Seeking help and advice on situation
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Ines Knowing how chastity belts came in your family, your sister does the only right thing. She was probably the only one who saw through the system. In any case, it has nothing to do with love. I saw your mother here on the forum a long time ago when I explained to her that what she was doing was abuse (you were a minor at the time, and your sister is younger than you). My back ran down my spine when she answered ( she told something about a chastity belt of love?!). I wish your sister a lot of strength and independence so that she does not bow to this regime.
Angelina Not my opinion.... I had a dispute with @Ines mother.
I didn't really want to say anything more about that. But now that the conversation turned to Ines younger sister and it seems as if she was rebellious, I had to give my opinion. Anyone who buys a chastity belt to spice up her married life and is so enthusiastic about it that she also buys some for her daughters ... well....
And @Ines younger sister refuses wearing the belt her mother bought for her. And, that is fine in my opinion.
As said before: Not everything is what it looks like at first glance. First you buy sex toys and then you develop a new moral concept for the children from them. Well, one way or another, I told her. She didn't like that.
In any case, you shouldn't make a big deal of it with the history if the youngest daughter wants to live her own sexuality.
Angelina For one thing, children want to please their parents. Therefore, buying a belt already creates pressure by itself. @Ines sister always made it clear that she would not wear the belt. Why was it bought anyway? Asking this her mother she reacted in an angry way. But I think the question was justified. When you take part in a forum, there can be uncomfortable questions, too.
If her mother had never bought this sex toy, @Ines would not be wearing a chastity belt now. Everything very unusual. 'Oh look, I bought a chastity belt for me to spice up the sexuality with my husband. Hey daughters, don't you like to wear a chastity belt and live in absolut chastity, because masturbation is bad...'
But we had the same discussion a long time ago and I wasn't alone with my opinion. It ended 'not good'. So we should stop. It is as it is, but the younger sister is not rebellious but just normal. This is the reason why I usually don't address @Ines in discussions directly. I don't want to criticize @Ines because at some point she is old enough to recognize the lack of logic in the game herself.
Only her sister has nothing to do with any of this and deserves her carefree youth. Time won't come back. You can walk around wearing a chastity belt to please your morher or you can live your life and keep your sexuality for yourself.
If she planned/wanted to do it,yes.
If only to avoid the chastity belt,I don't think so.
The first reason,I'm not sure.It would prevent her to have sex and to wear some clothes,but,except this,not sure it would affect how independent she is.It would depend on how she would react to wearing it,too.
The second is not a problem,it could fit well or be adjusted.
The third one is understandable,and right,it would be totally prevented,and it can be hard to not be able to do it anymore;especially if she's used to it.
The fourth one is logical too,it could be hard for her to wear it after she laugh about your decision so often(but it would not last long after she starts to wear it).
Angelina I'm a little worried that there's still something to come.
Me too.
Angelina She probably doesn't want to give you or your mother the "satisfaction", for example.
Possible too,yes.
If caught doing it,would there be consequences,or only told to stop and reminded it is not allowed in their house?
Any chance she come back?
a_father Why was it bought anyway?
To have one ready if she wanted to wear it.As long as she's not forced to wear it,I don't consider it is a problem if they bought it.It is their money,they can decide to spend it on chastity belts,even if it can be wasted in this case.
Vanessa If caught doing it,would there be consequences,or only told to stop and reminded it is not allowed in their house?
It would be a very improbable situation, and very embarrassing, so probably my parents will turn a blind eye. I think that even she should not do it, it is so intimate that we can not do so much about it..
Vanessa Any chance she come back?
Maybe, she ask me usually about the forum, but she is less used to "internet environment" than me, so, sometimes she was not comfortable with some stories and behaviors.
frankly, i don't really understand your problem. when parents buy a belt, it can also be a preparatory act. in @Ine's family, everything is voluntary, but if the sister changes her mind, the belt is already there. you sometimes create problems where there are none.
Vanessa To have one ready if she wanted to wear it.As long as she's not forced to wear it,I don't consider it is a problem if they bought it.It is their money,they can decide to spend it on chastity belts,even if it can be wasted in this case.
I agree thank you
Vanessa clothes,but,except this,not sure it would affect how independent she is
Well, truly we are dependent on our keyholders for a lot of things, I think she does not like it so much.
Vanessa The second is not a problem,it could fit well or be adjusted.
Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...
Angelina i hope you understand the comparison
Yes, it is accurate, I think.
Ines Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...
your sister is younger than you, right? then she probably gained some weight during puberty. it may be that the belt no longer fits her anyway.
and yes christmas is a bad time for chastity belts 
Ines It would be a very improbable situation, and very embarrassing, so probably my parents will turn a blind eye. I think that even she should not do it, it is so intimate that we can not do so much about it..
Very embarrassing,sure!
Good it would have not much consequences,however.
Ines Maybe, she ask me usually about the forum, but she is less used to "internet environment" than me, so, sometimes she was not comfortable with some stories and behaviors.
Understandable.
Let's hope she come back soon,anyway,her posts were interesting.
Ines truly we are dependent on our keyholders for a lot of things
Right,I haven't thought it this way.
Ines Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...
Sometimes,it needs time to fit well again,sure,but it usually don't last long.
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Angelina frankly, i don't really understand your problem. when parents buy a belt, it can also be a preparatory act. in @Ine's family, everything is voluntary, but if the sister changes her mind, the belt is already there. you sometimes create problems where there are none.
A belt is very expensive. You don't buy one if you don't expect it will be worn. We don't talk about a cheap shirt...
But my problem is, that @Ines talks about her 'rebellious' sister. But with her sister everything is fine. Here you can see how family members think about her sister
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Angelina your sister is younger than you, right? then she probably gained some weight during puberty
Well she was a bit lazy about sports, fortunately I could change it a bit.
Now she is perfect!
Vanessa Right,I haven't thought it this way.
Yes, and I think she does not want change it.
Vanessa Sometimes,it needs time to fit well again,sure,but it usually don't last long.
Gap is very narrow, and she took some weight in short time, for sure it was very tight.
so first of all it depends on the financial circumstances whether a belt is expensive or not. my father does not find it expensive. secondly, rebellious is not a swear word, only within the family she is the rebel. 
Ines Now she is perfect!
Good 