... But she is so much pride or stubborn.
                                                  It is a complex situation, it includes a lot of reasons, firstly she is, or she pretend be, very independent and she is afraid that a belt avoids it.
                                                  Another reason, I think, she was a bit curvy, and nowadays she is much more slim, I believe she was afraid of be uncomfortable in the belt (she would be right in this), and for that reason she rejected the belt.
                                                  It is curious that, I wrote it here a couple of years ago, while she was a bit fat, she asked for a corset, and nowadays she does not touch the topic...
                                                  In her rejection is important the fact that she... well, she touch herself in places where she should not. It is forbidden, but I know she does it.
                                                  And finally, I think, she rejected it so many times, and she made fun of us so many times that it would be very hard for her accept the chastity belt.

                                                      Vanessa I'm very surprised they have bought one for you,which is pretty expensive and woudl accept to use it "only" for a month...

                                                      I admit that I'm also surprised, I'm a little worried that there's still something to come.

                                                      Vanessa It's not perfect even after a longer time,but it's worse at the start,yes.

                                                      it is never perfect, but the beginning is the worst 🙁

                                                      Ines And finally, I think, she rejected it so many times, and she made fun of us so many times that it would be very hard for her accept the chastity belt.

                                                      She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example. 😉

                                                              Angelina She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example.

                                                              Yes, I think the same, but really we have not ever pressed her at all, so, I do not know what satisfaction she can give us....

                                                                  Ines Yes, I think the same, but really we have not ever pressed her at all, so, I do not know what satisfaction she can give us....

                                                                  this reminds me of a situation when i was very little and couldn't open a jam jar. my father told me beforehand that i needed help to do it, but i wanted to do it myself. it ended with me eating sausage on my roll because i didn't want to begrudge him this triumoh.

                                                                  i hope you understand the comparison 😃

                                                                  • Ines replied to this.

                                                                      vyktoryah It's really not that hard.
                                                                      If its a cheap padlock you might be even able to rake it.

                                                                      Although you could also just tell your parents that you will not wear the belt and will have it removed by fire department or police. You have all the leverage here.

                                                                        Ines well, she touch herself in places where she should not. It is forbidden, but I know she does it.

                                                                        Is she told it is forbidden? I think that's sad. I know you chose what's important for yourself but i think it's unfair if your sister is being forbidden

                                                                            Jen
                                                                            Well, maybe I did not choose well the word... That practice is not.... welcomed in my home.
                                                                            But however it is a true, in my home there is not a witch's hunter with parents opening doors without knocking or sneaking.

                                                                                Ines Knowing how chastity belts came in your family, your sister does the only right thing. She was probably the only one who saw through the system. In any case, it has nothing to do with love. I saw your mother here on the forum a long time ago when I explained to her that what she was doing was abuse (you were a minor at the time, and your sister is younger than you). My back ran down my spine when she answered ( she told something about a chastity belt of love?!). I wish your sister a lot of strength and independence so that she does not bow to this regime.

                                                                                    a_father

                                                                                    so with the best will in the world

                                                                                    If there is one family on this forum that is not abusive it is @Ines' family.

                                                                                        Sin She was here. She probably didn't always like the opinion of other participants.

                                                                                          Angelina Not my opinion.... I had a dispute with @Ines mother.
                                                                                          I didn't really want to say anything more about that. But now that the conversation turned to Ines younger sister and it seems as if she was rebellious, I had to give my opinion. Anyone who buys a chastity belt to spice up her married life and is so enthusiastic about it that she also buys some for her daughters ... well....
                                                                                          And @Ines younger sister refuses wearing the belt her mother bought for her. And, that is fine in my opinion.
                                                                                          As said before: Not everything is what it looks like at first glance. First you buy sex toys and then you develop a new moral concept for the children from them. Well, one way or another, I told her. She didn't like that.
                                                                                          In any case, you shouldn't make a big deal of it with the history if the youngest daughter wants to live her own sexuality.

                                                                                              Sin
                                                                                              Yes, she used to be here some years ago.
                                                                                              Currently I maintain her updated.

                                                                                                  a_father Not my opinion.... I had a dispute with @Ines mother.

                                                                                                  I noticed that, although I still don't understand why, because....

                                                                                                  a_father And @Ines younger sister refuses wearing the belt her mother bought for her. And, that is fine in my opinion.

                                                                                                  ...@Ines and @Tere never said it wasn't OK. they accept that she doesn't wear the belt. they might like it better if she did, but they accept it.

                                                                                                        Angelina For one thing, children want to please their parents. Therefore, buying a belt already creates pressure by itself. @Ines sister always made it clear that she would not wear the belt. Why was it bought anyway? Asking this her mother she reacted in an angry way. But I think the question was justified. When you take part in a forum, there can be uncomfortable questions, too.
                                                                                                        If her mother had never bought this sex toy, @Ines would not be wearing a chastity belt now. Everything very unusual. 'Oh look, I bought a chastity belt for me to spice up the sexuality with my husband. Hey daughters, don't you like to wear a chastity belt and live in absolut chastity, because masturbation is bad...'
                                                                                                        But we had the same discussion a long time ago and I wasn't alone with my opinion. It ended 'not good'. So we should stop. It is as it is, but the younger sister is not rebellious but just normal. This is the reason why I usually don't address @Ines in discussions directly. I don't want to criticize @Ines because at some point she is old enough to recognize the lack of logic in the game herself.
                                                                                                        Only her sister has nothing to do with any of this and deserves her carefree youth. Time won't come back. You can walk around wearing a chastity belt to please your morher or you can live your life and keep your sexuality for yourself.

                                                                                                            Joh

                                                                                                            If she planned/wanted to do it,yes.

                                                                                                            If only to avoid the chastity belt,I don't think so.

                                                                                                            Ines

                                                                                                            The first reason,I'm not sure.It would prevent her to have sex and to wear some clothes,but,except this,not sure it would affect how independent she is.It would depend on how she would react to wearing it,too.

                                                                                                            The second is not a problem,it could fit well or be adjusted.

                                                                                                            The third one is understandable,and right,it would be totally prevented,and it can be hard to not be able to do it anymore;especially if she's used to it.

                                                                                                            The fourth one is logical too,it could be hard for her to wear it after she laugh about your decision so often(but it would not last long after she starts to wear it).

                                                                                                            Angelina I'm a little worried that there's still something to come.

                                                                                                            Me too.

                                                                                                            Angelina She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example. 😉

                                                                                                            Possible too,yes.

                                                                                                            Ines

                                                                                                            If caught doing it,would there be consequences,or only told to stop and reminded it is not allowed in their house?

                                                                                                            Ines

                                                                                                            Any chance she come back?

                                                                                                            a_father Why was it bought anyway?

                                                                                                            To have one ready if she wanted to wear it.As long as she's not forced to wear it,I don't consider it is a problem if they bought it.It is their money,they can decide to spend it on chastity belts,even if it can be wasted in this case.