Vanessa Unfortunately,my parents think there is options,even if we would agree that these are not good options(punishment,unwillingly use of a chastity belt...).🙁

But it is only impose a piece of steel, the true meaning of wear a chastity belt is lost irretrievably, and further I do not know if maybe in homes where physical punishment is accepted, but in my home such action would rot the environment.

But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!😉
Yes, and you know that I know that this depends on cultural and educational environment, and I can no judge, I am used to girls that do it without any problem, but I know what I should say to my daughters.

Vanessa Don't you think she would care more about keeping the same weight most of time is she wears one,to keep it comfortable?

Yes, but firstly it should fit comfortably, and she get fat. Currently, for example, she could wear it comfortably, and it is a good way to maintain our weight.

Vanessa I agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.

However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.

          Vanessa But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!😉

          that's not even us involuntary wearers among ourselves. i differentiate between singles and couples 😉

          Vanessa agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.

          correct and sometimes even as a positive, depending on the context.

          Ines However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.

          Do you think there is a connection between the fact that she has rather poor grades as you describe and not wearing the belt?

                  Angelina

                  Angelina Do you think there is a connection between the fact that she has rather poor grades as you describe and not wearing the belt?

                  Well, My sister and me always achieved very high marks, her marks are not a catastrophe, but are pretty lower than ours.
                  No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.

                        Ines No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.

                        i think so too, i only asked because there are different opinions on this here

                          Ines But it is only impose a piece of steel, the true meaning of wear a chastity belt is lost irretrievably, and further I do not know if maybe in homes where physical punishment is accepted, but in my home such action would rot the environment.

                          Personally,I think there could still be a good ambiance most of the time(in my family,at least),but of course,it is not the best way to use chastity and I would prefer there is no corporal punishment(and even no punishment,cornertime,grounding,etc...are not much better,even more at 26).

                          Ines you know that I know that this depends on cultural and educational environment

                          I guess so,yes.

                          Ines it is a good way to maintain our weight.

                          Right,even if only a side-effect.

                          Ines However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.

                          Logical.

                          Angelina that's not even us involuntary wearers among ourselves. i differentiate between singles and couples 😉

                          I know!😉

                          And we would never agree about it too!😉

                          Ines No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.

                          Not directly,yes.

                          But,if we try to concentrate on other things,and if one of these is studies,it may have some impact.But a probably low impact.

                          My parents think a bit otherwise,my twin had to wear his chastity cage for some time when he had several bad grades in a row,to make him concentrate more on studying...

                                        Vanessa And we would never agree about it too!😉

                                        probably not, no 😉

                                        Vanessa my twin had to wear his chastity cage for some time when he had several bad grades in a row,to make him concentrate more on studying...

                                        does it worked?

                                              Angelina does it worked?

                                              Yes,but I think mainly because he wanted to end this punishment as soon as possible than because he concentrated more on his studies.

                                                  Vanessa Yes,but I think mainly because he wanted to end this punishment as soon as possible than because he concentrated more on his studies.

                                                  i thought the punishments were limited in time, or did he have to wear the cage until his grades improved?

                                                      Angelina

                                                      Generally,it is for a decided amount of time,yes,but,this time,it was related to his grades.

                                                          Vanessa Generally,it is for a decided amount of time,yes,but,this time,it was related to his grades.

                                                          ah ok and i think if the grades hadn't improved he would have been back in the cage very quickly right?

                                                              Vanessa If his grades hadn't improved,he would had to stay longer in it.

                                                              but you said it was temporary. what exactly was the criterion?

                                                                  Angelina

                                                                  Until he got 2-3 good grades,and so,proved he managed to improve these.

                                                                      Vanessa Until he got 2-3 good grades,and so,proved he managed to improve these.

                                                                      and as long as this did not happen, the punishment was simply extended again and again, or how can i imagine this?

                                                                          Angelina A temporary punishment need not have a fixed term. It is still temporary if there is a way out that does not take years and/or a fundamental life change. She said that usually (at least that is how I interpret the "generally") the punishments were for a predetermined time, but that does not mean that this particular instance was.

                                                                              youdontknowme A temporary punishment need not have a fixed term.

                                                                              I see it differently, at least I would call it differently

                                                                                Vanessa Exactly,often it is for two weeks to a month,but,this time,it was until his grades improved.

                                                                                so it was always different? sometimes for a time and sometimes until the grades improved?

                                                                                    Vanessa It was the only time it was not for a set duration,so more an exception

                                                                                    ah ok, of course not so good for your brother